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travellinggirlseoul · Joined: 21 Mar 2007 Location: Seoul

If you cant comfortably watch two men kissing I think you are homophobic.

mnhnhyouh · Joined: 21 Nov 2006 Location: The Middle Kingdom

I dont mind watching it, and even found it sexy once.

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sojourner1 · Posted: Thu Dec 04, 2008 9:34 pm Post subject:

As long as a homo is not being stupid by gunning for me. Often, guys who are overly homophobic end up being gay themselves. They often have a concious personality complex surrounding a conflict of interest with being queer as a 3 dollar bill. When you see a man acting hostile about this, he's probably funny upstairs.

Yu_Bum_suk · Joined: 25 Dec 2004

Atramentous · Joined: 12 Jan 2008 Location: Ansan

I wouldn't say that I am homophobic. But discomfort with watching men or women kiss would depend on the type of kiss. One that denotes affection in a couple is sweet. I have no problems with that. However, watching any couple get hot and heavy does make me uncomfortable whether the couple making out is male/male, male/female or female/female.

mnhnhyouh · Joined: 21 Nov 2006 Location: The Middle Kingdom

Fishead soup · Joined: 24 Jun 2007 Location: Korea

Homophobic is the intence fear of buying a house

Otherside · Joined: 06 Sep 2007

I don't like to see two gay men kissing. The thought of 2 guys doing the nasty is enough to put me off big time. I also rather dislike "ultra camp" gays and "queens".

However, I'm not homophobic. My brother is gay (you wouldn't think it when meeting him) and as such I've spent alot of time with gay guys. I'd say I like about 80% of them.

samcheokguy · Joined: 02 Nov 2008 Location: Samcheok G-do

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xingyiman · Joined: 12 Jan 2006

jajdude · Joined: 18 Jan 2003

Is it fear of homosexuals or fear of others thinking you are gay, or both?

cangel · Joined: 19 Jun 2003 Location: Jeonju, S. Korea

Melvin: "What I know is, is that as long as you keep your work zipped up around me, I don't give a rat crap who or where you shove your show. Are we done being neighbors now?"

bacasper · Joined: 26 Mar 2007

Why must you insist on people watching things they'd rather not see?

Some things are better kept private.

Some people (e.g. Koreans) don't like to see a man and woman kissing in public. Are they heterophobic?

Kuros · Joined: 27 Apr 2004

Cheonmunka · Joined: 04 Jun 2004

No problem as long as they love each other, and don't try to come on to me.
Problem I have is promiscuous types who when they kiss have a different reason than love - more like a game ... then when they see that others don't mind think that is a sign that we want to play too.
That's not the case.
Sometimes I am a bit girly myself, my colorful job, my family make me a bit feminine (I have been a sole house-husband this last week) and gay people or straight think this is a sign that I am gay - it's not. And, I hate it when people think that I am.