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redaxe
Joined: 01 Dec 2008
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Posted: Tue Nov 03, 2009 7:49 pm Post subject: |
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GoldMember wrote: |
At the Bizzaro night club the white guys are really nasty, every time one of these sweet kind hearted Korean guys tries to meet a nice white girl, some white dude comes along and tries to kok block. |
lol i see what you did there, and i liked it. |
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PRagic

Joined: 24 Feb 2006
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Posted: Tue Nov 03, 2009 10:41 pm Post subject: |
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Coming full circle now, can't your Korean friends put the word out and scare up at least a couple of blind dates for you? Do you have Korean family here? Maybe they can set you up.
Hard to believe that as a Kyopo with Korean friends you need to ask people on a predominantly foreign board how to meet Korean men!
If you're in your 30s, I highly doubt that you're going to find Mr. Right at a club, especially at a club in Kang Nam.
Have you considered Internet dating sites? Might be a possibility. |
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Xuanzang

Joined: 10 Apr 2007 Location: Sadang
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Posted: Tue Nov 03, 2009 11:02 pm Post subject: |
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poppydaisy wrote: |
Thanks everyone for all your feedback!
Bottom line is...where does a good gal like me meet another good guy? I can't meet them at church, clubs, or at work, where do I meet them? My life style does not allow me to meet Korean people....and certainly not Korean men!
Yeah, I heard about the night club scene...that one night stands are very popular! I'm open to other suggestions if anyone has any!  |
Your lifestyle and life is Korea based, no? Males should be all around. Try Koreancupid or those dating in Korea websites. |
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Gnawbert

Joined: 23 Oct 2007 Location: The Internet
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Posted: Tue Nov 03, 2009 11:44 pm Post subject: |
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Marcello's!
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qcat79
Joined: 18 Aug 2006 Location: ROK
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Posted: Tue Nov 03, 2009 11:50 pm Post subject: |
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well, if you're not looking to getting groped and/or having some one-night stand, i have no idea why you're asking what CLUB to go to. everybody knows the only reason any of us go to clubs is to hook up in the end. in all honesty, you should find some other route like:
church
group interest club (hiking, book reading, other sports, etc)
dating websites
friends of friends
walking up to random people at the market, street, store
whatever. |
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endo

Joined: 14 Mar 2004 Location: Seoul...my home
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Posted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 12:46 am Post subject: |
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samd wrote: |
I find it hard to believe that your female Korean friends don't know the answer to this.
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I smell a troll. The OP that is. |
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benji1422
Joined: 02 Jun 2009 Location: Los Angeles & Seoul
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Posted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 12:49 am Post subject: |
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I recommend you get a hobby or interest. Otherwise, to potential suitors, you sound like a girl who doesn't want to work and just wants to get married. Some ahjusshis might be down with that, but the kind of guys you would like to be with long term are not into these kind of girls with no personality and will use you for sex (unless you're really rich).
Clubs, bars and meeting randoms on the internet are for hooking up. Honestly, I never went there to find a ms. right... only ms right NOW.
You sound pretty naive about this. Have you had more than 2 boyfriends outside of college? If you want to find a long term partner first get a life beyond your work or yenta friends who are all chasing the latest kangnam chaebol stud. |
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Dharma_Blue

Joined: 11 Oct 2008
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Posted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 1:33 am Post subject: |
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poppydaisy wrote: |
Yeah, I heard about the night club scene...that one night stands are very popular! I'm open to other suggestions if anyone has any!  |
For some reason, I've noticed that this idea of clubs as an orgie of one-night stands is especially popular among more conservative Koreans and those who are stuck in long-term relationships. hmm.. |
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poppydaisy
Joined: 02 Mar 2008 Location: Bundang, Korea
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Posted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 2:52 am Post subject: |
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I'm sure my Korean friends know where to go but I wanted to do some of my own research. We are a group of single women who's not looking to hook up after the club scene so is it wrong to assume there are guys out there like us? or are they all the same??? |
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yesman

Joined: 15 Sep 2006
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Posted: Wed Nov 04, 2009 3:07 am Post subject: |
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poppydaisy wrote: |
I'm sure my Korean friends know where to go but I wanted to do some of my own research. We are a group of single women who's not looking to hook up after the club scene so is it wrong to assume there are guys out there like us? or are they all the same??? |
You have found your answer. |
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