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640x480
Joined: 02 Apr 2008
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 1:26 am Post subject: Finally in Korea! |
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That's right folks, after 14 of the most grueling hours in the same seated position, I am eating rice and loving it.
First, I really want to recommend Korvia recruiting. I met with my recruiter Ann earlier today and she is great. She's a very capable recruiter in the Gyungi area.
I'm meeting with the school administrators in a couple days. I've been hearing some really great information about my school. Fantastic right? Apparently they have very high standards and I'm worried about meeting their expectations. My transcript isn't exactly cum laude either. I know I am capable of really doing a great job, I just hope they don't make unfair judgements before I start.
An experienced teacher friend said I should be firm and maybe a little bit scary the first couple weeks. Would you recommend this?
Oh! Also, not to be rude, but the people here look obsessed with fashion and looking posh (stuck up).  |
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KYC
Joined: 11 May 2006
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 1:32 am Post subject: |
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where in Gyeonggi?
I worked with Ann originally...she was professional up until the last minute. I won't badmouth Korvia since they're so highly regarded here.
It's true. An old saying..."don't crack a smile til Christmas"
Relax. But do make sure the kids respect you in case you might be left alone with no Korean teachers. |
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640x480
Joined: 02 Apr 2008
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 1:42 am Post subject: |
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Could you PM me about what happened at the last minute? Since we shared recruiter and all... |
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KYC
Joined: 11 May 2006
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 1:55 am Post subject: |
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Recruiters are a dime a dozen. I don't harbor hard feelings. I just won't use them again or recommend them to friends.
Ann and I communicated a lot. She told me I was guaranteed a position with GEPIK. She told me to wait. I never heard back for a about a month so I emailed her one day asking what I should do. She said positions were all filled up and she couldn't offer me anything.
Hilarious since there's always a shortage of teachers. Hilarious since I still got a gepik job through another recruiter. Hilarious indeed. |
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spliff

Joined: 19 Jan 2004 Location: Khon Kaen, Thailand
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 2:59 am Post subject: Re: Finally in Korea! |
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640x480 wrote: |
Oh! Also, not to be rude, but the people here look obsessed with fashion and looking posh (stuck up).  |
How does "obsessed with fashion and looking posh" equate to being "stuck up"? What's wrong w/ trying your best to look your best? What do you wear...old jeans and a tee? Do you have long hair, face piercings and tattoos? Actually, I prefer the "posh" look to the jailbird any time of the week. |
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TOMODACHI-KID

Joined: 24 Apr 2007 Location: LAND OF THE RISING SUN: TAKASAGO-KATSUSHIKA
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 4:38 am Post subject: Re: Finally in Korea! |
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spliff wrote: |
640x480 wrote: |
Oh! Also, not to be rude, but the people here look obsessed with fashion and looking posh (stuck up).  |
How does "obsessed with fashion and looking posh" equate to being "stuck up"? What's wrong w/ trying your best to look your best? What do you wear...old jeans and a tee? Do you have long hair, face piercings and tattoos? Actually, I prefer the "posh" look to the jailbird any time of the week. |
He may be the type with a straw (from haystack) in his mouth, and somewhere from some obscure "boonie in the states!"
Wow, he's really in for a rude awakening--yes, the school system welcomes you with open arms...can already see trouble--he states that the school he's due to work for has high standards, yet hired someone as, per se, mediocre...their gonna have a field day with you...Oh, and if you listen to your friend's advice, you'll be definitely adding more fuel to the fire!!! Enjoy your rice....
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Kimchieluver

Joined: 02 Mar 2005
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 5:05 am Post subject: |
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Welcome to Korea. You get out of it what you put in. You may not like the style, but the women's fashion here is not hard on the eyes at all. Nothing wrong with skirts, is there? |
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bogey666

Joined: 17 Mar 2008 Location: Korea, the ass free zone
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 5:54 am Post subject: Re: Finally in Korea! |
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640x480 wrote: |
That's right folks, after 14 of the most grueling hours in the same seated position, I am eating rice and loving it.
First, I really want to recommend Korvia recruiting. I met with my recruiter Ann earlier today and she is great. She's a very capable recruiter in the Gyungi area.
I'm meeting with the school administrators in a couple days. I've been hearing some really great information about my school. Fantastic right? Apparently they have very high standards and I'm worried about meeting their expectations. My transcript isn't exactly cum laude either. I know I am capable of really doing a great job, I just hope they don't make unfair judgements before I start.
An experienced teacher friend said I should be firm and maybe a little bit scary the first couple weeks. Would you recommend this?
Oh! Also, not to be rude, but the people here look obsessed with fashion and looking posh (stuck up).  |
good luck and best wishes.
among many cultural differences you will find people place a big premium on looks, but even more so, presentation.
so in your school, I'd say overdress, at least for starters. never be the sloppiest dressed.
re cracking a smile. I woludn't go that far. Be happy outgoing and a smile a lot, but the moment the kids start fucking with you, be firm and take control.. as every child/kid does since they become aware of environment, they will constantly test and push to see what and how much they can get away with. First with parents. Then at school.
I don't let mine get away with much. But I smile a lot. I especially like giving them a completely fake 'you're fucked' smile when I grab their cellphones away. |
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rochej
Joined: 16 May 2008
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 2:48 pm Post subject: so what are you suppose to wear |
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I definately dont think of myself as a scrub, but I am planning on coming over there and teaching after I graduate in June and yes, most of my clothes are tee-shirts, polos, and jeans. I have 3 pairs of dress pants, and about 7 nice shirts, so is that what I am suppose to wear everyday, like dress pants and a tucked in nice shirt.... if so that blows. And i need to know so that i can get some more clothes. |
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640x480
Joined: 02 Apr 2008
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 3:16 pm Post subject: |
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Spliff: Just seems there is an air of arrogance. There are plenty of good down to earth people, it is just my personal view that people shouldn't be obsessing over superficial things.
TOMODACHI: Don't worry, I have always been fashion conscious. Oh, and I can't tell if you comment was rude or just sarcastic, but either way I'm pretty tired of posters like you.
Kimchieluver: It's hard to argue with your there.
bogey666: Thank you. I'll try to keep what you wrote in mind when I'm actually in there.
I'm Korean myself and love this place. I'm just upset about the state of people's mind in this country. Pop culture and fashion seems to be all they care about. [/b] |
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bogey666

Joined: 17 Mar 2008 Location: Korea, the ass free zone
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 3:49 pm Post subject: Re: so what are you suppose to wear |
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rochej wrote: |
I definately dont think of myself as a scrub, but I am planning on coming over there and teaching after I graduate in June and yes, most of my clothes are tee-shirts, polos, and jeans. I have 3 pairs of dress pants, and about 7 nice shirts, so is that what I am suppose to wear everyday, like dress pants and a tucked in nice shirt.... if so that blows. And i need to know so that i can get some more clothes. |
if you are teaching in a public school, (though this depends on the school) you can wear khakis and a collared shirt and you should be more than appropriately dressed. I can actually wear jeans in my school and may do that later.. (I'll introduce the cultural concept of "Casual Fridays") but for now khakis and shirt will do fine and I'm considered "professional".
in PS, don't worry about shoes, you will be taking them off and wearing plastic sandals (you'll see how prevalent this is when you come to Korea, in school and everywhere else)
can't comment on hogwans but I suspect they want little Kim's Mom who's shelling out big bucks to send her son/daughter to an institute to be impressed by your presentation (appearance/grooming) at least if not your looks.
re appearance and pop culture.. don't stress. Life's too short.. don't worry and be happy.
in Venezuela, their idea of culture is going to the mall and watching the latest hottest telenovela.
As discomforting as that may be at times,, hell life's too short to stress about such things. So long as they're happy and you're happy, who cares?
Americans shouldn't be too judgmental about lack of culture, etc because the US of A practically defines/has defined the idea. Who after all invented, promoted and glorified "pop culture"? |
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Gamecock

Joined: 26 Nov 2003
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 4:03 pm Post subject: |
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Welcome to Korea and enjoy your honeymoon period! Yes, I always recommend being firm with your classes at the beginning. You can soften up later after you've earned their respect. Of course all in moderation, you can still be fun and funny in the classroom while maintaining classroom discipline. If you start out trying to be their friend it will be hard to maintain control somewhere down the line...unless you are working in public school and have a bada$$ Korean co-teacher who carries a stick around and beats the students into submission. In that situation, definitely enjoy being the "good cop" to his/her "bad cop." |
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squexx
Joined: 24 Mar 2008 Location: Korea
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 8:49 pm Post subject: |
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Gamecock wrote: |
Welcome to Korea and enjoy your honeymoon period! Yes, I always recommend being firm with your classes at the beginning. |
I was wondering myself how long the honeymoon phase would be and the "reality" of Korea starts to set in. It seems to vary by situation and location.....and what kind of kids you get stuck with. |
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Cerriowen
Joined: 03 Jun 2006 Location: Pocheon
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 9:07 pm Post subject: |
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Where in Gyunggi? |
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ajgeddes

Joined: 28 Apr 2004 Location: Yongsan
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 9:07 pm Post subject: |
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I used Ann when she was with Work'n'play and I was starting with GEPIK. She let me choose what school I wanted to be put in. I was going to use her again and she found me a good position, but then I found a better one. |
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