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Long hair on a guy--problematic?
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somethinginmovement



Joined: 01 Jun 2010

PostPosted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 6:34 pm    Post subject: Long hair on a guy--problematic? Reply with quote

Hey all, long time reader, first time poster. Hopefully this question isn't stupid (I tried searching to see if anyone else asked, but the search tool wasn't working, so here goes.) I'm planning on an Aug/Sep. start and this will be my first time in Korea--leaning hard towards Seoul (also considering Incheon, Daegu, and Jeju) at the moment.

So, I have long hair, and I'm a guy. It's pretty thick, and wavy, and about chin-length. Will I get looked at cockeyed in the workplace for this? On the street? I mean, I take pretty good care of it, and it's not some nappy mess. But I can see it becoming a spectacle in a place where my hair type is uncommon. I'm also a bit worried about the haircut situation there, as it's hard enough to find someone whom can cut my hair here in the states.

Basically, I'm considering getting whether to get my yearly haircut or not, and was looking for a little insight from some people who have been in the country for awhile.

Thanks in advance! Cool
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cj1976



Joined: 26 Oct 2005

PostPosted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 6:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think you should get a 'short, back and sides' before you come here. Young Korean men are well known for their extremely conservative and masculine grooming style. None of this long, shaggy hair and eyeliner business, you big hippy.
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Mariella713



Joined: 22 May 2010

PostPosted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 6:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Boy do I love long hair on guys...sorry off topic Laughing
A lot of Korean females I know think long hair on guys isn't a good look - makes them look untidy and whatnot. However, this is only from a handful of people I know, so I don't know if it's the general consensus or anything. I also know a Korean guy who is trying to grow his hair long in time for summer (not sure what all that's about ahem) so some people obviously think it's fine.


Aslong as your hair is groomed and clean then I personally don't see a problem.
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chellovek



Joined: 29 Feb 2008

PostPosted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 6:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I came over with similar length hair and it wasn't a problem. However, I got 'Koreaned' in a hair dressers and now people say I look far more handsome, apparently.
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drama_addict



Joined: 30 Aug 2009
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 7:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you're in a Hagwon, be prepared to cut it. They're all about appearance in order to please parents and get more students enrolled.
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DM24



Joined: 06 Apr 2010

PostPosted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 7:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

drama_addict wrote:
If you're in a Hagwon, be prepared to cut it. They're all about appearance in order to please parents and get more students enrolled.
QFT. appearance (and thus, keeping the parents happy) is everything. i would recommend cutting it.

also, the more attractive and better groomed you are in your photo that you send recruiters/schools, the higher a chance of employment
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Jane



Joined: 01 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 10:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you can tie it back into a pony and make it look neat, I think it would be okay. If not, chop chop. Wink
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Fishead soup



Joined: 24 Jun 2007
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 11:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Get a mullet Conservative at the front party down the back
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metalhead



Joined: 18 May 2010
Location: Toilet

PostPosted: Thu Jun 03, 2010 11:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have hair down to my waist and I haven't had any problems securing a job here or elsewhere in Asia. Tie it up and look neat, and *if* they have issues with it skip that job and look for another one.

Unless you're aiming high for a good uni position it's really easy to find work here. I mean, I'm qualified and all to teach but they really scrape the bottom of the barrel here when it comes to hiring people, but that's what Korea is known for I suppose.
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Dragoon



Joined: 18 Apr 2010

PostPosted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 12:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

metalhead wrote:
I have hair down to my waist and I haven't had any problems securing a job here or elsewhere in Asia. Tie it up and look neat, and *if* they have issues with it skip that job and look for another one.

Unless you're aiming high for a good uni position it's really easy to find work here. I mean, I'm qualified and all to teach but they really scrape the bottom of the barrel here when it comes to hiring people, but that's what Korea is known for I suppose.


Metalhead...you must be a F visa dude like me..because my hair is similar length..(maybe 4 inches shorter than yours...you basterd Very Happy ) I know that with the current conditions my hair would hinder me more now than say 5 years ago if I was looking for E-visa type jobs...so these days I can't really recommend rockin out with your C*** out unless you already got a decent gig...then you can join the club.
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J Rock



Joined: 17 Jan 2009
Location: The center of the Earth, Suji

PostPosted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 2:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

My first 8 months in Korea I grew my hair out to the longest it has ever been in my entire life. They never said anything but I looked in the mirror one day and was like "oh my god, what have I done to myself!" I realized it looked terrible and I decided to cut it.

When I walked into my school the next day the staff went nuts, they all said it looks so much better (really anything looked better than it did before) and how handsome I looked.

I've always wanted to grow it out again but I still remember how bad it looked and i stop myself from doing it. Very Happy
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brento1138



Joined: 17 Nov 2004

PostPosted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 3:08 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I never really had my hair long per se, but definitely shaggy. However, the older I get, the more homeless I look with the shag. Koreans definitely prefer the non-shag look.

Looks go a ways in Korea, and no matter how ugly you think you look with shorter hair, they will all perceive you as more handsome and more respectable with the shortness.
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byrddogs



Joined: 19 Jun 2009
Location: Shanghai

PostPosted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 3:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

brento1138 wrote:
no matter how ugly you think you look with shorter hair, they will all perceive you as more handsome and more respectable with the shortness.


so very true
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chellovek



Joined: 29 Feb 2008

PostPosted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 4:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

byrddogs wrote:
brento1138 wrote:
no matter how ugly you think you look with shorter hair, they will all perceive you as more handsome and more respectable with the shortness.


so very true


Yes
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Dragoon



Joined: 18 Apr 2010

PostPosted: Fri Jun 04, 2010 6:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

brento1138 wrote:
I never really had my hair long per se, but definitely shaggy. However, the older I get, the more homeless I look with the shag. Koreans definitely prefer the non-shag look.

Looks go a ways in Korea, and no matter how ugly you think you look with shorter hair, they will all perceive you as more handsome and more respectable with the shortness.


I suppose if I gave a crap about what the average Korean thinks...then perhaps I would cut all my hair off....alas I don't....so I will continue to rock on!!!
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