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[bry0000000]

[Cartman]

haha - I got a reply from her around 1:30am tonight:

"You sent wrong msg? This is [Jessica] not Yeonjou. I didnt leave anything in taxi. you stil wana to meet me?"

So that settles it:

1) confirms (for me) yet again that most (if not all) of the k-girls I talk to don't get obscure jokes or sarcasm.

2) the apparent 'game' seems to have the effect that everyone here was posting about. I sent that txt with the mindset to get rid of her though. I love how she spelled the 'other' girl's name wrong too...

Conclusion: I'm not meeting her. No matter what. I think she is just laying more bait. I'm just deciding on if I should set a date then cancel at the last minute like she did to me twice now. That would be sinking to the same level though, and I'm not flaky.

I'm sure I at least pissed her off by 'mistaking' her for someone else. I've been hanging with a girl for a couple of weeks who is 31 and super cool. No games, and a similar mature mindset. Also, fluency in English is a big deal for me. I'm tired of simplifying everything I say... There seems to be a strong positive correlation b/w English fluency and no b*lls**t text msging.

[endo]

^ Some Korean girls play the game, but so do other girls around the world. Guys too.


There are a lot of great Korean girls out there too. People should stop with the labels and recognize human nature for what it is.

[benji1422]

You don't need to speak another language fluently to know if someone wants to f--- you.

These k-girls have better noon-chi than you guys and you all are painfully obvious that you want to f--- them so bad, that's why they are playing with you, dropping lame-ass texts and flaking out on you .

Cartman +1.

I disagree that women are better and more mature about sex the older they get. They are all aware from aged 12 until death abouts men's sexual advances and intentions. They are just more adept at using it to their advantage the older they get. The young ones are just enjoying flexing their power... there are no "good" women or any of that. All women, unless they have a physical birth defect, enjoy flexing their sexual power. They just feel less of a need to the older they get.

I know it's counter intuitive, but the more ass you get from others, the more women want you. They are just competitive by nature. Don't believe any woman, no matter what she looks like or what she writes on a message board, who says otherwise.

[mc_jc]

Benji +1

Awesome post

However, the problem comes down to the competitiveness of "the game" in Korea- Korean women are being sought after by both foreign men and Korean men.
However, Korean men are getting anxious because of the perception of a gender imbalance in Korea due to parental preference for boys at birth.
For their perceived "uniqueness", foreign men are sought because they are seen as an escape from the servitude of marriage to a Korean. However, to counter this, Korean business men are sought because they are perceived to provide for many things foreign men can't provide- a stable job, a car, a home, etc.
In essense, there are too many men here, all after the same thing and that's what creates the perceived power women seem to wield. I agree a girl learns what she could get if she acts a certain way, which drives men crazy and allows them to manipulate men to get what they want.

I think the one thing to counter their "gonju byung" is to have money and status- they see that and go crazy. But if you show them that they can't have it by using their usual means, they either get upset or try harder.

Power and money are the key*

[redaxe]

[Goku]

[Joe666]