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pest2
Joined: 01 Jun 2005
Location: Vancouver, Canada
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| Panda wrote: |
I dont mind how superficial people think I am since nobody knows me here but still It would be good to yoursef if you learned to judge ppl only after knowing them more. |
That sounds like a call for a "Let's get to know Panda party!!" Panda supplies the booze and chips though since its her idea. |
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Starla
Joined: 06 Jun 2008
Location: Seoul
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| Posted: Fri Dec 12, 2008 2:47 pm Post subject: |
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| Oreovictim wrote: |
Hey, there's nothing wrong with coming on here and having a post where you complain. Everyone does it; it's perfectly normal. If you came on here saying that you can't find a good man, I would have been sympathetic, but you mentioned about how you've dated lots of guys. You just can't that right one, and you go on and on about it. Oh, well boo-freaking-hoo. I've know lots of guys and gals in Korea and America who have trouble getting dates or can't even get a response from a simple 'hello', and you want sympathy? Count your blessings.
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Nah, it just means she met more of the wrong guys. You can date lots of guys and not find the a good guy among them. The more wrong guys you meet, the more disenchanted you become. If your friends can't get a date, perhaps they should figure out what they're doing wrong and change it. I know easier said than done but I don't feel any more pity for people like that than woman who can't find a good guy among many. The pickings are slim speaking from experience. |
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Tiger Beer
Joined: 07 Feb 2003
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| Posted: Fri Dec 12, 2008 6:36 pm Post subject: |
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| Then, about a month ago, I suddenly got an email from him explaining he left without a word because he was to take a long vacation and he didnt know how to make me believe, in the end he said he really liked me and was very much attracted to me, he wanted me to forgive him for being rude and would let me decide if I wanted to keep in touch again or not, either as just friends or bf/gf... |
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| Sounds to me like he's married. |
Sounds to me like he had another girl on the side, |
I think I would go with the married one.
'He had a girl on the side'...this would imply that he was actively involved in a relationship (with Panda) and found another girl. When from my understanding, they'd simply met once and chatted for a couple weeks.
If a person isn't in a relationship, it is completely natural to date and juggle and balance, etc...until they find one they like in particular, and drop the rest (or slow down on the rest), etc. as times goes on.
Being that it seems they're date went well, and both seem obviously interested in each other....then to me it sounds like perhaps he is already married, but looking...
Another possibility is that he was getting more involved with someone else at that same time...but the involvement with that other person didn't work out. Some things that were started, do need to run their course as well. |
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Panda
Joined: 25 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Mon Dec 15, 2008 7:55 am Post subject: |
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Thanks everybody.
I have stopped thinking more, I think I should take some people's advice, just stick on this guy, I have met some jerks(I am very cautious when I use this word), there wouldnt be worse situiation anyway.
I want to update my progress here 1, for firsthand tips from you. 2, for witness of my experience in Korea. I dont know if he aslo visits Dave's Cafe, anyway, if he was not doing anything disgraceful, it wouldnt be a big issue. |
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tzechuk
Joined: 20 Dec 2004
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| Posted: Mon Dec 15, 2008 5:32 pm Post subject: |
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| Good Luck! Try not to get your heart broken. |
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