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nolegirl



Joined: 17 Apr 2008

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 6:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Western women get bashed so I thought it was acceptable if I bashed on western men. Deal with it.

BTW I did not think I was bashing, I enjoy the company of westen men, I was just trying to prove a point but obviously to no avail.
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iknownothing



Joined: 14 May 2008

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 6:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

native korean girls eat less meat, cheese and cream.
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Big_Bird



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: Sometimes here sometimes there...

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 6:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Underwaterbob wrote:
So it's ok to bash western men in Korea then?


Yes, gloves are off!

*gleeful*

Right then you ugly fat buggers!




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Underwaterbob



Joined: 08 Jan 2005
Location: In Cognito

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 6:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Calling most of us fat and ugly and telling us our Korean girlfriends would leave us if they saw all the good looking males in North America isn't bashing? Telling us to count our blessings that Korean women have no one better to date than us otherwise we'd be "jerking off to hustler on a Saturday night" like we did when living back home isn't bashing?

I agree with you that western women get bashed on here and that's completely and entirely wrong, but bashing back simply promotes the stereotype of bitter, western women that is so prevalent, and wrong, around here.

You're using the playground argument: "I know you are but what am I?". Grow up.
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Underwaterbob



Joined: 08 Jan 2005
Location: In Cognito

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 6:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sorry, I'm not really this righteous. My sense of justice is overdeveloped today. I read too many idealistic comic books or something.
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crusher_of_heads



Joined: 23 Feb 2007
Location: kimbop and kimchi for kimberly!!!!

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 7:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If Western Fat Broads are offended they could always eat less and exercise more.


You are welcome.
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aarontendo



Joined: 08 Feb 2006
Location: Daegu-ish

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 8:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't really mind if people are fat, it's pretty much their own issue.

What I really don't understand are those that wear those 4x shirts and wear shit on em like "Big Daddy" and crap, it's like yeah don't try to be proud of all that.
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Flash Ipanema



Joined: 29 Sep 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 8:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If Western Fat Dudes are offended they could always eat less and exercise more.


You are welcome.



Didn't this thread start out asking about Westernized vs Non-Westernized Korean women?
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Atavistic



Joined: 22 May 2006
Location: How totally stupid that Korean doesn't show in this area.

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 9:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Flash Ipanema wrote:

Didn't this thread start out asking about Westernized vs Non-Westernized Korean women?


Yes, but a few choice men (Justin Hale being a prime example, as he does this to nearly every thread) turned it into their own fat-woman-hating rant.

Again.

Shock o' shocks.

Seriously, you know how they've done studies on really homophobic men in prison and found that they have really high erotic reactions to gay porn? I think maybe these guys have gotten blown off by fat women when they really want them.
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KirbyMagnus



Joined: 05 Apr 2008
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 10:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

All of the western women in Korea are fat, bitchy, bitter dykes. All of the Korean women are sleek, toned, raven haired and gagging for it.

The men here are all super buff, deadlift 500kg, have IQ's of 300, earn 5 million a month, and can make a woman gush like a fire hydrant just by looking at them.

That is what I am led to believe by Dave's anyway. Not sure whether this is a discussion forum sometimes or Second Life.

Anyway to answer the original question. I like Korean women a lot. But with a lot of them there seems to be issues there. I would prefer a westernized woman because she would be a lot more independent and not bound by societal pressure. I would rather have a woman dump me because she doesn't like me not because she was afraid of the stigma attached to dating a foreigner. I think being dumped like that would hit a lot harder.
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nateium



Joined: 21 Aug 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 10:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

KirbyMagnus wrote:
All of the western women in Korea are fat, bitchy, bitter dykes. All of the Korean women are sleek, toned, raven haired and gagging for it.

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Not very far from my experience here. Smile

nolegirl wrote:
...you would probably find yourself at home jerking off to Hustler on a Saturday night like you were doing when living back home.


That's an important point. When around 30% of the available women (or men) are overweight or obese, that severely limits the dating options.

In a normal country like Korea, that means one is roughly 30% less likely to be spanking it at home.
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lostandforgotten



Joined: 19 Sep 2006

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2008 11:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

KirbyMagnus wrote:
All of the western women in Korea are fat, bitchy, bitter dykes. All of the Korean women are sleek, toned, raven haired and gagging for it.

The men here are all super buff, deadlift 500kg, have IQ's of 300, earn 5 million a month, and can make a woman gush like a fire hydrant just by looking at them.

That is what I am led to believe by Dave's anyway. Not sure whether this is a discussion forum sometimes or Second Life.

Anyway to answer the original question. I like Korean women a lot. But with a lot of them there seems to be issues there. I would prefer a westernized woman because she would be a lot more independent and not bound by societal pressure. I would rather have a woman dump me because she doesn't like me not because she was afraid of the stigma attached to dating a foreigner. I think being dumped like that would hit a lot harder.


When you mean westernized woman, do you mean gyopos or westernized native Korean women? Most westernized native Korean women seem to be of the younger generation. BTW, I never expected this thread to turn into a western man / western woman bashing thread. Let's try not to generalize and be so quick to put labels.
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KirbyMagnus



Joined: 05 Apr 2008
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Fri May 23, 2008 12:38 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

lostandforgotten wrote:
KirbyMagnus wrote:
All of the western women in Korea are fat, bitchy, bitter dykes. All of the Korean women are sleek, toned, raven haired and gagging for it.

The men here are all super buff, deadlift 500kg, have IQ's of 300, earn 5 million a month, and can make a woman gush like a fire hydrant just by looking at them.

That is what I am led to believe by Dave's anyway. Not sure whether this is a discussion forum sometimes or Second Life.

Anyway to answer the original question. I like Korean women a lot. But with a lot of them there seems to be issues there. I would prefer a westernized woman because she would be a lot more independent and not bound by societal pressure. I would rather have a woman dump me because she doesn't like me not because she was afraid of the stigma attached to dating a foreigner. I think being dumped like that would hit a lot harder.


When you mean westernized woman, do you mean gyopos or westernized native Korean women? Most westernized native Korean women seem to be of the younger generation. BTW, I never expected this thread to turn into a western man / western woman bashing thread. Let's try not to generalize and be so quick to put labels.


I would like a Gyopo. Maybe because we would have similar experiences of feeling like a stranger in a strange land. I don't know really. If she was American then I would marry her just so I could get a green card Smile

If westernized means having a western mindset rather than being obsessed with western culture then I would rather have a native Korean .

Don't get me wrong, I love the West but I came to the East to sample something different. I think when Korean women let their hair down they are great fun to be with. They have a lot of traits that are admirable, but when it comes to relationships they can be a bit childish. I just feel some of them are too bound by old ideas about a womans place in society and use it as an excuse to be timid and not take risks. The lifestyle many aspire to is the one I came to escape.

It's a tricky question.

Just to add. I have seen some pretty hot western girls whilst I have been out here, and some butt ugly Koreans. You don't get blonde Koreans. Or Redheads.
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Stormy



Joined: 10 Jan 2008
Location: Here & there

PostPosted: Fri May 23, 2008 1:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Underwaterbob wrote:

You're using the playground argument: "I know you are but what am I?". Grow up.


I always liked that one....but my favourite was "you are what you say you are" followed by the poking out of the tongue. Those were the days.
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shaggy



Joined: 11 Sep 2007

PostPosted: Fri May 23, 2008 6:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Justin Hale wrote:
shaggy wrote:

Don't forget that men can also be obese and while the US does have a higher rate of obesity it doesn't mean that every American is overweight.


The above reminds me of a memorable occasion on British comedy Fawlty Towers when Basil Fawlty said ...."you should go on 'Mastermind' and your specialist subject should be 'stating the bleeding obvious'..." Laughing


Don't forget we are posting on Daves Esl Cafe- a place were emotions and opinion rule the day not fact and logic. Sometimes the obvious needs to be stated. There are still thin people in the US and by looking at your chart many more thinner Canadians and Australians.

Shaggy wrote:
Oh by the way Korea and Japan do have a big problem with heart disease and diabetes. A lot of Asians are a risk for those diseases at lower BMI's of 20-22.

So?




The point I was trying to make is that BMI is a very crude diagnostic tool. It doesn't take into account muscle mass. A trained athlete will fall into the higher unhealthy BMI range becasue muscle mass weighs more then fat. A thin person who keeps thin by smoking but not by exercising has less muscle mass then healthy. Those people would fall into a healthy BMI even though their lifestyle is unhealthy and they are skinny-fat.

Perhaps BMI cannot be trusted to give us a clear picture of obesity in the US and other countries.
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