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waterbaby

Joined: 01 Feb 2003 Location: Baking Gord a Cheescake pie
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Posted: Sun Jan 04, 2004 11:56 pm Post subject: |
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Hey Jade, congrats! I wish you both all the best. Love can be hard work but you've got a good head on those shoulders & will do well.  |
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katydid

Joined: 02 Feb 2003 Location: Here kitty kitty kitty...
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Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2004 4:51 am Post subject: |
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Jade, congrats to you. Will you be willing to share your photos with us online after the ceremony?  |
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crazylemongirl

Joined: 23 Mar 2003 Location: almost there...
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Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2004 5:24 am Post subject: |
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Mr. Pink wrote: |
Why's that? Did they marry in kiwiland?
I married in Korea. I had to goto the embassy and get two papers, then we had to goto the GU office, not the dong office. At the GU office we registered our marriage on the Korean family register, and the GU official stamped something on the Canadian documents. Then we went back to the embassy, had some consular come out and stamp our certificate.
So I have it registered in both countries, was pretty painless. |
No they married in korea. The New Zealand embassy inisted on translated documents though. |
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The Man known as The Man

Joined: 29 Mar 2003 Location: 3 cheers for Ted Haggard oh yeah!
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Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2004 10:33 am Post subject: |
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Pyongshin Sangja wrote: |
Is this the same guy who gave you hell for talking to strangers in the neighbourhood because it made you look like a woman of questionable morals? Congratulations. |
I sense the love here.
Not to pile on Jade, because I'm all about being compassionate a\nd the nicest guy ever, but why marry a Korean-even if he's one fo the 'good ones' we are all part of our enivronment. Why marry into such BS?
I don't even care that much about the feminism thread, but why select a husband who would do that ? You've got smarts, wit, and obvioulsy, boundless optimism for the future |
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peppergirl
Joined: 07 Dec 2003
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Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2004 2:51 pm Post subject: |
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Why does Jade have to defend herself for marrying a Korean guy? The guys who marry Korean women never have to! |
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The Man known as The Man

Joined: 29 Mar 2003 Location: 3 cheers for Ted Haggard oh yeah!
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Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2004 3:08 pm Post subject: |
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peppergirl wrote: |
Why does Jade have to defend herself for marrying a Korean guy? The guys who marry Korean women never have to! |
Jade doesn't have to defend herself about anything. I'm asking an honest question-if she wants to answer, she will. If she doesn't want to, she won't.
The implied difference is that Korean women are generally treated better relatively speaking by Western Men than Western women are by Korean men.
do you have an attention span? |
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mokpochica

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Location: Ann Arbor, MI
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Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2004 4:42 pm Post subject: �felicidades! |
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Congrats!
I'm American too and I just had a wedding ceremony on December 28th in Korea. However, my Korean fianc� and I did not file any paperwork there. Instead we took the difficult route and decided to apply for a K-1 visa last year (March 2003). He just got his visa on December 30th and we will be having the real ceremony in Michigan on Feb. 14th of this year.
Wish I could help you more about doing the real paperwork in Korea. I think it's probably easier than the K-1 visa process. All I can say is that the reps at the American Embassy in Seoul were really nice when we finally got there.
Best of luck to you and your fianc�.
detroitchica (aka mokpochica)
Edit: Did you ever see this page? It can probably be of some help to you:
http://www.iskakorea.com/index.php |
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Corporal

Joined: 25 Jan 2003
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Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2004 8:36 pm Post subject: |
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The Man known as The Man wrote: |
The implied difference is that Korean women are generally treated better relatively speaking by Western Men than Western women are by Korean men. |
Andie, for a fairly scientific person, this is not a very scientific statement. |
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Psy
Joined: 11 Sep 2003 Location: Hongdae
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Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2004 8:48 pm Post subject: |
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Just wanted to offer my congrats to you. May your futures be filled with blessings and happiness.
Gratzies!~
Don't listen to the idiots.  |
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peppermint

Joined: 13 May 2003 Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.
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Posted: Mon Jan 05, 2004 10:49 pm Post subject: |
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Congrats to you and your hubby too Mokpochicka! |
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The Man known as The Man

Joined: 29 Mar 2003 Location: 3 cheers for Ted Haggard oh yeah!
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Posted: Tue Jan 06, 2004 8:23 am Post subject: |
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Corporal wrote: |
The Man known as The Man wrote: |
The implied difference is that Korean women are generally treated better relatively speaking by Western Men than Western women are by Korean men. |
Andie, for a fairly scientific person, this is not a very scientific statement. |
Hence the words generally and relatively.
Andie, I acually had The Corporal in mind when I posted that, following her good example.
HTH
ps got degree, stupid Andie? |
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Spiky
Joined: 29 Apr 2003
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Posted: Wed Jan 07, 2004 3:27 am Post subject: CONGRATS! |
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Congrats to both Jade and Mokpochica! Here's wishing you both long happy lives with your husbands!
Korean guys are pretty special!  |
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mokpochica

Joined: 21 Jan 2003 Location: Ann Arbor, MI
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Posted: Tue Jan 13, 2004 1:04 pm Post subject: Re: CONGRATS! |
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Spiky wrote: |
Congrats to both Jade and Mokpochica! Here's wishing you both long happy lives with your husbands!
Korean guys are pretty special!  |
Gotta love 'em! |
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The Lemon

Joined: 11 Jan 2003
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Posted: Tue Jan 13, 2004 1:18 pm Post subject: |
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jade wrote: |
I am trying to keep a civil tounge in my head. |
Why bother? You figure he deserves it?
By the way - congratulations! |
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Derrek
Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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Posted: Tue Jan 13, 2004 1:56 pm Post subject: |
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Congrats Jade... just some advice.
While at the altar, put down the Nikon and let someone else take the pictures.
On the wedding night, you can take all the photos you want (*laugh*). |
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