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Triban
Joined: 14 Jul 2009
Location: Suwon Station
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 Posted: Sun Dec 13, 2009 9:31 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm no Picasso wrote: |
Like I said, I don't care what you look like. If you think it's acceptable to tell a woman where she falls on your rating scale because she is "beneath contempt", you are not a man any decent woman would waste her time with. That's ridiculous. And the fact that you publicly claim these things like you think they make you sound cool just proves you've got even more growing up to do. You look pretty young, so hopefully it's just a case of needing a little more time to grow out of that kind of thing. |
I guess I believe the case is, "Would you rather a man be honest with you, or do you want said man to put up a facade in order to delude you into thinking he enjoys your company more than he does in order to further his own purposes?" We are who we are, and I'm just the type of person that prefers brutal honesty over a sugar-coated half-truth.
Furthermore, please take what I say on these forums with a grain of salt; I am not as bad a person as I pretend to be while at work on the internet. |
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I'm no Picasso
Joined: 28 Oct 2008
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| Posted: Sun Dec 13, 2009 9:35 pm Post subject: |
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| Triban wrote: |
| I'm no Picasso wrote: |
Like I said, I don't care what you look like. If you think it's acceptable to tell a woman where she falls on your rating scale because she is "beneath contempt", you are not a man any decent woman would waste her time with. That's ridiculous. And the fact that you publicly claim these things like you think they make you sound cool just proves you've got even more growing up to do. You look pretty young, so hopefully it's just a case of needing a little more time to grow out of that kind of thing. |
I guess I believe the case is, "Would you rather a man be honest with you, or do you want said man to put up a facade in order to delude you into thinking he enjoys your company more than he does in order to further his own purposes?" We are who we are, and I'm just the type of person that prefers brutal honesty over a sugar-coated half-truth.
Furthermore, please take what I say on these forums with a grain of salt; I am not as bad a person as I pretend to be while at work on the internet. |
Well I don't know what to say about taking things with a grain of salt -- I don't know you. I only know what you've said here.
But the above is more proof that you've not quite worked out what a gentleman is yet. There's a world of difference between telling a woman honestly that you're simply not interested, and you'd prefer not to waste her time, when surely there's a man out there who's better suited to her, and telling her that she's a 6 and you're like, so hot, so there's like, no way in HELL you're going below a 7, man, so like peace out and stuff.
Which one seems classier (and more attractive) to you? |
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Savant
Joined: 25 May 2007
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| Posted: Sun Dec 13, 2009 9:36 pm Post subject: |
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Fixed it for you.
Your need for reassurance about your "looks" sounds like you are overcompensating for other inadequacies. |
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Triban
Joined: 14 Jul 2009
Location: Suwon Station
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| Posted: Sun Dec 13, 2009 9:41 pm Post subject: |
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Fixed it for you.
Your need for reassurance about your "looks" sounds like you are overcompensating for other inadequacies. |
I do not need reassurance, I know I'm attractive, and I look exactly the same now as I did then, those are just the only photos on webshots and I'm not giving people my facebook. I was just giving proof so we can move on with the subject and stop making personal jabs, but that seems to be all anyone feels like doing on this thread, so I'll be leaving it.
p.s. you're right dude, I'm so inadequate emotionally that I need physical reassurance. |
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Bramble
Joined: 26 Jan 2007
Location: National treasures need homes
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| Posted: Sun Dec 13, 2009 11:11 pm Post subject: |
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| So young to be so bitter ... |
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morrisonhotel
Joined: 18 Jul 2009
Location: Gyeonggi-do
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| Posted: Sun Dec 13, 2009 11:56 pm Post subject: |
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| I'm no Picasso wrote: |
Which one seems classier (and more attractive) to you? |
Judging by Triban's previous posts, the latter. |
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morrisonhotel
Joined: 18 Jul 2009
Location: Gyeonggi-do
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| Posted: Mon Dec 14, 2009 12:03 am Post subject: |
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| Triban wrote: |
| Savant wrote: |
Fixed it for you.
Your need for reassurance about your "looks" sounds like you are overcompensating for other inadequacies. |
I do not need reassurance, I know I'm attractive, and I look exactly the same now as I did then, those are just the only photos on webshots and I'm not giving people my facebook. I was just giving proof so we can move on with the subject and stop making personal jabs, but that seems to be all anyone feels like doing on this thread, so I'll be leaving it.
p.s. you're right dude, I'm so inadequate emotionally that I need physical reassurance. |
It's not about your looks that people are making personal jabs about. It's your personality that people are making personal jabs about. |
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