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Alyssa
Joined: 15 Jan 2006
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Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 10:31 pm Post subject: SYMPATHY |
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I got a letter from a former student today, she was under stress to study for the TOEIC test, this will be the third time she has taken it. Now that I am out of korea, I can see that what is going on over there is pure madness. English learning has become a craze, it is in the soul of the "soul" of Asia. Babies are listening to English, mothers are paying tons of money for privates, families are moving to English speaking countries, sending kids away to different countries, Colleges, Uni's are getting grants to hire more teachers, ENGLISH! ENGLISH! ENGLISH! its a living monster. This is insane in fact! My friends have hobbies that they invest in, they sit around having fun, my little sister is having fun at school, after school she plays soccer, is in various clubs, she has fun. In high school I had fun, got to drive. When will the madness end?? English has become a golden key (they think) that will l unlock the treasure chest of fortune. I think this is an illusion. A sad society that seems to be unstable and full of fear. I feel sorry for all those kids, and parents, I really do  |
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Bread

Joined: 09 Oct 2008
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Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 10:47 pm Post subject: |
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That's too bad. |
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blaseblasphemener
Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Location: There's a voice, keeps on calling me, down the road, that's where I'll always be
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Posted: Sat Oct 18, 2008 11:09 pm Post subject: |
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Yeah, they really would be better off not learning a second language. Maybe they can learn how to be a druggie, or how to pop out a kid and go on welfare at age 16, or wait, sit around on their fat asss watching TV 9 hours a day, drinking Super Big Gulps and ordering pizza everyday.
The West really has a lot to teach the hapless Koreans. |
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Alyssa
Joined: 15 Jan 2006
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 12:50 am Post subject: |
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blaseblasphemener wrote: |
Yeah, they really would be better off not learning a second language. Maybe they can learn how to be a druggie, or how to pop out a kid and go on welfare at age 16, or wait, sit around on their fat asss watching TV 9 hours a day, drinking Super Big Gulps and ordering pizza everyday.
The West really has a lot to teach the hapless Koreans. |
Thanks for showing us where you came from, I guess coming to korea was a move up. But to the rest of us with educated families, houses, family members with white colar jobs, great times at Uni, we sympathise with them. Oh, and I forgot to mention, all of the things you mentioned sure seem better than suicide, did you think of that jethro? |
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Unposter
Joined: 04 Jun 2006
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 1:08 am Post subject: |
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Allysa-
Wow! You are good! I hope you enjoy your white privilege. "At least" you have "sympathy" for those who cannot enjoy life as much as you did and do.
You should know well that life is full of choices. Some choose work. Others choose play. I would not be so elitist to knock other people's choices, especially if they choose to work hard. |
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Alyssa
Joined: 15 Jan 2006
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 1:12 am Post subject: |
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"choose" to work hard??? Right, all those kids going to hagwans have "chosen" to work hard until midnight. I guess you will say all the korean men have "chosen" to do their military service. Put yourself in their shoes, they would think you were a clown with your empty reply to my post.
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hamlet712
Joined: 16 Mar 2007
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 2:57 am Post subject: |
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Yes Alyssa the Koreans should lower thier drive to succeed by about ten times, then theyd have the ambition of the Average North American.
I mean, these Koreans should quite trying to suceed in thier lives and buckle down at slacking off, searching the internet for skateboarding accidents and nut shots, and make no effort at all to contribute to thier society. Then they can be JUST LIKE US!!!!!! ( on average)
The North American work ethic/education is so pathetically low comparably that it is not even funny. The two threads I started made that obvious. North Americans think that thier work etchic is a maleable thing, and can be adjusted depending on their satisfaction with thier boss, and unless they happen to COME FROM a culture that speaks another language, I'd say about 90 percent of North Americans don't know another language and could care less if they ever learn another language.
Right now I'm attempting to learn a language that is going to be USELESS for me for anything other than to speak to my Korean in laws. I have a reason, and it's a good one.
Koreans have a reason and it is also a good one. The world is for the most part controlled by America and China. For this reason my wife learned English and Chinese, and guess what? She can get nearly any job she wants here in Korea, and many jobs she wants back in Canada.
She is also learning French so she will be quadlingual and get ANY Canadian job she wants.
So do you want to tell her that her studying has been a waste of time and that you know what is better for her life, or do you wanna take your ignorance somewhere else and stop spouting off about crap you know nothing about?
How many snotty upperclass North American parents fast track thier kids and force them to work hard to get into harvard or yale and have lives that might make them rich and successful? Is thier pressure ALSO usless, or is this fine since they are OUR people who are forced to work hard and make our neck of the world a better place?
I mean how dare these koreans expose thier kids to A LOT Of learning and education and a vast variety of different experiences to give them an advantage. And before you say it ISNT an advantage ANY opportunity to learn, and ANYTHING you learn is an advantage.
You dont here a lot of Rich wallstreet types saying that learning the piano was a total waste of time and or taught them nothing.
I would have been a bit nicer to you in my respone had we not had that great history where you said NOTHING of value against my points, you simply called me a Korean masquerading as a Canadian and refused to let me do anything to prove to you I was who I say I was.
The Koreans have thier faults, but a westerner criticising their work/education ethic is as laughable as a KKK member criticising a muslim extermist's lack of tolerance towards different races. |
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jkelly80

Joined: 13 Jun 2007 Location: you boys like mexico?
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 3:00 am Post subject: |
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They are deathly afraid of uncertainty here. I get the feeling they will do anything, up to and including working themselves to death. Being a mindless drone is preferable to the constant crises, upheavals, occupation, civil wars, and famine of the last 150 years. Working longs hours, up until recently, meant stability with your company. I think that's hard to shake. |
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VanIslander

Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 3:06 am Post subject: |
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admission to some of the most prestigious schools in Korea are depending on an ability to speak English
i just helped prep a middle school student doing an English interview next week to get into a top medical-focussed high school
1 in 76 applicants will be accepted and his six months in Canada and years of one-on-one tutoring gives him a great shot at being accepted
English IS important here, don't fault the parents, the tail doesn't wag this dog. Companies like Samsung and LG are making English hiring interviews and English company emails mandatory. Parents are just seeing the writing on the wall and it ain't hangul. |
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hamlet712
Joined: 16 Mar 2007
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 3:08 am Post subject: |
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Alyssa wrote: |
"choose" to work hard??? Right, all those kids going to hagwans have "chosen" to work hard until midnight. I guess you will say all the korean men have "chosen" to do their military service. Put yourself in their shoes, they would think you were a clown with your empty reply to my post.
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Leave it up to a kid and most would choose not to work, its up to the parents to give them an advantage. In a country the size of New york state with the poulation of New York and Los Angeles Combined, there is a bit of competition for jobs.
As for military service, yeah it must suck living in a country whose problems were created by The Americans and Russians while they fought over a strategic front , and who SPLIT The country in half on purpose to settle thier own dispute. It sucks that they have to force their kids into military service because they need to protect thier country from the communist regimes that the American and the Russians allowed to happen, or should i say CREATED with thier interference.
Clearly thier should just screw thier education and become JUST Like the country that ALSO forced people to join the army out of necessity, and who is responsible for the very problem you criticise.
It doesn't matter that for many kids the "choice" is taken out of it. Humans have to do things out of necessity. The Koreans need to join the military out of NECESSITY, they need to learn more and work hard out of NECESSITY. The parens know this so they demand a lot.
North Americans should demand more too, but we are too busy trying to rip each other off, have both parents work while our kids are neglected, and raised by strangers who have no vested interest in thier upbringing or the effect they will have on society. I mean there just no Time to demand more of your kids in the North American world, there are far more important thinsg to worry about. Football Season, Hockey Season, Baseball season, and Desperate Houswives.
just remember that all of the priveleges you enjoy back at home were at the expense of countries like Korea whose history of the last 70 years may have gone quite differently if they had not had their country cleaved in two by the dominant superpowers, and then had to pay BILLIONS anually to support the very same government that created their hardships.
Try doing some research on what the Koreans have spent on Assistance to the American Military, and on defending against the NOrth Koreans. The amount would STAGGER you. BUt hey, its not like this money would have done these backwards Koreans any good. They would have just spent the money on education and job training.
Silly Koreans. Education's for Idiots
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jkelly80

Joined: 13 Jun 2007 Location: you boys like mexico?
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 3:14 am Post subject: |
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Korean's problems were created by America?
You're not too bright Hamlet, stop wasting precious screen space with your bullshit. |
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hamlet712
Joined: 16 Mar 2007
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 3:24 am Post subject: |
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jkelly80 wrote: |
Korean's problems were created by America?
You're not too bright Hamlet, stop wasting precious screen space with your bullshit. |
I was talkin SPECIFICALLY about the military conscription and the need to defend against North Korea, a country that didnt even exist until the American/Russian interference
My sentiment was that MANY of the problems they have here are a direct result of America and Russia cleaving thier country in two and making one side democratic and the other communist.
Or are you saying that America /Russia splitting thier country in NO WAY affected them or created the need for military conscription.
If you are then i suggest YOU become a bit more educated on the issue and let the big boys handle the debating. |
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princess
Joined: 16 Jan 2003 Location: soul of Asia
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 3:31 am Post subject: |
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I'll agree that too many Korean kids never get a real chance to just be a kid, and all they do is waste away their youth studying. Just like in America, people are barinwahsed by society into thinking you must go to college or you will never be rich and/or successful. Not to burst anyone's bubble on here, but someday knowing 10 languages and having 10 degrees STILL isn't going to guarantee you a great, high-paying job. One of these days, with the way the world economy is going, service jobs will be about the only jobs left. People will always have the need to eat and drink. Someday, service people who never went to college will have the last laugh on these over-educated people who can barely find a job working at McDonald's. I can't believe people still buy into that whole "go to college or you are in trouble" mentality. |
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jkelly80

Joined: 13 Jun 2007 Location: you boys like mexico?
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 3:37 am Post subject: |
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hamlet712 wrote: |
jkelly80 wrote: |
Korean's problems were created by America?
You're not too bright Hamlet, stop wasting precious screen space with your bullshit. |
I was talkin SPECIFICALLY about the military conscription and the need to defend against North Korea, a country that didnt even exist until the American/Russian interference
My sentiment was that MANY of the problems they have here are a direct result of America and Russia cleaving thier country in two and making one side democratic and the other communist.
Or are you saying that America /Russia splitting thier country in NO WAY affected them or created the need for military conscription.
If you are then i suggest YOU become a bit more educated on the issue and let the big boys handle the debating. |
Affected, yes. Created all of Korea's problems? You made a stupid post and you're lucky I didn't quote it before you edited your original BS logic out of it. |
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hamlet712
Joined: 16 Mar 2007
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Posted: Sun Oct 19, 2008 3:53 am Post subject: |
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jkelly80 wrote: |
hamlet712 wrote: |
jkelly80 wrote: |
Korean's problems were created by America?
You're not too bright Hamlet, stop wasting precious screen space with your bullshit. |
I was talkin SPECIFICALLY about the military conscription and the need to defend against North Korea, a country that didnt even exist until the American/Russian interference
My sentiment was that MANY of the problems they have here are a direct result of America and Russia cleaving thier country in two and making one side democratic and the other communist.
Or are you saying that America /Russia splitting thier country in NO WAY affected them or created the need for military conscription.
If you are then i suggest YOU become a bit more educated on the issue and let the big boys handle the debating. |
Affected, yes. Created all of Korea's problems? You made a stupid post and you're lucky I didn't quote it before you edited your original BS logic out of it. |
Actually, the only thing I edited was spelling and the comments AFTER the mention of desperate houswives. I hadnt even SEEN your response when I was making an edit. And if you actually read my post my original comment still stands that the Amercians caused the issues.
Look man, I do not want to get into an assue with you, I don't have one with you. My wife is KOrea, and I am quite versed with a lot of the Korean history. like it or not the Americans/Russians came in to help with the conflict against the Japanese, and all they asked for was to rip thier country in two and give conflicing ideologies to each side.
I did not mean to suggest that ALL of Korea's problems were caused by America ( and youll notice I give equal blame to Russia)
I was merely pointing out that thier history has been drastically effected by people trying to either conquer them or to use them for thier own needs.
You can equate them on a similar level to African Americans and Aboriginal peoples. Its hard for them to succeed as a race when OTHER RACES have such a dominant effect on thier success.
This is NOT to say that the Koreans don't do a lot to screw up thier own country either.
Jkelly, my comment was meant to point out that the Koreans have been at a disadvantage for many decades now. And the Americans/Russians ( and the Japanese) have had a HUGE role in creating many of the social and economic hardships Korea has to this day.
Then some of our ignorant westerners have the gall to say thier thier education and need to defend the country make them inferior infuriates me.
I am sorry you took my comment the wrong way. I did a piss poor job of wording it I guess. |
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