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kiknkorea



Joined: 16 May 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 3:44 am    Post subject: Ailing American Heads Home on Donation Reply with quote

I've been wondering what happened to Matt.

I wish him luck on his recovery. The expat community really came through for him.

http://www.koreatimes.co.kr/www/news/nation/2009/07/117_48077.html
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Ruthdes



Joined: 16 Oct 2008
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 4:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you joined the facebook group they've been sending out regular updates so we know what has been happening to him. If I am remembering correctly, the last message was from his mum who was passing on a message and saying that he was recovering well from his first surgery since returning to the US.
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chemicalblur



Joined: 30 May 2009

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 5:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I just read about the background on this guy. Supposedly a kid who came out here to party and binge drink (funded by "teaching esl") knowing he had serious medical condition. Not a very bright guy I'd say.

To be honest, I'm not the least surprised. Just feeds into the stereotype...
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seonsengnimble



Joined: 02 Jun 2009
Location: taking a ride on the magic English bus

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 6:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

chemicalblur wrote:
I just read about the background on this guy. Supposedly a kid who came out here to party and binge drink (funded by "teaching esl") knowing he had serious medical condition. Not a very bright guy I'd say.

To be honest, I'm not the least surprised. Just feeds into the stereotype...


Thanks for the info. Have any sources for this claim? Or is this just another "Esl teachers are all beneath me because I have a lot of money" posts?
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Captain Corea



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 7:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

As far as the newspapers read (and you can take that for whatever it's worth), he was here for 8+ months after leaving his last job.

Very few tourists I know stay in Korea for 8 months.


Good to hear the positive news for the guy though, I hope he recovers.
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andrew



Joined: 30 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 8:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Last edited by andrew on Thu Aug 27, 2009 3:38 pm; edited 1 time in total
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Bronski



Joined: 17 Apr 2006

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 10:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Schadenfreude

noun. satisfaction or pleasure felt at someone else's misfortune.


chemicalblur wrote:
I just read about the background on this guy. Supposedly a kid who came out here to party and binge drink (funded by "teaching esl") knowing he had serious medical condition. Not a very bright guy I'd say.

To be honest, I'm not the least surprised. Just feeds into the stereotype...


Example: Chemicalblur felt schadenfreude when a foreign male (who liked to drink a bit and may have been teaching illegally) had to go to a hospital in Korea for a medical condition. High on this feeling of pleasure, he bought another Porsche and burned some 100 dollar bills.
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chemicalblur



Joined: 30 May 2009

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 11:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Bronski wrote:
Schadenfreude

noun. satisfaction or pleasure felt at someone else's misfortune.


chemicalblur wrote:
I just read about the background on this guy. Supposedly a kid who came out here to party and binge drink (funded by "teaching esl") knowing he had serious medical condition. Not a very bright guy I'd say.

To be honest, I'm not the least surprised. Just feeds into the stereotype...


Example: Chemicalblur felt schadenfreude when a foreign male (who liked to drink a bit and may have been teaching illegally) had to go to a hospital in Korea for a medical condition. High on this feeling of pleasure, he bought another Porsche and burned some 100 dollar bills.


Gosh, I guess the Porsche really gets to you as well. I'll give you a ride one of these days, ok? I'll even have lollipops for you, so don't cry anymore.

I just love how everyone sugar-coats the story. Even you, bronski.

"drink a bit"..."may have been teaching illegally". You're such an ESL teacher apologist.

No ill-will towards the guy regarding his ailment. It was just a bone-headed move from his part to act so irresponsibly in the first place that ended up burdening his friends and the korean community.
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Kikomom



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
Location: them thar hills--Penna, USA--Zippy is my kid, the teacher in ROK. You can call me Kiko

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 12:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm happy too. And I'm very proud that his friends rallied for him and found a way to get those bills paid in the midst of a most unfortunate situation. I'm very happy for Matt that he didn't lose his leg and feel that he's doing the best thing now being back home having the rest of the surgeries.

People who can do what they can to help are also the lucky ones in this scenario. Whether you believe in a higher power or not, it's the power of compassion--taking care of someone in need--that they can be proud of too.

http://www.geocities.com/kikos_stuff2/buddhistprayer/
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espoir



Joined: 09 Oct 2008
Location: Incheon, South Korea

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 4:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

seonsengnimble wrote:
chemicalblur wrote:
I just read about the background on this guy. Supposedly a kid who came out here to party and binge drink (funded by "teaching esl") knowing he had serious medical condition. Not a very bright guy I'd say.

To be honest, I'm not the least surprised. Just feeds into the stereotype...


Thanks for the info. Have any sources for this claim? Or is this just another "Esl teachers are all beneath me because I have a lot of money" posts?


Umm maybe seonsengnimble you should read the whole story about Matt before you post.

Firstly, I am glad that the guy is okay and he was definately put through hell in the Korean hospital he was being held in. But he was also anything but an innocent victim. He got fired from his job here, left and came back full well knowing he had a serious medical condition and did so without any medical inssurance! I'm sorry but that is just idiotic to say the least. Not that he deserved to go through all the torment that he did, but he's also no angel.
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Yesterday



Joined: 15 Aug 2003
Location: Land of the Morning DongChim (Kancho)

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 5:22 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Before he left, he spoke of his gratitude for the people who donated to his cause, vowing to return to Korea ........


No thanks - I really hope he doesn't come back to Korea (especially with no medical insurance and no job again).
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seonsengnimble



Joined: 02 Jun 2009
Location: taking a ride on the magic English bus

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 6:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

espoir wrote:
seonsengnimble wrote:
chemicalblur wrote:
I just read about the background on this guy. Supposedly a kid who came out here to party and binge drink (funded by "teaching esl") knowing he had serious medical condition. Not a very bright guy I'd say.

To be honest, I'm not the least surprised. Just feeds into the stereotype...


Thanks for the info. Have any sources for this claim? Or is this just another "Esl teachers are all beneath me because I have a lot of money" posts?


Umm maybe seonsengnimble you should read the whole story about Matt before you post.

Firstly, I am glad that the guy is okay and he was definately put through hell in the Korean hospital he was being held in. But he was also anything but an innocent victim. He got fired from his job here, left and came back full well knowing he had a serious medical condition and did so without any medical inssurance! I'm sorry but that is just idiotic to say the least. Not that he deserved to go through all the torment that he did, but he's also no angel.


My bad. I've only read a couple of posts about this guy and the blurbs on the donation jars. I just assumed(making an ass out of me) chemicalblur was pulling this out of his ass since he seems to think that all ESL teachers are broke frat guys.

Anyone have any links to full articles about him?
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Zulethe



Joined: 04 Jul 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 6:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is something for everyone to think about: your health. Most of you are young but that means very little in the event you should become seriously ill.

I have health care for life back home, but if I didn't, I would serisouly be thinking about investing in some type of supplemental health care plan.

Even though most of us have insurance through our employers, a debilitating illness can still put you through the financial ringer.

As for what kind of person this guy is, I don't think that's the point. He's a fellow human being who needed help and the community responded.

I wasn't one of them but good on you who did.

Any of us could find ourselves in the exact same situation. It's nice to know that the expats do come together in a serious time of need.
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Goku



Joined: 10 Dec 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 6:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

There's an old post about him, They were titled something like Foreigner needs medical assitance and the like.

I felt bad for him, seriously.

But the semi-general consensus (paradoxial) was that he had poor judgement for not getting the medical insurance when knowing about his condition.

Many (including myself) thinks he should have considered his condition better options instead of going around Korea on a tourist visa. If he doesn't have a few million won, why is he in Korea as a tourist? And if he's teaching illegally, why doesn't he a few million won to pay his medical bill?).

I don't like the fact that he depended on the community for support when he obviously he should taken the right steps to have prevented it. He came off as very immature. If I had medical problems myself I would get the money from family and close friends. I think burdening strangers sympathy strings when you consider the bigger causes out there, is really immature. He raised several million won if I remember correctly. But if you think about WHY and HOW he got into the situation, it wasn't really deserving of the money compared to starving children in ___________.

Although, god bless him I hope he's ok.
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Zantetsuken



Joined: 21 Dec 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 6:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Chemical Blur Award 50 WAP
Awarded for continuously feeling pleasure at the misfortune of another waygook.
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