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What advice would you give yourself 5 years ago?
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bogey666



Joined: 17 Mar 2008
Location: Korea, the ass free zone

PostPosted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 2:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

R-Seoul wrote:
Nobody has lain on their deathbed and said 'God I wish I'd slept with less women'. (Unless they're dying of an STD of course).
Come to think of it, I took that advice.
How about; 'It's always better to regret something you have done than to regret something you haven't done'. Words to live your life by. (Unless you're dying of an STD).


you can't die from an STD.

is AIDS and std? I thought it was almost its own seperate little category.
and since you can contract it thru non sexual means (needles, blood, etc) I'm not sure it qualifies.

funny thing about AIDS is that as the average survival time grows, ( I think it's now 10 years, maybe more.

what's the incentive for a 55 year old guy to really give a shit about AIDS?

yeah, missing those "golden years" where you sit in a wheelchair and piss all over yourself in a nursing home would REALLY SUCK! Smile
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Stormy



Joined: 10 Jan 2008
Location: Here & there

PostPosted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 2:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

bogey666 wrote:
R-Seoul wrote:
Nobody has lain on their deathbed and said 'God I wish I'd slept with less women'. (Unless they're dying of an STD of course).
Come to think of it, I took that advice.
How about; 'It's always better to regret something you have done than to regret something you haven't done'. Words to live your life by. (Unless you're dying of an STD).


you can't die from an STD.

is AIDS and std? I thought it was almost its own seperate little category.
and since you can contract it thru non sexual means (needles, blood, etc) I'm not sure it qualifies.

funny thing about AIDS is that as the average survival time grows, ( I think it's now 10 years, maybe more.

what's the incentive for a 55 year old guy to really give a shit about AIDS?

yeah, missing those "golden years" where you sit in a wheelchair and piss all over yourself in a nursing home would REALLY SUCK! Smile


http://www.epigee.org/health/stds.html
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Most STDs are treatable. However, even the once easily cured gonorrhea has become resistant to many of the older traditional antibiotics. Other STDs, such as herpes, AIDS, and genital warts, all of which are caused by viruses, have no cure. Some of these infections are very uncomfortable, while others can be deadly. Syphilis, AIDS, genital warts, herpes, hepatitis, and even gonorrhea have all been known to cause death. Many STDs can lead to related conditions such as pelvic inflammatory disease, cervical cancer, and complications in pregnancy. Therefore, education about these diseases and prevention is important.


Better get them checked out bogey666. Wink
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postfundie



Joined: 28 May 2004

PostPosted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 5:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

get an old cardboard box and put it next to the laundry machine. put dirty socks in the box together. stop wondering why socks always get lost or one of them disappears. use the box and keep your socks together.

when studying for a finance test take more time to review practice questions.
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travel zen



Joined: 22 Feb 2005
Location: Good old Toronto, Canada

PostPosted: Fri Jun 06, 2008 6:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Nomadder wrote:
Hey, I know things are looking bad right now, but be patient. You're going to buy a house, and it's going to double in value in 2 years. Stick to your plan to rent out the rooms to pay the mortgage and sell in early 06.
You could do all this without me.
HOWEVER...
Don't take the money you get from the sale and try to parlay that into something more. You're too damn lazy to do the proper reasearch for starting up anything in real estate. Trust me, you'll make mistakes and those three duplexes you would buy in Indy would just eat part of your soul and the majority of your bank account.
So...
Take the money, go back and get a degree, and... No really. Go back, get a degree... Stop shaking your head jackass. Do I look familiar? Yes? Do I look older? Then maybe I know better.
Anyway get your degree... It doesn't matter what in, stop interrupting. Then live off that while you're in college and put away the rest. ...Oh hell buy a nice car if you want to.
"Why go back to college?" Because you're going to get tired of doing what you're doing now. It may not seem like it but you will... About the time you start thinking about cashing out on that house.
You see, there's a racket called ESL out there that allows you to actually live decently while travelling all over the world, and anybody with a degree can do it. You've just gotta' teach English to the locals.
See there? You're grinning already. And you thought you'd never have any reason to go back to school.
Remember what I said though. NO Duplexes in Indianapolis, or anywhere else for that matter.
Oh, and be nice to Krystal. She may be shallow and stubborn, but she really is a sweet girl. I'm not saying to stay with her for too long, just... You know, be nice.




Dude, I think I did the same thing you did. I bought a big house and I rent the basement..but damn, it killing me. It takes soo long to finish college, and most of my mney is being sucked in for repairs, and the tennants are brutal. I would just take it easy and not buy the house (which doubled in price too Laughing ) but I would live better. Money isn't everything. I good life IS !!!!
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merlot



Joined: 04 Nov 2005
Location: I tried to contain myself but I escaped.

PostPosted: Sat Jun 07, 2008 9:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Go ahead, as planned, and do Korea for a year. check

Go back and take a nice long vacation in the states and visit all your friends and fanily in Texas and Florida. check

Absolutely, take that dream job in real estate in Costa Rica. check

But for chirst's sake ,don't blow over $100k partying like a rock star in Central America in less than two years...moron. check
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Tiger Beer



Joined: 07 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 12:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

2003....I would have said...ahh...nevermind, I think I'm on a better path now.
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merlot



Joined: 04 Nov 2005
Location: I tried to contain myself but I escaped.

PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 1:08 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Interesting to reflect on past decisions�like major ones--like dramatic international moves, and how things would be differently now, had even one of those decisions been sent to the Recycle Bin.

It�s an awful clich�, but we truly do need to be careful what we wish for�for we may very well find ourselves in that very place.

In the two years + since I moved from Korea to Central America, I have found myself in a twenty-first floor luxury apartment overlooking the Pacific Ocean as well as the unbelievable skyline of Panama City, with a great real estate job in the world�s second fastest growing economy (second only to China; source: United Nations� Economic Intelligence Unit).

But, it�s sort of a �plastic lifestyle.�

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rgoGIv-SQNQ

So, I�ve been having radical thoughts about escaping the proverbial rat race and finding one of the indigenous tribes here in Panama and convincing them to let me live with them for a year, just as they do, and writing a book about the experience�no cameras, no cell phone, no computer�just pen and paper.

Following is an interesting read about the various native cultures here. I�m not so sure which tribe I would fit in with the best.

http://www.enjoypanama.com/culture.htm

The imagery produced by thought of pursuing this project, however, has sent my center into the mind�s den of spontaneous inspiration as a sort of internal defense mechanism correlating with the perception of my overall well-being.

China automatically appeared on the short list as a viable compromise (duly taking into consideration the "shock value" devaluation hatched from the contrast between subways and dug-out canoes) bringing me to fully disclose my fondness of running water.
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But to backup three seconds and recapture the theme of the OP--"What advice would you give yourself five years ago?" I would have to say this is etched deeply in the non-regret category in my personal wanderings on this ball of mud that seems more and more quicksand-ish lately:

http://www.yobonanza.com/JaysKoreaStory.html
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sojourner1



Joined: 17 Apr 2007
Location: Where meggi swim and 2 wheeled tractors go sput put chug alugg pug pug

PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 8:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you already have bachelors, go to Korea. If not go to a cheap school for a bachelors in an easy major.

Don't take on too much debt; stay within your means even it means going to the cheapest university or Christian college if you don't have a college fund or parents helping you. A bachelors is just a bachelors today unless a high profile ivy league school. It wasn't worth it for me to spend $40,000 more on an expensive and very challenging competitive large state university program compared to a lower cost smaller school that pell grants and veteran benefits would had fully covered. That $40,000 student loan just didn't get me $40,000 more of a job than any other bachelors degree would had and now I'm saddled like a small jackass with a big 400 pound rider.

Just get a degree, regardless where, and get good grades. Heck small lower profile schools are probably easier on grading and level of academic challenge. I made all A's with a few A- in a small community college for my 2 year degree, but only a 2.7 at a large university as it was brutal academics and competitive selection for who gets the few good grades allowed.

Think small and within your means when starting out and going...
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DoubleRS



Joined: 13 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Fri Oct 31, 2008 9:14 pm    Post subject: HS Graduate Reply with quote

In 2003 I had just graduated high school and was on my way to San Francisco for college. I would have told myself to get rid of the giant case of Tunnel Vision I had and to expand my horizons more quickly. I went from super-religious Orange County to ultra-liberal SF. Looking back I was happy I made that decision because I am such a better person for the changes I've gone through. But, I know I held on to such asinine beliefs for so long...
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