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English is very hard to me. Grammar help, please.
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bassexpander



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 2:33 am    Post subject: English is very hard to me. Grammar help, please. Reply with quote

I have so many students who say, "English is very hard to me."

I corrected one of them today, but he asked what the reason/rule is that we use "for" instead of "to" here.

How would you explain it?
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bassexpander



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 2:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Another one:

It is very funny to me.
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Tobias



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 2:56 am    Post subject: How I explain it Reply with quote

I just tell 'em to 'do your damn homework.'

What is it with these Korean people and their attitude towards homework?
I'm getting really tired of being labled a 'good' teacher when I know my kids only like me because I'm 'fun', yet I know they aren't learning enough.

I guess it brings job security, this "It took me three years to learn my personal pronouns, Tee-Chur" BS. They get one week to learn those with me.
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gangpae



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 3:08 am    Post subject: Re: English is very hard to me. Grammar help, please. Reply with quote

bassexpander wrote:
I have so many students who say, "English is very hard to me."

I corrected one of them today, but he asked what the reason/rule is that we use "for" instead of "to" here.

How would you explain it?


You're joking right?
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ursus_rex



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 5:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

English is very hard for me "to do".

English is very funny for me "to do".

The first makes sense... the latter doesn't.
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gangpae



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 6:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think that English is difficult.
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Tobias



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 6:51 am    Post subject: From whose POV? Reply with quote

ursus_rex wrote:
English is very hard for me "to do".

English is very funny for me "to do".

The first makes sense... the latter doesn't.


So true, so true. At least from OUR POV. But from the business end, the smiles had better be there. If they're not, well, you mean ol' teacher you! If they're learning their vowels and vowel sounds in less than two years, shame on you for actually doing your job. If you're making them learn their personal pronouns within two academic years, then you're fired.

Keep 'em coming back. Keep 'em dropping that tuition. Keep 'em thinking they're learning something. Keep playing the game. You keep doing this, and you'll win 'teacher of the year' yet!
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Suwon23



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 6:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

English prepositions are often illogical. You sit in a chair but on a sofa, in November but on Tuesday, watch what's on TV (not in TV, as they say in German), etc. Your students will just have to accept that the language of their colonial overlords is a fickle and uncaring yoke to be born about the shoulders like a mantle of thorns.

Overuse of "to" seems pretty common. I hear "tell to me" and "look to the book" all the time.

Sometimes it helps to teach my kids to memorize the preposition as part of the verb or noun, such as "to look at" rather than just "to look."
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Bibbitybop



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 8:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I will help a bit if they come to my office, but I don't teach grammar courses. I will spend an hour working with them on what we cover in the course. I will spend 15 minutes on grammar. Same thing goes for covering economics and science: Not my course.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 9:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think a very important thing to teach your students early on is the concept of a collocation or "a group of words which go together" They just go together! After this, you can reply with "collocation" when you get these kinds of questions.

why do we say "I'm bad at English" instead of "I'm bad in English"

There seems to be no logical reason. It is simply that this is a fixed structure which must be learned. The only reason the latter is wrong is just because we don't say that!


In this case "at" is a dependent preposition and it is more useful to learn the structure adjective + at + noun = structure to describe a person's ability in a certain area than ask why X number of alternatives are not also possible! We wouldn't get a satisfactory answer anyway.

With students, I found the best thing to do was to explain a collocation as words which always go together and ask:

How come we say: school uniform and not school clothes? Answer because these words do not naturally go together/do not collocate. (I'm sure you can think of a better example!)

There's no reason why school clothes should be wrong and we even understand it clearly but it isn't natural for us to say that. school uniform is a natural collocation whereas school clothes is not.

With your 2 examples, the combinations offered by students are not natural collocations/do not collocate.

In one of my former schools, a common student stereotype was "Mr Can I also say..."

Swiss Germans were obsessed with finding out which of their suggestions would be just as acceptable as what the teacher taught. In the end it came down to this: Your suggestion is not a natural collocation.

Yours is indeed a tricky problem and if the students are too low to be taught this word, it might just come down to: special case, ok?
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Privateer



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 11:56 am    Post subject: Re: English is very hard to me. Grammar help, please. Reply with quote

bassexpander wrote:
I have so many students who say, "English is very hard to me."

I corrected one of them today, but he asked what the reason/rule is that we use "for" instead of "to" here.

How would you explain it?


Well one way to explain it is just to say we've arbitrarily hit on the preposition 'for' in this case so just memorize it. But I think you can also argue that there's a meaningful difference between 'to' and 'for' in constructions like this, which explains why 'to' sounds quite strange here.

Take other uses of 'to': for example, 'She is beautiful to me'. In this case, we're positing a subjective feeling about how she looks, not shared in the general consensus. That clearly doesn't apply to your students because it's far from just their individual perception of English.

Another example is 'She is good to me', describing how she behaves toward me. Interpreted this way, your students might be taken to be saying something like 'English is harsh to me', but that's clearly not what they mean - unless they really do imagine English as some kind of strict teacher oppressing them.

Another example is 'This knife seems sharp to me!', meaning 'as far as I am concerned' in contrast to another's opinion; but your students aren't trying to contradict anyone, and the sentence doesn't even fit the pattern since we use tentative words like 'seems' or 'looks' rather than 'is' here.

On the other hand, a sentence like 'This is easy for me' means for anyone with abilities like mine or in a condition like mine. It's not just about how you personally perceive things but how, objectively, anyone in your position would feel.

Then again, we also say things like 'He's a professional athlete. To him, a 10km run is nothing'. Confused There's still an implied contrast to the average person.
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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 12:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Also, in a couple of your examples, we can use both to and for!

I think this is good for us but of limited value for the students. You are going to get bogged down in an explanation which helps no one.

I suppose it really depends on the proficiency level of the students concerned as to whether they can cope with explanations at all.

I think collocation is the easiest.
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Bread



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 12:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

bassexpander wrote:
Another one:

It is very funny to me.


I would say this myself. What country are you from?
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Chamchiman



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 1:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm hard for English.
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hagwonnewbie



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PostPosted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 9:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm so hard today, too.
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