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murr

Joined: 11 Jan 2008
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 6:15 am Post subject: To the spoilt teachers out there who choose to whine... |
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Have you considered that possibly 90% of the world's adult population is either unemployed, or engaged in back-breaking labour for pitiful wages? And here we are, earning FAT salaries (by global standards) for an extremely comfortable job. We are in a very privileged position, and anyone who chooses to complain about their work situation needs to look beyond themselves, and start appreciating what they have. It's embarrassing the way some of the teachers here moan.
Spend a few months traveling through Africa, witness how happy so many of these people are despite their sometimes shocking circumstances, and then consider your situation here in Korea.
This is not meant as a sermon. It is as much a reminder to myself to be appreciative for what I have. |
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PeteJB
Joined: 06 Jul 2007
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 6:24 am Post subject: |
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It's the human condition to occasionally strive for something more and better out of life, because said person feels they are not fulfilling their goals in life. |
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Draz

Joined: 27 Jun 2007 Location: Land of Morning Clam
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 6:30 am Post subject: |
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Having job troubles, Murr? Let it out. Let it all out. |
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Sody
Joined: 14 May 2006
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 6:31 am Post subject: |
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I understand the reason why you posted and I even agree with some of what you wrote, but your post isn't very practical or logical. Why would an ESL teacher in Korea compare their salary with a laborer in another country? You are assuming the two jobs are comparable? Is there equality between jobs even in the same country? I work in a public school but I don't consider my job to a priveleged position lol.
I agree with you that all people shouldn't complain unnecessarily and that we should all try and be thankful for what we have but there are MANY legitimate and reasonable complaints on this forum. If you've noticed as well, there are many complainers who get burned for whining and moaning about the dumbest things. Posters like Fromtheuk and that guy Editor. I think most people know the difference between the complaints that are reasonable and those that are not.
When you travel thousands of miles into a foreign country and work hard and try your best but end up getting treated like sh*t you have every right to complain.
You sound like a noob. |
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Return Jones

Joined: 06 Feb 2004 Location: I will see you in far-off places
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 6:45 am Post subject: |
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Happy Hour at Murr's house!  |
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southern boy
Joined: 29 Sep 2007
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 6:48 am Post subject: |
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I think moaning is one of the healthiest ways to stress out your frustration and stress that's why women are naturally less violent than men. Reading on Dave esl, it's what keep me sane and entertained from the stressful korean workng environment.
Yea I was happy back home with a $9 an hour job, life was nice and simple, I admit Korea did spoil me abit. Anyway on whose authority gave you the right to preach us Pope?  |
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aka Dave
Joined: 02 May 2008 Location: Down by the river
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 6:53 am Post subject: |
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I teach at a Uni where I'm the only foreign teacher. That's right, this whole semester, since March 1st, I've only talked to Koreans, whom I freakin love because they're great to me.
However, I don't have any person, individual, thingy, to vent about being an ex-pat. Well, I do email my homies back in the states who think the beef thing is crazy, but I can't talk to my students about that, as they are all of one opinion, and that's cool man .
Venting is fine as long as you know when and where to do it. |
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Kimchieyescream
Joined: 13 Jan 2008
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 6:56 am Post subject: |
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southern boy wrote: |
I think moaning is one of the healthiest ways to stress out your frustration and stress that's why women are naturally less violent than men. Reading on Dave esl, it's what keep me sane and entertained from the stressful korean workng environment.
Yea I was happy back home with a $9 an hour job, life was nice and simple, I admit Korea did spoil me abit. Anyway on whose authority gave you the right to preach us Pope?  |
Are you on pain killers?  |
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agoodmouse

Joined: 20 Dec 2007 Location: Anyang
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 7:26 am Post subject: Re: To the spoilt teachers out there who choose to whine... |
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murr wrote: |
Have you considered that possibly 90% of the world's adult population is either unemployed, or engaged in back-breaking labour for pitiful wages? And here we are, earning FAT salaries (by global standards) for an extremely comfortable job.
Spend a few months traveling through Africa, witness how happy so many of these people are despite their sometimes shocking circumstances, and then consider your situation here in Korea. This is not meant as a sermon. It is as much a reminder to myself to be appreciative for what I have. |
murr wrote: |
We are in a very privileged position, and anyone who chooses to complain about their work situation needs to look beyond themselves, and start appreciating what they have. It's embarrassing the way some of the teachers here moan. |
Unsure of your statistic's provenance, it goes without saying everyone in Korea has problems and critical situations in life that, yes, compared to a starving baby in Africa, appear meaningless.
Let's not make the sophomoric mistake of feeling any less righteous about an injustice done to a teacher here in Korea simply because he/she wasn't born an orphan in Uganda. That would show only hyper global perspective, without any local perspective. A balance of local and global perspective is needed. |
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GoldMember
Joined: 24 Oct 2006
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 11:55 am Post subject: |
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I agree, we should not whine.
Next time you don't get paid, even though the Hogwon owner drives a Lexus, think of the starving children, that'll put a smile back on your dial.
I didn't get paid, I'm sooooo lucky. I've hit the jackpot, with any luck, I might be on a winning streak and not get paid next month!
One month later....
Woo Hoo, I've hit the jackpot! Not being paid for 2 MONTHS in a row.
Up yours starving children, I'm much better off than you guys I've worked for nothing for 2 months. |
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Bigfeet

Joined: 29 May 2008 Location: Grrrrr.....
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 12:39 pm Post subject: |
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It's all relative. People coming from rich countries expect the same type of accommodations abroad or they get jittery. Going to Korea for a 1st worlder can be a step down whereas to a 3rd worlder it would be a definite step up. |
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Ya-ta Boy
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: Established in 1994
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 1:16 pm Post subject: |
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I didn't get paid, I'm sooooo lucky. |
Isn't there a quantitative difference between that and these:
a) Waaaah, that ajumma beat me out for a seat on the subway!
b) Mommmmmmy, that middle school girl shouted 'Hello' at me. Make her stop. |
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flakfizer

Joined: 12 Nov 2004 Location: scaling the Cliffs of Insanity with a frayed rope.
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 3:23 pm Post subject: Re: To the spoilt teachers out there who choose to whine... |
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murr wrote: |
Have you considered that possibly 90% of the world's adult population is either unemployed, or engaged in back-breaking labour for pitiful wages? And here we are, earning FAT salaries (by global standards) for an extremely comfortable job. We are in a very privileged position, and anyone who chooses to complain about their work situation needs to look beyond themselves, and start appreciating what they have. It's embarrassing the way some of the teachers here moan.
Spend a few months traveling through Africa, witness how happy so many of these people are despite their sometimes shocking circumstances, and then consider your situation here in Korea.
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I think everyone knows this is true, but it doesn't solve anything. Would you tell a person who is seriously ill he should stop moaning because there are many people who are in even worse condition? Would you tell someone who was just ripped out of a month's pay to stop moaning because some people have been ripped out of three month's pay? I agree it's good to keep things in perspective and it is also good to look outward and see the suffering of others and not just be consumed with ourselves, but I don't think the "hey, others have it worse" line is all that effective in helping people deal with their own problems. |
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PRagic

Joined: 24 Feb 2006
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 3:35 pm Post subject: |
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10 to 1 says the OP turns Republican as soon as he/she starts making more than 60K a year. |
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rusty1983
Joined: 30 Jan 2007
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Posted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 3:59 pm Post subject: |
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The Africa argument is an enormous cliche, everytime something bad happens you cant just think of that
- I missed the bus I cant believe it(Im not in Africa not in Africa)
- My girlfriend is shaggin me best mate (At least im not in Africa not in Africa)
- I have lost my job and my wifes taken my daughter and run off with her fitness instructor (oh well, at least im not in Africa)
- President X has ruined my country, turned the whole world against my countrymen and left me in financial ruin (nevermind, Africa is worse)
(I wonder what an African would say if you told him that you think of him when things go wrong, so you can feel better about yourself)
and blah blah blah....Its actually a good attitude to have, but it doesnt work in this world because if you turn a blind eye to people trying to shaft and degrade you then youll end up shafted and miserable, you have to get in the game. Not a great way to be but it is what it is.
And people do need to complain sometimes, if enough people complain hard enough then things do change eventually, and when they do we all feel the benefits.
However, I do think you need to be slightly positive where possible, because negativity is infectious and it takes on a life of its own. I had a friend in Korea who began with some small problems, and they snowballed because of said friends negative attitudes.
I myself think the moaners should try and keep their sense of humour, its what we do in England and even though theres alot of problems, its funny to hear someone moaning...you need the gallows humour cos otherwise youll go mad.
The people who just moan for the sake, just cos theyre unhappy and want everyone to know, they get ignored and therein lies your answer - ignore them...stop reading every single post on here and get on with your own life man!!! |
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