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jangsalgida



Joined: 11 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 3:24 am    Post subject: Love Rods in Hand Reply with quote

The size and shape does vary. To all newbies...A love rod is called as such because when the teacher hits the student they probably say sarang hae oh/i love you or this(beating/whacking) is because I love you.

Sadly, it's been going on for years and although its now illegal it just isn't about to stop. Of course that doesn't mean you can do it, you are a foreign teacher and you are not equal to any Korean teacher as you already know due to the Medical test and HIV that you must take while the Korean teacher does not.

I'm new at this since it's my first time working at a public school as a so-called "Public School Teacher," but I've been in S. Korea for 4 years. I do not know how long I can put up with almost every male(some females though not as obvious) Korean teacher holding and walking proudly with their weapon. One teacher has and does openly inform me of its use.

I haven't even seen anything(beatings) yet, but the thought of it is just about enough to make me call it an end to this place. Their way of making all students the same is so backwards and laughable especially in a so-called democratic country that has sucked off American tax payers for years.

When anyone talks about S. Korea's low level of international education recognition, then all one has to do is point to almost any school in S. Korea, visit it at any time without a heads-up and you will see the level of F****** backwardness.


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Whistleblower



Joined: 03 Feb 2007

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 3:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Is it me or is this thread written by an adult on drugs?
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jangsalgida



Joined: 11 Jan 2006

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 3:55 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Whistleblower wrote:
Is it me or is this thread written by an adult on drugs?


It's you! If you got a problem with something let it be known. What don't you get? Are you high or drunk? Why don't you go manage some program? You are not a public school teacher nor do you want to be the last time I knew, when are you going home...?

http://forums.eslcafe.com/korea/viewtopic.php?t=125562&highlight=
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nuthatch



Joined: 21 Feb 2008

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 5:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

jangsalgida,

I was thinking some similar things yesterday as I was attempting to teach in a boys middle school...i sent a couple of guys out of the classroom because they were disrespectful and disruptive...

however, when I opened the door to the hall a while later to retrieve them back into the classroom, the so-called co-teacher had the stick in her hand and the two boys had their pant legs rolled up ...i guess she whacked them ...(WTF...it is supposed to be illegal ?!) i told them to come back inside ...and i regret that this happened to them...the kids here do not really seem that bad to me...especially compared to U.S. public schools...but they are rowdy between classes and there is absolutely no supervision feedback (studies have shown that boys particularly at this age need mentoring) on the floors during breaks...they are really out of control...

i have confronted the so-called vice-prinicpal twice (all the teachers in the teachers room listening were shocked that I confronted him...now I am a troublemaker and irreverent to the head hancho)...asking why there is no feedback or supervison during breaks...of course, he says that is the way it is in Korean schools...(then they wonder why they are hyper and out-of-control in the classroom)...duh! backward and no sense of psychology, environment, etc....if I go into the teachers room with the vp sitting as the "captain" in the room ...it is cool and quiet...teachers (mostly male) are sleeping at their desks...they are always in there, secluded and away from what is happening upstairs...where boys are strangling others, running around, hitting, shoving, pushed to the windows, some boys looking alone and alienated...

but don't forget to take your shoes off and put on some cruddy slippers (I go in the side door and do not do the slippers at certain schools like this)

yes...backward
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 4:47 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Whistleblower wrote:
Is it me or is this thread written by an adult on drugs?


I was wondering the same thing myself.

Yes, a few teachers will abuse it from time to time, and no, most of the students probably don't need it, but it is rather nice to teach in a system where, if push comes to shove, there's no question that you have the upper hand.

Also, when a lot of teachers use it it's really not that severe - just to remind the student of who's the students and who's the teacher.
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I_Am_The_Kiwi



Joined: 10 Jun 2008

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 5:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I see beatings with the love stick every day. My co-teacher is more or less the discipline guy in 1st grade HS. Im used to it now, and really at times i wish i could use it on some students rather than just the old 'out of the class' routine.

Its illegal, but that doesnt matter. Parents know it happens, everyone knows.

Nothing wrong with a good whack on the ass every so often.

However the use of fists etc is well out of order.

Bare in mind, boys anyway, will be in the Army in a few years. Rekon theyll be getting better treatment.
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Rob'sdad



Joined: 12 May 2008
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 5:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I_Am_The_Kiwi wrote:
I see beatings with the love stick every day. My co-teacher is more or less the discipline guy in 1st grade HS. Im used to it now, and really at times i wish i could use it on some students rather than just the old 'out of the class' routine.

Its illegal, but that doesnt matter. Parents know it happens, everyone knows.

Nothing wrong with a good whack on the ass every so often.

However the use of fists etc is well out of order.

Bare in mind, boys anyway, will be in the Army in a few years. Rekon theyll be getting better treatment.


I may have mentioned this before.
My 9th class Gymnasium teacher in Germany was a veteran of the SS.

1. All students had to approach the desk to be berated or praised prior to the return of the test papers and/or homework.

2. Kids grabbed by the neck and slapped around.

3. Dumb kids randomly whacked for not knowing answers to questions.

So when I came to Korea, the teacher's asked if I was bothered by the corporal punishment. I replied that they were amateurs and then pulled a few stories out of the box.

Back to the whippings. I think the only thing that the kids take away from such experiences is "X teacher is a dick in the box", and just try harder not to get busted the next time.
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pkang0202



Joined: 09 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 8:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Seriously OP. Come to my school. See my 6th grade students. Then go to the middle school across the street and look at the middle school 1st years. Those middle school 1st years were the WORST 6th grade class to ever go through my school. I wasn't here then, but all the teachers at the school still talk about them.

I hear those 1st years are complete angels now. Why? Probably because the minute they pulled any crap in the classroom, they got the Love Stick.
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nuthatch



Joined: 21 Feb 2008

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 8:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I totally disagree with most of you...your philosophy and approach.

Though they are "used to it" ... change is good... change to an overall re-focus of actions, reality of what one is doing and responsible for, what one will do, what one can do....

different management of schools in general, in the halls, classrooms, using educational psychology/behavior views rather than something from the abusive dark ages....how this affects inquiry-based learning, independent thinking, which also encourages a more progressive, creative, scientific society...besides the time wasted on useless beatings as discipline...refocus also on family responsibility and behavior.
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I_Am_The_Kiwi



Joined: 10 Jun 2008

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 9:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

nuthatch wrote:
I totally disagree with most of you...your philosophy and approach.

Though they are "used to it" ... change is good... change to an overall re-focus of actions, reality of what one is doing and responsible for, what one will do, what one can do....

different management of schools in general, in the halls, classrooms, using educational psychology/behavior views rather than something from the abusive dark ages....how this affects inquiry-based learning, independent thinking, which also encourages a more progressive, creative, scientific society...besides the time wasted on useless beatings as discipline...refocus also on family responsibility and behavior.


You do realise we are living in KOREA?!

the dark ages...most of this country is still in them.
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 9:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

nuthatch wrote:
I totally disagree with most of you...your philosophy and approach.

Though they are "used to it" ... change is good... change to an overall re-focus of actions, reality of what one is doing and responsible for, what one will do, what one can do....

different management of schools in general, in the halls, classrooms, using educational psychology/behavior views rather than something from the abusive dark ages....how this affects inquiry-based learning, independent thinking, which also encourages a more progressive, creative, scientific society...besides the time wasted on useless beatings as discipline...refocus also on family responsibility and behavior.


We live in a country where youth drug abuse is almost non-existant and very few teenagers drink or smoke. Despite what you see in movies real teen violence is extremely rare. Very few teens ever get pregnant. You never have to worry about teens committing violent crime. Petty crime amongst teens is also extremely rare. A teen will back down when confronted by an adult 99% of the time. Do you really think we're in a position to lecture Koreans about how they should deal with youth given the situation in the countries from which we come?

(As I've been writing this three students have been getting punished for - from what I could understand - deliberately defying their homeroom teacher and wearing nail polish and drawing all over their hands. They got one of the smaller sticks and were joking about it afterwards with the teacher who punished them. Yes it's ridiculous to punish 16-17-year-olds for something like that but if that's what the most rebellous teens do to express their rebellion we should consider ourselves very lucky.)
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skconqueror



Joined: 31 Jul 2005

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 10:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:

We live in a country where youth drug abuse is almost non-existant and very few teenagers drink or smoke.


Lack of drugs - agreed

very few teenagers drinking and smoking - not so everywhere... lots of my elementary school students have been caught and punished for smoking, and drinking soju.. these are grade 4-5 students.

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:

Despite what you see in movies real teen violence is extremely rare.


Ya, only happens 2-3x a week (that I SEE) at my elementary school

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:

Very few teens ever get pregnant.


This is a joke right? My co-teachers best friend works at a tech high school (no chance for university for these kids).. she has a 60% pregnancy rate (well, until they have abortions).

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:

You never have to worry about teens committing violent crime. Petty crime amongst teens is also extremely rare.


Petty theft is rampant.. also middle school students steal from elementary school students using the threat of violence (and real violence if not listened to)

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:

A teen will back down when confronted by an adult 99% of the time.


Possibly, but not always.


Yu_Bum_suk wrote:

Do you really think we're in a position to lecture Koreans about how they should deal with youth given the situation in the countries from which we come?


Agreed that we have no right to impose our beliefs on them.
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Rusty Shackleford



Joined: 08 May 2008

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 10:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

One of my middle school girls' classes actually made a stick for me. My co-teacher took it off me and now she uses it. Not before asking me really worriedly if I had used it. Which is a joke because the students in her classes openly disrespect her and I'm the one who has to do the disciplining.

Also seems like the behavior has gone downhill since the term break.

On a side note, one of the other male teachers is always disciplining students, every time I see him. Yesterday he was hitting a girl on the forehead with a badminton racket. I've also seen him deliver karate chops to the neck. I try to ignore it but I can see sheet goin' down one day if I'm having a particularly bad one.
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 10:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

skconqueror wrote:
Yu_Bum_suk wrote:

We live in a country where youth drug abuse is almost non-existant and very few teenagers drink or smoke.


Lack of drugs - agreed

very few teenagers drinking and smoking - not so everywhere... lots of my elementary school students have been caught and punished for smoking, and drinking soju.. these are grade 4-5 students.

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:

Despite what you see in movies real teen violence is extremely rare.


Ya, only happens 2-3x a week (that I SEE) at my elementary school

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:

Very few teens ever get pregnant.


This is a joke right? My co-teachers best friend works at a tech high school (no chance for university for these kids).. she has a 60% pregnancy rate (well, until they have abortions).

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:

You never have to worry about teens committing violent crime. Petty crime amongst teens is also extremely rare.


Petty theft is rampant.. also middle school students steal from elementary school students using the threat of violence (and real violence if not listened to)

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:

A teen will back down when confronted by an adult 99% of the time.


Possibly, but not always.


Yu_Bum_suk wrote:

Do you really think we're in a position to lecture Koreans about how they should deal with youth given the situation in the countries from which we come?


Agreed that we have no right to impose our beliefs on them.


You might be right about abortions being more common than we know about since that's all kept underground, but statistically the rate is officially very low. Elementary students fight much more often than middle / high school students do. They're also not taught much self-control; I wonder if there's a correlation? I've only had one incident in three years when it was more than just play-fighting. I don't know where you live but petty theft by teens isn't a problem where I do. I never lock my desk and at any time there may be my phone, camera, money, cigarettes, or snacks lying around and nothing's ever gone missing - and my desk's nearest the door.
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maddog



Joined: 08 Dec 2005
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Thu Sep 11, 2008 10:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

skconqueror wrote:

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:

Very few teens ever get pregnant.


This is a joke right? My co-teachers best friend works at a tech high school (no chance for university for these kids).. she has a 60% pregnancy rate (well, until they have abortions).


I'm calling BS on this. I want official stats before I even entertain this idea. Let me guess. These abortions are all cloak-and-dagger, so there are no official stats?!

MD
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