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tanklor1
Joined: 13 Jun 2006
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Posted: Sun May 30, 2010 5:23 am Post subject: When do you consider yourself "living" here? |
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I recently signed on for my fourth straight contract and I discovered that I've become that old guy who stayed here amongst my friends; all of whom arrived within the last 12 months.
Upon discovering this fact I silently said to myself. "Ohhh snap I'm living here."
I've heard the old adage of "take things one year at a time" but in the next couple of years at least I don't see myself living anywhere else.
Now I'm faced with a couple of interesting questions: should I look in getting an actual apartment on my own? Should I get a car?
So, while I deal with these questions I want to ask at what point did you stop considering yourself a "guest" in this country? |
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PatrickGHBusan
Joined: 24 Jun 2008 Location: Busan (1997-2008) Canada 2008 -
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Posted: Sun May 30, 2010 5:40 am Post subject: |
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Good questions tanklor1.
When should you consider buying or renting your own appartment?
That depends on your situation I suppose. This is linked to your financial capabilities, you family situation (single or attached), where you want to work over the mid to long term (within Korea I mean: stay in the same city or not).
Car?
Depends again.
If you live in a large city and have no kids or a job that requires a lot of back and forth outside that city then why get a car?
Use public transit for inner city travel.
Want to go outside the city: bus, train, airplane or even rent a car on occasion.
The guest issue will bring forth all sorts of responses. You will get the "if you think you are no longer a guest here you are deluding yourself, the Han hate you"...
Actually, the guest thing has legal meaning and then it has personal meaning in your everyday life.
Legally, as long as you are on an E2 visa, you afre technically a guest worker. In real life terms, after a couple of years and depending on what you did to adapt, you become a sort of resident.
For example, if you lived in the same neighborhood for those 4 years and have made efforts to get to know the local residents then chances are you are not a guest to them. |
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mattdsoares
Joined: 04 Dec 2009
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Posted: Sun May 30, 2010 5:49 am Post subject: |
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Personally, I'd stick with the accomodations the school provides unless you're confident you want to settle here and want a bigger place. If you're content with the little bachelor pads the schools provide, letting them provide it is one less headache and expense to worry about. If you have a long term Korean girlfriend or something, then maybe you do want to find your own permanent place.
As for a car. That's 100% up to you. I ride a scooter and there is no way I would ever get a car here in Seoul. They are slower than public transit or a scooter due to traffic and a pain in the ass to drive here due to parking and public driving habits. If you want to break away from public transport look into getting scooter. They're cheap to buy (can get a nice little 125cc for under 2 million Won brand new, or a used one for under a million. You'll have the freedom to go where you want (except highways where all bikes are illegal), and they're great for beating traffic because you can easily squeeze between cars. Sure there's an inherent danger with any motorbike, especially in Seoul, but if you have a good head on your shoulders and don't ride like a maniac delivery boy you'll be just fine. It's really not that scary. I'd be much more worried driving a car here because you can't react as quickly when an idiot driver cuts you off or does something stupid.
I live in Sadang and work in Ichon. It's a 30 minute commute between the subway and walking, or 20-25 minutes on my scooter, plus it is a LOT more fun! |
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noraebang
Joined: 05 May 2010
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Posted: Sun May 30, 2010 4:17 pm Post subject: |
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lol Korea has the worst death rate in the OECD for motor vehicle accidents. I'd never ride a scooter there unless I was out in the country. |
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moosehead

Joined: 05 May 2007
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Posted: Sun May 30, 2010 4:35 pm Post subject: Re: When do you consider yourself "living" here? |
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tanklor1 wrote: |
I recently signed on for my fourth straight contract and I discovered that I've become that old guy who stayed here amongst my friends; all of whom arrived within the last 12 months.
Upon discovering this fact I silently said to myself. "Ohhh snap I'm living here."
I've heard the old adage of "take things one year at a time" but in the next couple of years at least I don't see myself living anywhere else.
Now I'm faced with a couple of interesting questions: should I look in getting an actual apartment on my own? Should I get a car?
So, while I deal with these questions I want to ask at what point did you stop considering yourself a "guest" in this country? |
you're definitely ready for your own place - it's not that hard at all and you know it
driving? research Dave's for great topics on owning/driving in Korea - personally, having driven in several countries and lived/drove in NYC - I would never, ever drive in Korea, the risks are too great (IMO), but that's totally subjective. |
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Hardy Boy

Joined: 03 Jul 2004 Location: I live in a shoe. Made in B.C., Northern Vancouver Island
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Posted: Mon May 31, 2010 9:44 am Post subject: Re: When do you consider yourself "living" here? |
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tanklor1 wrote: |
...at what point did you stop considering yourself a "guest" in this country? |
An excellent question.
I'd say I definitely segued from serial-contract guest to resident expat when I bought my car early last year, a 10+ mill. investment in my future here, a statement that I'll be around for at least 2 to 3 years (otherwise the expense would have been a real waste). Up 'til then I'd been on "may-leave-at-end-of-contract" mode for over half a decade. When I bought the car I also got a new computer and big screen t.v., purchases easier to decide on once I had a car. I am hesitant to make any more major purchases, as I think 2012 or 2013 might be my last years here.
Getting an apartment of one's own is a wise course of action for anyone thinking of being here for more than 2 years and who dislikes moving around much. I knew a guy in Busan who lived there for years, taking huge breaks between contracts, travelling the world for months, quitting a bad hagwon job without a second's hesitation, because he never had to factor in any moving costs or hassle, simply a bad job meant he would take that trip back home sooner than he expected, or just lock up shop and run off to South America for three months. I haven't had a place of my own yet and it was what I thought about doing with money I used to get a car.
That said, a cheap car and low 5 mill deposit on a small bachelor pad can be had by anyone thinking of themselves as short-term guest, planning on being here only a year or two at most.
Marrying a Korean or investing major coin into something hereabouts (car, apart., biz) would clearly be a sign one is beyond short-term guest mode. And putting great effort to get past introductory Korean language lessons sure seems like evidence except for the fact that there are keeners who learn languages they'll never use again (latin, tubahoobahoo) who throw themselves into it then are gone from the country a year later.
Most waygook teachers I know have one foot out the door, regardless how many years they've actually been here. That's the life of an E-2 visa where a wacko boss and 14-day exit order can end one's residence pretty darn quickly. |
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metalhead
Joined: 18 May 2010 Location: Toilet
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Posted: Mon May 31, 2010 10:02 am Post subject: |
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Definitely would depend on your visa situation. As previously mentioned, the life of an E-2 holder is too unstable, but if you're married I would definitely consider your status to be more one of living here.
What boggles my mind are the single guys I've met that have never had a girlfriend in Korea and been there for 5/6/7 years. I mean I can understand liking the country and job and all, but what a waste of a life (then again, they have to be seeing prostitutes, or are hiding their homosexuality very well). |
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noraebang
Joined: 05 May 2010
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Posted: Mon May 31, 2010 10:33 am Post subject: Re: When do you consider yourself "living" here? |
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Hardy Boy wrote: |
And putting great effort to get past introductory Korean language lessons sure seems like evidence except for the fact that there are keeners who learn languages they'll never use again (latin, tubahoobahoo) who throw themselves into it then are gone from the country a year later.. |
Dude, you're from Port Hardy... have you never been to Vancouver? There's even a significant Korean community in Nanaimo. The biggest church in Nanaimo is the Nanaimo Korean church I think (and there are multiple Korean churches in that town).
There's certainly more Korean speakers back home than native French speakers, the language we're all forced to learn in school and the language people take up with frequency.
Sorry for the thread derail... |
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Jeonmunka
Joined: 05 Oct 2009
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Posted: Mon May 31, 2010 12:05 pm Post subject: |
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what a waste of a life |
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Hardy Boy

Joined: 03 Jul 2004 Location: I live in a shoe. Made in B.C., Northern Vancouver Island
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Posted: Mon May 31, 2010 4:42 pm Post subject: Re: When do you consider yourself "living" here? |
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noraebang wrote: |
Hardy Boy wrote: |
And putting great effort to get past introductory Korean language lessons sure seems like evidence except for the fact that there are keeners who learn languages they'll never use again (latin, tubahoobahoo) who throw themselves into it then are gone from the country a year later.. |
Dude, you're from Port Hardy... have you never been to Vancouver? There's even a significant Korean community in Nanaimo. The biggest church in Nanaimo is the Nanaimo Korean church I think (and there are multiple Korean churches in that town). |
Yeah, well, the next time I go to a Korean church in Nanaimo I'll regret not learning the Korean language better. Of course, I don't go to church and rarely stop when going through Nanaimo, the ugliest city on VanIsle.
noraebang wrote: |
There's certainly more Korean speakers back home than native French speakers, the language we're all forced to learn in school and the language people take up with frequency. |
You're wrong according to official gov't stats on languages spoken in B.C.:
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1. English
2. Chinese (including Cantonese and Mandarin)
3. Punjabi
4. German
5. French
6. Tagalog
7. Spanish
8. Italian
9. Korean
10. Dutch |
http://www.gov.bc.ca/bcfacts/
I have had Sikh and Italian friends back home and have travelled numerous times to Winnipeg and Montreal, so I have thought of the benefit for me to learn a bit of Punjabi, Italian and French. I even had a Vietnamese friend and later a Vietnamese landlord. Koreans, however, I can't recall speaking to ever, though I probably have and just assumed they were Japanese or something.
Of course, to develop intermediate Korean language skills is worthwhile for keeners as an intellectual exercise, and for most others - certainly for me - it's no more useful than learning latin (unless you go to church in Nanaimo apparently). There is some benefit to learning any language, but don't try and argue that it's very useful to learn Korean if you're in guest mode (not living here versus living here, the point of this thread), gonna be gone in a year or so from the peninsula. My point stands: among short-timers, keener linguists can go beyond communicative basics in trying to get intermediate skills in making sentences, and for everyone else it's not very useful. A better use of one's time can be spent doing what guests do: appreciating what the host is offering, traveling the country, taking a cooking class or doing some taekwondo, enjoying one's limited time here as a guest. |
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frankhenry
Joined: 13 Mar 2007
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Posted: Mon May 31, 2010 7:08 pm Post subject: Re: When do you consider yourself "living" here? |
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noraebang wrote: |
Hardy Boy wrote: |
And putting great effort to get past introductory Korean language lessons sure seems like evidence except for the fact that there are keeners who learn languages they'll never use again (latin, tubahoobahoo) who throw themselves into it then are gone from the country a year later.. |
Dude, you're from Port Hardy... have you never been to Vancouver? There's even a significant Korean community in Nanaimo. The biggest church in Nanaimo is the Nanaimo Korean church I think (and there are multiple Korean churches in that town).
There's certainly more Korean speakers back home than native French speakers, the language we're all forced to learn in school and the language people take up with frequency.
Sorry for the thread derail... |
You are wrong on the numbers again, noraebang. Why so big on the everybody learn Korean...? |
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eljuero
Joined: 11 Aug 2009
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Posted: Mon May 31, 2010 10:39 pm Post subject: Same question for noraebang.... |
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Yeah, I ran into the same thread on why you are supposed to learn Korean......
Why the obsession and personalization of it either way noraebang? |
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eljuero
Joined: 11 Aug 2009
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Posted: Mon May 31, 2010 10:40 pm Post subject: Same question.... |
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Yeah, I ran into the same thread on why you are supposed to learn Korean......
Why the obsession and personalization of it either way? |
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Englishee
Joined: 21 Jan 2010
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Posted: Tue Jun 01, 2010 3:03 am Post subject: |
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the real question is:
how long do you have to stay here to be considered a loser (by western standards)...and under what circumstances?
i put forth a genuine effort to adapt to the culture, learn the language (whether im with korean friends or taking a class), eat the food, and basically, keep a blind eye to all the stupid shit i see (because there is stupid shit in all countries).
despite all this, i cannot, for the life of me, understand why someone would stay here for 4,5,6,7,8+ years. im drawing the line at 13 months then im going back to a civilized society where im considered a human being and not a zoo animal. even if i had debt like most people here, i wouldnt stay here and subject myself to korea longer than a year.
im trying to refrain from posting things like this, but today, June 1st, marks my going home countdown, so i will kick it off with this trollish post! |
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Dragoon
Joined: 18 Apr 2010
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Posted: Tue Jun 01, 2010 6:07 am Post subject: |
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metalhead wrote: |
Definitely would depend on your visa situation. As previously mentioned, the life of an E-2 holder is too unstable, but if you're married I would definitely consider your status to be more one of living here.
What boggles my mind are the single guys I've met that have never had a girlfriend in Korea and been there for 5/6/7 years. I mean I can understand liking the country and job and all, but what a waste of a life (then again, they have to be seeing prostitutes, or are hiding their homosexuality very well). |
You need those E-2 guys though...they soak up all the bullcrap jobs and are bullied in their jobs...makes it easier for us dudes with kids and whatnots to throw our muscle around and get more relaxed work. Plus without them around...I would leave here in a second...they help me a hell of a lot more than they hinder me. |
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