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[bassexpander]

People put up a good front.

Take your time and just meet someone new.

[xingyiman]

[Jane]

Approach dating in a non-linear fashion. In other words, there is absolutely no truth in the idea 'the last few girls were not right therefore the next ones will not be Ms.Rights' either...and have a little faith!

[ekul]

Gotta love this whole faceless internet agony aunt thing . The waegookin effect wears off, the girl figures out your personality and then it's goodnight Vienna.

[DWAEJIMORIGUKBAP]

You have to find something in your life more fulfilling than dating / sleeping with / being with women.

I'm serious.

Once you do, it won't be the end of the world so much when things don't work out with a woman, especially if you haven't known them that long anyway.

So many guys revolve their lives around women. I used to. These days I can barely be bothered, but if and when I meet someone who really stands out to me and we click well, then yeah I'll go for it.

Otherwise - Wherever, whatever, have a nice day.

This usually happens every few years. When it does it's electric and the wait for the quantity is well worth forgoing the mediocracy of chasing skirt and having drunken s*x every weekend or being in a relationship just cause you don't wanna be alone.

I turned down a young Korean chick a few months back who was pretty smoking hot. But she was kind of childish and weird.... But I could've taken her to a motel and youknowhat. I thought my friend was going to kill me, he was so outraged... I was like 'well I'm tired and my place is a mess and I can't be bothered waking up tommorow feeling awkward with someone I'm not really interested in...'

Lol I once turned down a 3some with two bi girls in Hongdae because I was pre-occupied with trying to figure out which interpretation of quantum mechanics I favoured.

meh,

[retrogress]

[Fermentator75]

Maybe she realized you weren't the good christian you claim to be since you so easily typed the lords name in vain "goddamn"...? So I imagine you let your blasphemous tongue loose in speech as well. Spend more time at your bible readings or church functions to find that perfect righteous bore that you can relate to.

[Changwon Charlie]

[Whitey Otez]

Yeah, hang in there bud. It's like the old cliche, "There's plenty of other fish in the sea. But you're all alone, lost in the desert."

My favorite girl ever was pretty similar to the OP. I still think about the potential, forgetting that in truth she was just a teenager at 30, worrying about her reputation, obedient to her old-school father, and always keeping the foreign boyfriend a priority somewhere below her elementary school chums and people who left comments on her cyworld page.

Do what we've done throughout the ages. Work it out with a bottle of cold Jagermeister and Journey's greatest hits.

[KoreaninKorea]

[Bbang!]

[Kimchi Cha Cha]

[samcheokguy]

the beautiful things about astrophysics. Nobody understands what you are saying, I once argued the 'superiority of a geocentric solar system' and people just nodded, and tried to contribute.

[DWAEJIMORIGUKBAP]

I'm neither a ladies man nor a science whizz. Though both stories are true.

I have though been successful with women when I make the effort, though not on a super regular basis. And my science knowledge is rudimentary at best.

I was just trying to point out to the OP that it comes as a relief somewhat when you start finding transendance from other areas of life and instead of being the be all and end all, relations with women become just one equal interest out of several....

Though, yeah in my twenties I was a super horny, arse obsessed dog, I'll admit. It is a relief not to have that on the brain all the time any more though...

And you know, if a relationship or short time date doesn't go the way you planned it doesn't become the end of your world as you don't have all your hopes, dreams, emotions and energies invested in it....

[typo]