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cassimira
Joined: 26 Dec 2009 Location: Daeso, South Korea
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Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 5:25 pm Post subject: What should we do about this? |
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My boyfriend and I have recently accepted a position near Seoul. It's in a fairly rural area, which is actually to our liking, and the salary is good (not great). The teacher currently there initially sent us a fantastic e-mail about the position, which was enough to make us accept the position, even though we were keeping in mind that there may have been some "director influence" at play. Sure enough, today I received another e-mail from him stating that the town is actually much smaller and a little further out of town than we were lead to believe. While we are ok with the new location, the dissimulation still worried us a bit. He also said the following:
The town itself is very nice and i already have told you about it in the last email. The children and the curriculum are also great. The main problem is the director, whom i and i hear past foreign teachers have also had problems with. He is very reluctant to help with everyday problems concerning the job or the apartment or general living in korea. Make sure you get your own bank account within the first week of coming here, and inform the director of your account details.
Also, often the pay can come a few weeks late, and the hours are 1-6 not 1-7, and if they ask you to do phone teaching or extra tutoring on the weekends you are well within your rights to politely refuse.
Im sorry for any confusion, I hope that this email answers all your questions. The position is a good one and the lifestyle is also great, its a good opportunity to save money too.
Hmmm.... seems like a bit of a mixed bag. "Problems with the director"and "late payments" seems to be the standard complaint with many hagwon jobs, and we do have ex-pat friends in Korea that could help us navigate setting up internet and bank accounts and such... but... we're still not sure. WE have already sent our visa paperwork off, so it would be a bit of a struggle to pull out at his late stage, but we also want to make sure the position is sound. (We negotiated our contract carefully, and made sure we kept the original signed copies ourselves... .and we're sticking to 'em!) What do you guys think? Are there enough positives to outweigh the negatives? |
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jmuns
Joined: 09 Sep 2009 Location: earth
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Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 5:51 pm Post subject: |
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maybe some positives, but no amount of positives can outweigh late payments, or payments that never come. they already misled you about the school and town too. |
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cheolsu
Joined: 16 Jan 2009
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Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 5:58 pm Post subject: |
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Why don't you just read about the town on your own? I wouldn't factor misinformation about the town into your decision-making. The director is another story. |
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reactionary
Joined: 22 Oct 2006 Location: korreia
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Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 5:59 pm Post subject: |
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I wouldn't take it. It's true that it will be hard for you to jump ship right now, but it will be even harder if you go there. Payment a few days late is one thing - I had a forgetful boss at one time. A few weeks? That's a sign of trouble. |
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lifeinkorea
Joined: 24 Jan 2009 Location: somewhere in China
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Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 6:03 pm Post subject: |
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I have a different attitude about this. I have had two rural jobs, 1 city job, and I am at my 2nd. I have also worked in Japan and had the same experiences.
Schools out in the country or at least a distance from the center of a main city tend to be more relaxed folks. So, we need to evaluate those schools differently. Be concerned, but develop trust with small promises.
Don't gamble out in the country is what I am saying. If everything runs smoothly with small tasks, you can take the weekend overtime if you want. Just don't do it all at once.
I agree with the second letter, get your bank account info as soon as you can. As long as they put money into your account, you can work out problems. If they are late with pay, they should be treating you differently to compensate for it. |
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PaperTiger

Joined: 31 May 2005 Location: Ulaanbataar
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Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 7:01 pm Post subject: |
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If he comes right out and tells you that they pay "a few weeks late" and warns you about extra classes and bank accounts...imagine what he isn't telling you. People break contracts all the time...you should break this one without thinking twice. If you think pulling out now will be a struggle...wait til you actually start working for these idiots. Take it from me, if you're already seeing red flags BEFORE you've even started, it's not going to get better.
Late pay equals financial problems or management problems...you don't want anything to do with a school that you KNOW has them before you've even started.
You'd be better off trying to find another job...because you will...there is no shortage of job no matter what recruiters tell you. If you take this job, you're just going to be back on this forum in a month or so lamenting late payment and a myriad of other hellish complaints. |
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blackjack

Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Location: anyang
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Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 7:15 pm Post subject: |
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Late pay is a red flag.
I hate it when teachers complain about this one
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He is very reluctant to help with everyday problems concerning the job or the apartment or general living in korea. |
Everyone here is an adult (or is meant to be). Why should your boss help you with your day to day stuff. If you can't figure things out then maybe you should be here (not aimed at the op just a general you). Between this site, the internet and google translate. You should be able to solve your own problems. Would you expect your boss back home to solve your problems? |
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frankly speaking
Joined: 23 Oct 2005
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Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 11:47 pm Post subject: |
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I would agree with you black jack but there are other factors to consider.
First many teaching positions occur during the time that business stuff needs to be done. I cannot go to the bank during most business days I am teaching. I cannot just walk out of my classes. I actually have management do most of my errands for me. Yes, I could do them myself, but it is more advantage for them to quickly take care of it and have me in the class than find someone to cover my class for a few minutes while I do mundane busy work.
For an inexperienced first timer in Korea it is a nice thing to have someone walk them through the first few weeks of adjustment. Shopping for groceries can be daunting for a first timer.
I think that the more a director or office staff help new teachers the better. I would do the same for foreign employees new to my country.
I don't think that it should be expected, but it is a nice thing. |
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Old Gil

Joined: 26 Sep 2009 Location: Got out! olleh!
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Posted: Thu Feb 04, 2010 11:52 pm Post subject: |
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What's the name of the town? Just plug into google maps to get an idea of the location. |
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curlygirl

Joined: 26 Mar 2007 Location: Pundang, Seohyeon dong
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Posted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 1:35 am Post subject: |
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PaperTiger wrote: |
If he comes right out and tells you that they pay "a few weeks late" and warns you about extra classes and bank accounts...imagine what he isn't telling you. People break contracts all the time...you should break this one without thinking twice. |
I agree wholeheartedly with this. You've found one job, you'll find another. Don't set yourself up for a year of "why didn't we listen..."
Run away. Seriously. There are other jobs out there and you WILL find one because you've already proven to yourselves that you can. |
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roknroll

Joined: 29 Dec 2007
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Posted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 2:48 am Post subject: |
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blackjack wrote: |
Late pay is a red flag.
I hate it when teachers complain about this one
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He is very reluctant to help with everyday problems concerning the job or the apartment or general living in korea. |
Everyone here is an adult (or is meant to be). Why should your boss help you with your day to day stuff. If you can't figure things out then maybe you should be here (not aimed at the op just a general you). Between this site, the internet and google translate. You should be able to solve your own problems. Would you expect your boss back home to solve your problems? |
"...then maybe you should be here..." ? Maybe you should get your shite together before you attempt to dish it out. Perhaps they're not thinking of everything and anything as you are. Are you suggesting that companies around the world leave newly hired employees (who don't speak the language) to completely fend for themselves? That's called management Einstein, you want to keep your employees happy and feeling secure. Is it too onerus for the director to appoint an employee to oversee that they get set-up when they arrive? Or address significant obstacles/problems at work?
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blackjack

Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Location: anyang
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Posted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 7:02 am Post subject: |
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roknroll wrote: |
blackjack wrote: |
Late pay is a red flag.
I hate it when teachers complain about this one
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He is very reluctant to help with everyday problems concerning the job or the apartment or general living in korea. |
Everyone here is an adult (or is meant to be). Why should your boss help you with your day to day stuff. If you can't figure things out then maybe you should be here (not aimed at the op just a general you). Between this site, the internet and google translate. You should be able to solve your own problems. Would you expect your boss back home to solve your problems? |
"...then maybe you should be here..." ? Maybe you should get your shite together before you attempt to dish it out. Perhaps their not thinking of everything and anything as you are. Are you suggesting that companies around the world leave newly hired employees (who don't speak the language) to completely fend for themselves? That's called management Einstein, you want to keep your employees happy and feeling secure. Is it too onerus for the director to appoint an employee to oversee that they get set-up when they arrive? Or address significant obstacles/problems at work? |
You got me a typo, I was in hurry.
I still stand by what I said. The amount of times that I have heard people complain, my boss wouldn't take me to get a multi-entrance visa, my boss won't tell me where i can buy ... my boss won't buy me stuff on the internet.
I know people here that have been here a couple of years and still rely on there boss and korean friends for everything.
It's a pet hate of mine.
Sorry op for derailing |
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roknroll

Joined: 29 Dec 2007
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Posted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 10:02 pm Post subject: |
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whatever |
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djsmnc

Joined: 20 Jan 2003 Location: Dave's ESL Cafe
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Posted: Fri Feb 05, 2010 11:31 pm Post subject: |
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blackjack wrote: |
roknroll wrote: |
blackjack wrote: |
Late pay is a red flag.
I hate it when teachers complain about this one
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He is very reluctant to help with everyday problems concerning the job or the apartment or general living in korea. |
Everyone here is an adult (or is meant to be). Why should your boss help you with your day to day stuff. If you can't figure things out then maybe you should be here (not aimed at the op just a general you). Between this site, the internet and google translate. You should be able to solve your own problems. Would you expect your boss back home to solve your problems? |
"...then maybe you should be here..." ? Maybe you should get your shite together before you attempt to dish it out. Perhaps their not thinking of everything and anything as you are. Are you suggesting that companies around the world leave newly hired employees (who don't speak the language) to completely fend for themselves? That's called management Einstein, you want to keep your employees happy and feeling secure. Is it too onerus for the director to appoint an employee to oversee that they get set-up when they arrive? Or address significant obstacles/problems at work? |
You got me a typo, I was in hurry.
I still stand by what I said. The amount of times that I have heard people complain, my boss wouldn't take me to get a multi-entrance visa, my boss won't tell me where i can buy ... my boss won't buy me stuff on the internet.
I know people here that have been here a couple of years and still rely on there boss and korean friends for everything.
It's a pet hate of mine.
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I have to agree with this. It IS nice to get a little help starting out, but complete reliance is ridiculous. I had a bit of help starting out, such as figuring out how to set up a phone and open a bank account and such, but a lot of stuff can be carried out by the teacher who has made the conscious decision to work in another country. A lot of schools have someone to help a new teacher get set up, but there are other things you can figure out over time if you make an effort. |
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roknroll

Joined: 29 Dec 2007
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Posted: Sat Feb 06, 2010 12:39 am Post subject: |
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It IS nice to get a little help starting out, but complete reliance is ridiculous |
Of course over-reliance is infantile. I'd also agree in this sense, but there's no indication of this kind of expectation from the OP. The OP simply quoted the previous teacher's email about 'not helping with everyday probs' dealy. blackjack went off-topic a bit to make a point (which I don't disagree with) but it would be fairer to address this to the speaker and try to discern what they meant when they wrote it. Although blackjack was speaking generally and not directing it at the OP, there's still the assumption to be made about the semantics. If it refers to 'everything and anything' as I've previously mentioned, then of course that's rather infantile. However, it may simply be referring to matters that should be addressed by the employer. To be clear, I agree with blackjack on the rebuttal when he refers to petty matters such as 'where can I buy... etc'. However, I was thinking in the vein of newbies and 'startup' matters or even matters that should be dealt with even if you have experience here. For example, I've had experienc here but I still expect certain things to be handled by the employer, which I may lazily refer to as 'everyday' matters. Clarified, this means things such as get the boiler, washer, refrigerator, etc. fixed. Same for work-related matters that do not delve into petty problems (or ignorance...my favorite is: 'i didn't even get my birthday off').
ps blackjack: I also made a typo (between classes hurried post) on '...their not thinking...' and have since edited it. so i felt that it's only fair that I shouldn't point out your '...there boss...' mistake....  |
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