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earthbound14

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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 5:41 pm Post subject: What is it with students ignoring the teacher? |
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One of my least favourite things about teaching Koreans (there are many things that I like, but I don't question that) is how they ignore basic requests or questions.
I had a class full of adults that out of the blue simply refused to answer a single question I asked them. For almost 2 weeks they were unresponsive in class and spent most of their time looking down at their books. I only asked them to answer questions about people they knew and character traits they admired (a high intermediate class). I asked them to talk to each other, still silence. It was horrible. I just stood there asking questons thinking they hated me (which was odd, cause all my students like me......or at least I think so). A few weeks later I seem to have sorted everything out. They are all happy and eager to talk with me or other students. We even went out and got drunk together. Although every so often tumble weeds blow through class when I ask them a question. Just random questions, nothing out there. As simple as "How are you today?". Not all classes are this odd, but it demonstrates how students simply ignore you if they feel like it.
I often don't understand why and have a hell of a time dealing with some students who do it on a regular basis. The worst is when students are given enough time to start talking amongst themselves in class. Sometimes they simply will not stop when asked repeatedly. I've yelled at students or slammed doors in order to get their attention. Then they look all suprised as if they didn't expect that. With younger students I've told them I will take them out of class if they don't listen. They get 3 warnings then I try to take them out. They usually refuse to go and cry as if they are about to be executed if I drag them. They grab onto the door, pull desks, pull chairs....it's completely nuts.
I just don't get this, they live in a whole other universe I seem unable to fully grasp. I have gotten better at understadning this yet I could never explain to you what I do or how I've changed in order to deal with this. I simply seem to have adapted somewhat. |
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VanIslander

Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 5:53 pm Post subject: |
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Korean students have learned through their public schooling that their role is a passive one of listening and rote memorization.
The older and bigger the class, the more this approach has been fossilized. |
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Fox

Joined: 04 Mar 2009
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 5:55 pm Post subject: |
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Yes, I still don't understand the occasional incident of "I'm clearly not listening, I'm not learning anything, and I obviously don't want to be here, but if you try to send me out I'll fight tooth and nail."
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skeeterses
Joined: 25 Oct 2007
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 5:55 pm Post subject: |
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Welcome to the World of Teaching ESL in Korea my man. First thing is to try avoiding the confrontations. Give candy and stickers to the good students and get the bad students to sit at another table. If you're rough with the bad students, they can quit the school and get you fired in a real hurry. Remember, none of the kids want to be there. So you don't want to rock the boat.
Over time, you'll learn different ways to get the motivated students to learn, and you'll be amazed at the things they can do. But you'll also learn how to keep the lazy students pacified by doing things like spoonfeeding answers and letting them have break time as long as they're quiet. Usually, you only want to bring a Korean teacher in if the students are too loud or talking on their cellphones. Otherwise, don't force a lazy student to study. They know the system better than you or I. |
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Fishead soup
Joined: 24 Jun 2007 Location: Korea
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 6:02 pm Post subject: |
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Korean students are lost without a textbook. I can remember going through a lot of trouble to present pictures of my family and hometown just to get them to ask questions just to get a bunch of blank looks.
I then switched to this activity and got them out of their seats and active.
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Steelrails

Joined: 12 Mar 2009 Location: Earth, Solar System
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 6:48 pm Post subject: |
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Asking things can be difficult....I had a similar problem with one class...
The way I solved it was by having a whole lesson on 'how to answer loudly and often' Reward answering...punish silence...competition also works.
In Aretha's words- R E S P E C T. Earn it. Then Demand it. Then Use it.
I do think the silence factor is somewhat related to ability- I have one class of unusually skilled students and they enthusiastically answerd questions and volunteered from day 1.
To agree with fishead- Physical activity is always good. Often you can overcome language barriers through roleplaying and being physically active.
This problem is not unique to Korea....at my University tumbleweeds abounded as we plotted the weekened's beer-pong tourney via text msging...and the glorious spitball fights of middle school...ahhh the memories...I do remember that when I dealt with a hardcore teacher, who acted like a drill sergeant, I shut up and sat straight. |
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dporter

Joined: 26 Apr 2009
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 7:05 pm Post subject: |
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Steelrails wrote: |
This problem is not unique to Korea. |
I had the same issue in China. I would ask a question and they would look down or at each other.
In Chinese there is this saying, 'the bird who flies first gets shot.'
I think a lot of my students took that to heart.
I used a variety of tricks to loosen up the room. Some days I would start by talking about my weekend usually focusing on something stupid I did to evoke some laughter and loosen things up. Other days I would use a group activity that would require the students to get out of their desks and moving.
Other days - usually around exams when the students were walking zombies due to long hours hitting the books - its a no win proposition. On those days I pulled out a copy of Friends and we watched it for 30 minutes and talked about how no one working in a coffee shop in NY could afford that lifestyle. |
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Rusty Shackleford
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 7:39 pm Post subject: |
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Fishead soup wrote: |
Korean students are lost without a textbook. I can remember going through a lot of trouble to present pictures of my family and hometown just to get them to ask questions just to get a bunch of blank looks.
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Trying to illicit verbal questions is a waste of time. Give them a scrap of paper to jot down a question. It will take 30 minutes to answer them. Although, you will get "How tall are you?" at least 20 times. |
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NightSky
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 8:52 pm Post subject: |
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for some reason it really annoys me when my adults answer a simple yes or no question with "but..."
I say, "do you think that korean society is -----"
"But, koreans don't like to do this blah blah blah...."
I also have students that when I ask, "How are you today?" they just respond, "Yeah..." |
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Privateer
Joined: 31 Aug 2005 Location: Easy Street.
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 10:22 pm Post subject: |
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NightSky wrote: |
for some reason it really annoys me when my adults answer a simple yes or no question with "but..."
I say, "do you think that korean society is -----"
"But, koreans don't like to do this blah blah blah...."
I also have students that when I ask, "How are you today?" they just respond, "Yeah..." |
Give them a mix-n-match set of questions and responses to sort out.
How are you today? - Yeah
It's a nice day, isn't it? - Yes, I do
Good morning. - Fine.
Do you think that Korean society is too strict? - Good morning.
Or give them the questions they have problems with and multiple choice answers with 'choose the most appropriate response'.
Chances are they'll do the mix-n-match one in 10 seconds flat because there's only one possible solution, but might have problems with the multiple-choice one since it may require knowledge of pragmatics. You have to have good explanations for why the right answers are right prepared in advance or it might backfire. Remember the stupidest questions are the hardest to answer (and may reveal something about English)!
After that, you can hit them with the same questions next class, and they should be more willing to answer cos they know what answer you want. |
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DCJames

Joined: 27 Jul 2006
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 10:57 pm Post subject: Re: What is it with students ignoring the teacher? |
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earthbound14 wrote: |
One of my least favourite things about teaching Koreans (there are many things that I like, but I don't question that) is how they ignore basic requests or questions.
I had a class full of adults that out of the blue simply refused to answer a single question I asked them. For almost 2 weeks they were unresponsive in class and spent most of their time looking down at their books. I only asked them to answer questions about people they knew and character traits they admired (a high intermediate class). I asked them to talk to each other, still silence. It was horrible. I just stood there asking questons thinking they hated me (which was odd, cause all my students like me......or at least I think so). A few weeks later I seem to have sorted everything out. They are all happy and eager to talk with me or other students. We even went out and got drunk together. Although every so often tumble weeds blow through class when I ask them a question. Just random questions, nothing out there. As simple as "How are you today?". Not all classes are this odd, but it demonstrates how students simply ignore you if they feel like it.
I often don't understand why and have a hell of a time dealing with some students who do it on a regular basis. The worst is when students are given enough time to start talking amongst themselves in class. Sometimes they simply will not stop when asked repeatedly. I've yelled at students or slammed doors in order to get their attention. Then they look all suprised as if they didn't expect that. With younger students I've told them I will take them out of class if they don't listen. They get 3 warnings then I try to take them out. They usually refuse to go and cry as if they are about to be executed if I drag them. They grab onto the door, pull desks, pull chairs....it's completely nuts.
I just don't get this, they live in a whole other universe I seem unable to fully grasp. I have gotten better at understadning this yet I could never explain to you what I do or how I've changed in order to deal with this. I simply seem to have adapted somewhat. |
You're no "teacher".
Give up teaching. No one is learning anything from you. |
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superacidjax

Joined: 17 Oct 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 11:29 pm Post subject: Re: What is it with students ignoring the teacher? |
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earthbound14 wrote: |
They get 3 warnings then I try to take them out. They usually refuse to go and cry as if they are about to be executed if I drag them. They grab onto the door, pull desks, pull chairs....it's completely nuts. |
I've had that happen to me as well.. It's kind of funny.. I wish I would have youtubed some of those moments. It's like you're dragging them off to a torture chamber or something! |
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Goku
Joined: 10 Dec 2008
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 11:35 pm Post subject: |
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Simply this,
Students don't like to participate because teachers, especially in Korea, provide little positive reinforcement and the feeling of "no... that's wrong" outweighs the pat on the back.
There is no easy way to remedy this as it's both a natural human prediciliction as well as a learned habit.
Curing the cases of "I'm so shy don't call on me" can be resolved in this manner.
I had one teacher that would record who would speak in class. He would require that you speak at least 5 times during the course of the semester or he would fail you.
All students would fight for answers and quite honestly, it was a lot of fun. No one would care or blame someone else for answering the questions incorrect, because the dangling dagger of ACTUALLY failing by not answering questions was greater.
If you have control of their grades this should totally be done. In fact, I would use a ranking system (if I could) for participative students. All students would recieve a curved score based on % of questions answered right in class...
I'm a genius I know. |
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Yu_Bum_suk

Joined: 25 Dec 2004
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Posted: Sun May 10, 2009 11:54 pm Post subject: |
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One advantage to teaching PS is that you have control over their time and that makes it a lot easier to demand their attention. If the Q & A that should take two minutes is taking ten because they won't pay attention, just put it aside and save it til after the bell goes. Once it's a choice between paying attention for two minutes or losing a ten-minute break it's remarkable how quickly they can make an effort to tune in. |
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NightSky
Joined: 19 Apr 2005
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Posted: Mon May 11, 2009 1:17 am Post subject: |
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Privateer wrote: |
NightSky wrote: |
for some reason it really annoys me when my adults answer a simple yes or no question with "but..."
I say, "do you think that korean society is -----"
"But, koreans don't like to do this blah blah blah...."
I also have students that when I ask, "How are you today?" they just respond, "Yeah..." |
Give them a mix-n-match set of questions and responses to sort out.
How are you today? - Yeah
It's a nice day, isn't it? - Yes, I do
Good morning. - Fine.
Do you think that Korean society is too strict? - Good morning.
Or give them the questions they have problems with and multiple choice answers with 'choose the most appropriate response'.
Chances are they'll do the mix-n-match one in 10 seconds flat because there's only one possible solution, but might have problems with the multiple-choice one since it may require knowledge of pragmatics. You have to have good explanations for why the right answers are right prepared in advance or it might backfire. Remember the stupidest questions are the hardest to answer (and may reveal something about English)!
After that, you can hit them with the same questions next class, and they should be more willing to answer cos they know what answer you want. |
Right, but I don't think it's that they don't know what the proper answer is. With the "but", it seems like they're in such a hurry to get their own opinion out there that they don't really listen to the question. like if I said "are there a lot of gays in Korea?"
"but korean people don't really..."
I had a lot of upper-level students who were perfectly capable of answering complicated questions, yet when I asked them "What's on your mind today?" or "how's it going today?" which to me was a chance for them to open up about their mood in general with more freedom than the book questions allowed, they would just do the "....yeah.." thing and smile at me. |
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