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noguri

Joined: 28 Nov 2005 Location: korea
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Posted: Thu Aug 20, 2009 6:28 am Post subject: why can't I meet any non-Christian Koreans? |
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I'm a friendly person and I like it when people talk to me on the street.
Usually people who approach and speak to me (whether in Korean or in English) are older folks, or perhaps mostly elderly. I like old timers, they can recall all sorts of history and interesting stuff.
However, what I don't like is that almost all of the adults I meet and chat with at some length at some point bring up their religious affiliation and question me about mine.
I would like to make some Korean friends or acqaintances who are either Christian or non-Christian, but for whom religion is just a private issue. Why is it so important for people to only relate to other Christians? How come these holy rollers just ooze out of the woodwork?
I totally respect people who go to church and that's fine, but why do people have the temerity to ask me on Sunday morning why I don't go to church? It's really nobody's bloody business, is it? |
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E_athlete
Joined: 09 Jun 2009 Location: Korea sparkling
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Posted: Thu Aug 20, 2009 7:00 am Post subject: Re: why can't I meet any non-Christian Koreans? |
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| noguri wrote: |
I'm a friendly person and I like it when people talk to me on the street.
Usually people who approach and speak to me (whether in Korean or in English) are older folks, or perhaps mostly elderly. I like old timers, they can recall all sorts of history and interesting stuff.
However, what I don't like is that almost all of the adults I meet and chat with at some length at some point bring up their religious affiliation and question me about mine.
I would like to make some Korean friends or acqaintances who are either Christian or non-Christian, but for whom religion is just a private issue. Why is it so important for people to only relate to other Christians? How come these holy rollers just ooze out of the woodwork?
I totally respect people who go to church and that's fine, but why do people have the temerity to ask me on Sunday morning why I don't go to church? It's really nobody's bloody business, is it? |
This happened to me once.
I didn't have internet at the time and was a PC bang.
Korean: oh. are you a Christian? This is Christian rock music do you like?
Me: me yeah sounds pretty good.
Korean: are you Christian?
Me: no I'm an atheist. I don't believe in Jesus and I reject Christianity. (smile)
Korean: *shocked look on his face* |
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gaffe
Joined: 06 Aug 2009 Location: N.C.
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Posted: Thu Aug 20, 2009 12:55 pm Post subject: |
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| Do you live in Seoul? When I lived in Bucheon, it seemed everyone was a fundie. But in Ulsan I met many many people who'd say stuff like, "I'm not a Christian. I'm not Buddhist. I believe in myself." I just got the feeling that up north was much more Christian than down south. |
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Mithrae
Joined: 22 Jul 2009
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Posted: Thu Aug 20, 2009 4:19 pm Post subject: |
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| My principle aasked me on the first day, "Are you Christian?" There should be laws against that. My beliefsa are none of his business and do not affect my ability to teach English. |
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djsmnc

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
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Posted: Thu Aug 20, 2009 6:21 pm Post subject: |
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| I don't meet many Korean Christians. |
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Illysook
Joined: 30 Jun 2008
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Posted: Thu Aug 20, 2009 8:22 pm Post subject: |
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In my best church lady voice...
Have you asked yourself why you seem to be meeting so many Christians? Maybe there's a reason. A reason like, maybeeee.....God! |
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Steelrails

Joined: 12 Mar 2009 Location: Earth, Solar System
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Posted: Thu Aug 20, 2009 9:09 pm Post subject: |
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Welcome to a different country people. Privacy of religion and such is not the same here as it is back home.
This has its downsides for Christians, people are far more stringent on booze and smokes, two of my preferred vices.
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| My principle aasked me on the first day, "Are you Christian?" There should be laws against that. My beliefsa are none of his business and do not affect my ability to teach English. |
You're not in Kansas anymore.
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| why do people have the temerity to ask me on Sunday morning why I don't go to church? It's really nobody's bloody business, is it? |
Privacy concerning certain things isn't the same here. Time to put your tolerance juices to work and suck it up. |
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Sergio Stefanuto
Joined: 14 May 2009 Location: UK
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Posted: Thu Aug 20, 2009 10:07 pm Post subject: |
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| In my experience, the theist:atheist ratio is pretty much 50:50. 'Atheist' in Korea probably means 'Buddhist' most of the time - an equally absurd, obscene dogma - but anyway, the odds of meeting non-Christian Koreans are fairly good. |
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pkang0202

Joined: 09 Mar 2007
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Posted: Thu Aug 20, 2009 10:30 pm Post subject: |
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OP, any Korean you see on the street from 9am-2pm on a Sunday are probably not Christians.
I definitely wouldn't want the company of the OP. Anyone who's shallow enough to write off people just because of their religion isn't worth talking to, in my opinion. |
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ED209
Joined: 17 Oct 2006
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Posted: Thu Aug 20, 2009 10:37 pm Post subject: |
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| Steelrails wrote: |
You're not in Kansas anymore.
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It's much worse in Kansas. |
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