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[Zulethe]

OK, here's the hard truth. When I was younger (I'm now 41) I used to chase skirt like a Tasmanian devil.

That's not unusual but what is is that I've changed. I've come to care about all of the broken hearts that I've left on the side of the rode as the result of my lascivious desires.

I've never been married and I've never had a girl break up with me. I'll admit, women get addicted to me really fast. Not bragging, just telling the truth.

Well, I used to have Asian fever but not anymore. In fact, I find Korean girls very unattractive. Not so much because of their looks, but rather lack of -I don't know the word for it - pizzazz!? They just don't do anything for me anymore.

So here's the deal. I can't date Korean women because I'm not going to lie to them anymore. The truth is I don't want to talk to them or have a relationship; I just want to get layed.

I'm not going break a girl�s heart just to satisfy my primordial desires.

No offense to white women, but I have never dated one. I was a product of the desegregation program in Seattle public schools in the late 70's so my first girlfriends were Black, Asian and Hispanic (good or bad that's just what I grew up liking during my formative years).

So for you guys in the same boat, how do you take care of a certain need?

I've been celibate for 9 months now. This is the longest period since I was 18.

[Char777]

That's all I have to say to you. You're an a__hole.

[BS.Dos.]

I preferred the desperation in your original title.

[Zulethe]

Char777 Welcome back from e-death. I guess that call to lawnmower man really worked. Welcome back. You don't happen to be a hot black girl do you?

[Chambertin]

Here's my take on it:

Let�s call it �new jeans� syndrome. Much like every person on earth wants to have the hottest pair of pants (regardless of gender) in high school and college we feel certain urges to get with people for their �new genes� biologically.

Some people get over this phase quickly, others rush out to the mall every weekend looking for the hottest pair. Hehe

I cant say I am in your position, but I can understand what you are saying. I don�t think there is anything you can do. I get the fact that you are culturally tired of a certain type of woman, lord knows I was. I wanted nothing to do with Asian women until I got tired of the �jeans� in my local 4 state area.

I guess the Boot Cut and the Capri of it is that everyone will eventually tire of what we wear most often. Its not that you don�t like those jeans anymore you just want a new cut, or a new designer. If you cant find either of those in your local mall, then I suggest you just be honest with yourself and your pair.

Let them know it is about utility up front and do your best. Prepare for stalkers because those you tell this too are either ok with it, or will lie to themselves and try harder to land you with a permanent purchase agreement.

There�s nothing to do but be honest.

Oh and ya never know about how those jeans will fit. I once found a pair that looked good, but didn�t fit well. After a couple months in the dryer (rapid movement and heat) not only did they shrink to a point I wouldn�t believe, they were quite stylish.

[Pwillig]

Er...then don't lie. Be straight up with what you want out of the relationship. Relationship as in the interaction between humans...not the couply kind.

Char...sounds like somebody was a bit gullible and naive

[Joe666]

Zulethe - I have read your posts in the past, and you sound like a pretty straight up primate. This post is on the meglomanic side of said primate's cortex.

The simplest answer, Pay for it via cash exchange.

If you have never dated or "had" a "white" female, who's that on your avatar, your sister?

[E_athlete]

im not exactly sure how you communicate with K-women ill just assume you speak the language. sex can happen only after 7 hrs of interaction after meeting a person. You just need to keep escalating physical contact and be the one guiding. You dont ever have to bring the subject of relationships up unless she does either. If you dont want your women to be clingy and want more of a sex friend what you should do is not offer them to stay at your place after sex.

[dharma bum]

one question: are you interested in interacting with women your age or younger?

[espoir]

[Fishead soup]

Are hookers off limits. I mean you have one on your default. Have you checked out the scenes in Pattaya/Angeles.

[Joe666]

espoir wrote:

[eIn07912]

Zulethe if ur in desperate need for a white girl, i dont see how u could miss them. i see tons at wolfhound and other places. plus u could also go online. even a guy ur age couldnt have a too hard of a time, most of the people "over the hill" here tend to be female, dont see why u could run a monopoly on them.

Char777 (welcome back from the underworld) and dont hate on those of us that dont find white girls attractive. its not that difficult. lets just say they dont tend to try that hard. most asian girls r fashionable, care about their make up, and at least attempt to stay thin. most white girls i see here and at home think they can leave the house in sweat pants, an old tshirt, and 50 pounds overweight and all it takes is a scarf to make them look pretty. when u have as many options as guys have here, uve got to put in the effort. its not like in america where most girls can have their pick of guys and control them just because they have a V.

i cant stand the attitudes of most white girls, especially american (and i am an american). that undeserving sense of self righteousness, that all men r supposed to fall all over u because u were born with breasts annoys me to no end. i dont beg for any woman. i never have and never will beg or pay for sex. if i want it, i make a phone call, and it comes to me (u think im joking right? u'd think wrong). plus, asian girls r the only girlfriends ive had that put an equal amount of effort into the relationship. im a good boyfriend. i always try to look nice and smell good. im an old school gentlemen opening doors, holding chairs, giving gifts for no reason, bringing flowers, etc.. and white girls just eat this up and think theyre only supposed to give sex in return. well wake up ladies, its a new world out there. guys like to be treated well too. we like to be reassured just like u do. it just may be part of their quirky nature or culture or whatever u want to call it, but some of the things asian girls do matters to me. telling me i look handsome after ive tried hard to look that way. attempting to pay for the bill or at least go dutch. giving me a back rub when i say im tired. i love it when we go eat galbi and she folds up a little beaf in leaf to give to me. its cute and it makes me feel like shes focused on me and cares about me. and i find a lot of guys enjoy the attention they get from their korean or asian girlfriends.

[redaxe]

prostitution.

[Zulethe]