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Rude People in Movie Theatres: What Do You Do?
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cdninkorea



Joined: 27 Jan 2006
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 8:29 am    Post subject: Rude People in Movie Theatres: What Do You Do? Reply with quote

I just watched Ironman 2 tonight, and I was surrounded on three sides by people with poor movie etiquette: behind me was two women who talked repeatedly, to the left was a woman who checked her phone several times, and to the right was a guy who also checked his phone several times and talked to his girlfriend, also several times. I asked the woman behind me to stop talking (politely), but since I've forgotten the verb for "turn off" in Korean, all I could do to the cell phone people was gesture with my hand. In all cases but one, they stopped (the couple on my right continued to chat Mad ).

I enjoy going to the movie theatre, but everytime I do I also dread it a little because these things are a consistent problem. As it was at its worst tonight, I'm interested in what others do when people lack movie theatre etiquette.
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pkang0202



Joined: 09 Mar 2007

PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 8:42 am    Post subject: Re: Rude People in Movie Theatres: What Do You Do? Reply with quote

cdninkorea wrote:

I enjoy going to the movie theatre, but everytime I do I also dread it a little because these things are a consistent problem. As it was at its worst tonight, I'm interested in what others do when people lack movie theatre etiquette.


Never had too much of a problem with this. Once or twice I've had the person sit next to me check their cell phones. They didn't talk on it, but in a dark movie theater, a cell phone light is like a christmas tree.

Then again, I usually only watch movies late at night at the 10pm-12am showings on the weekends. During those times there is hardly anyone in the theater.
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lukas



Joined: 22 Aug 2009
Location: Bucheon

PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 9:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have been to a few theaters in Korea, and it wasn't that bad compared to back in the states (i.e. New Jersey). It may have been that the audience was not as entertained since Iron Man 1 was waaaaay more action packed, and I found myself a little bored during the sequel. However, I wasn't expecting much from a superhero movie
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Senior



Joined: 31 Jan 2010

PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 9:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Korean movie theaters are great. Never had a problem.
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Forward Observer



Joined: 13 Jan 2009
Location: FOB Gloria

PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 1:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The first time I was in Korea (mid to late 90's), this happened just about every time I went to the theatres. However the second time around, (07-10) - the opposite. Never had a problem, and I went to about 30 movies a year in Korea.
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Depths of My Soul



Joined: 04 Apr 2010
Location: In The Sun

PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 2:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Solution; Take a date and then you don't have to bother too much about the mooovie! Razz
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oskinny1



Joined: 10 Nov 2006
Location: Right behind you!

PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 3:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I rarely make it through a movie where someone's phone doesn't ring and then go ahead and answer it!

"Yobosaiyo!? 네! 네!"

I have yelled "dokcha" or "ipmaga" a few times and before the time the movie is finished the person has hightailed it out of there.
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itaewonguy



Joined: 25 Mar 2003

PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 4:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

had a guy kicking the back of my chair 10 years ago watching the beach..

I was getting pissed, he did it again, so I just got up and turn around and leaned over right up into his face and said in english..

"Stop kicking my beautiful chair " UNDERSTAND!!!!!

that worked... the korean girl I was with was shocked.. but after the movie thought I was cooler than Dicaprio hahaha

otherwise never really had problems.. I try to avoid the crowds now, so if the movie is just being released I don't go on Weekends.. I try to hit the late screening on weekdays... I hate crowds!
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LikeFrostOnRoads



Joined: 09 Mar 2010

PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 7:06 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

What do I do? Pull out my nine and bust a couple caps. Or sometimes I just yell "Fire!" Anything to clear the room, really.
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uklathemock



Joined: 26 Dec 2009

PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 7:09 pm    Post subject: Re: Rude People in Movie Theatres: What Do You Do? Reply with quote

I gave up watching movies here. The theaters are too hot in the winter and too hot and humid in the summer.
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atwood



Joined: 26 Dec 2009

PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 8:44 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just happened to me yesterday. The girl answered the phone and then began talking. The person in front of her turned around but she kept talking so I spoke up. She stopped talking but then decided to send a text message which got an older Korean man to speak up.

As for checking their phones for messages this is pretty much a constant. Younger Koreans have a very short attention span, although that's probably a universal these days.

What's become annoying is the 10 to 15 minutes of commercials preceding every movie, especially since they turn the volume way, way up.
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Senior



Joined: 31 Jan 2010

PostPosted: Sat May 08, 2010 8:51 pm    Post subject: Re: Rude People in Movie Theatres: What Do You Do? Reply with quote

uklathemock wrote:
I gave up watching movies here. The theaters are too hot in the winter and too hot and humid in the summer.


I generally haven't had any problems with movie theaters here. One movie I saw (I can't remember which) they had the heat stoked up. It would have been 40 degrees. I was down to my tshirt by the end, and it was winter, so I had a few layers on. I was ready to punch someone's face by that point.

We went to see Kick Ass the other week. We missed the first 3 or 4 minutes 'cos the tech forgot to take the lens cap off the projector. They didn't restart the film, which I thought was crap.
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garygoodbloke



Joined: 15 Jan 2007
Location: Sydney, Australia

PostPosted: Sun May 09, 2010 4:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just to keep it in perspective, I never found this a problem in Korea. Although, I now live in Sydney and I'm constantly pissed off by people who talk, check phones or carry on during a movie.

Recently it was while I was watching Avatar on George St. (centre of Sydney) which means the cinema was predominantly Asian. Across the isle a group of (I think) Chinese youths were checking phones, chatting and jumping around in their chairs. I finally asked them to shut up (politely) but it pisses me off.

Although, I'd say it's more a youth and current social thing as opposed to cultural. In Randwick at an old style traditional cinema, I was waiting for the doors to open with my mum and sister. There were a bunch of teenagers sitting around making a lot of noise, I could see everyone around me was thinking the same thing. Eventually I said: "You're going to be quiet during the movie, right?" in as booming a voice as I could muster. They said they would be, and they kept their word, which was a relief.

Cinemas are about immersing yourself in the story. So when someone checks their phone or starts chatting, it pulls you out of the story and destroys the enjoyment.

As a previous poster said, go during the week if possible or go with a date on the weekend and you'll be less worried about it.
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coralreefer_1



Joined: 19 Jan 2009

PostPosted: Sun May 09, 2010 6:16 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

What do I do? I deal with it the same way I deal with all of the other things in daily life that annoy me. I chalk it up to being a drawback to not living on a deserted island with a volleyball as a friend, and ignore as best as I can.

People suck..that is just the way it is.
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ACT III



Joined: 14 Nov 2006

PostPosted: Sun May 09, 2010 7:02 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Am I the only one that thinks movie theaters are weird? You're in a dark room with a bunch of strangers and you're not suppose to talk, interact, or be active in any sort of way besides eating. You veg out for two hours and after paying a sizable amount for the pleasure usually end up forgetting or complaining about the film.

Maybe people being a little noisy in the theater is a form of rebellion. And really there's nothing you can do besides oppress them in one way or another.

Hmm. After reading the above Ive decided I had too much wine.
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