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[soulofseoul]

Hi.
I read a lot of threads regarding the differences between Korean and Japanese women and how Japanese women are, but Im curious about
thought from people who have dated or are currently dating Chinese women? If my trails ever lead me to Shanghai or Beijing then Ill need some pointers,

[djsmnc]

They have sideways... oh whatever, I'm not going there. Why not just learn from experience rather than start a thread that will unquestionably be full of generalizations?

[soulofseoul]

[sesyeux]

i'm up for generalising. they're not as consumer driven as k-girls

[caribmon]

They use tricks, but not so much mind games. Generally, Chinese women are more interested in money than rock hard abs, humor etc... They play the innocent card because it works against naive men. Many of them are little tigers that freak out one day and destroy you. Probably 50%. They pretend to be nice, use you, then just launch an attack. I've spent a lot of time around Chinese women, but I didn't date them, just hang around and cook food, chat about whatever. Dating a Chinese woman is something I do not recommend. African women, on the other hand, are strong, vibrant, dynamic, intelligent and very blunt/honest.

[travel zen]

I've dated lots, even in China.

All of the above is true generally.

They can be very very VERY loyal and caring. To a crazy/cool extent you may never see in Western gals. They can also be the coldest girls you have ever seen. Ouch, my friend if they don't fancy you anymore.

Mainland Chinese gals are very curious and will try anything you please, very industrious (busy-body), and some far too egotistical and conceited. I love their loyalty to the death and their curiosity the most.

[travel zen]

[HalfJapanese]

^
Your avatar is really distracting.....I forgot what I was going to say......


Oh yeah.....so given the information above, one should come of as broke and stingy with money when dating Chinese women. Hne should go as far as manufacturing a situation that would cause her to snap and go all out tiger on you. After all that, if she is still with you, then one will know that she isn't a sociopath-icl gold digger.

[canactuary]

generalizations in itself can be useful. It is narrow subjective perspective that make it less so.

Chinese women are fine. When it comes to dating, you can't go by generalizations anyway. I have many Chinese friends, mostly westernized, but some from the mainland, and have even dated a few.

[Moldy Rutabaga]

Travel Zen, feel free to post as often as possible. Even totally unrelated comments are fine.

[nautilus]

don't mention Tibet to them or ask them to do a google search.

They have no hang-ups dating foreign guys. Gotta love that.
They also get serious pretty quick.

[misher]

Dating in China for me was so ridiculously easy I couldn't believe it. Mind you, I was 24 , spoke enough Chinese when I was there and looked a bit better than I do now but back then getting dates was pretty easy because most Chinese women were insanely curious. Heck, even the guys I knew from Africa were turning away model quality women in Chongqing. ALl of the pitfalls exist as well, but dating in China is one heck of a lot easier if you are younger and at least average looking. Most of the time Chinese parents usually don't care as much and the public generally won't frown upon you. In Korea, it is a completely different situation. Most good looking Korean women are untouchable as far as I can see (have yet to see a westerner with a pretty good looking Korean girl) and most Korean women are not interested in dating foreign men due to social conditioning leaving the few that are interested to be fought over by way too many guys. Korean women however, in my experience and if I if I may generalize, are one heck of a lot better looking than CHinese women and on average have better hygiene.

[D.D.]

I live in China and I am 42 and not as in shape as I once was but I still get women asking me out from 23 to 38 years old. I take all dating here very casually and don't proceed if I notice clingy cash chasing types. It takes time here to meet a well balanced good hearted lady but they are here. Casual dating is fun and the less you chase them the more they call you. There is an increasing number of independant women here who have even spent a few years living overseas. I was just standing freaking out about the crowds here now for expo today then some university girls asked me to take their picture, gave me their numbers and asked me to visit their town today. Chinese girls chase western men and are not shy about it anymore.

[djsmnc]

[misher]