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princess



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia

PostPosted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 9:32 am    Post subject: Korean bartenders/barmaids Reply with quote

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scott



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 9:35 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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kim jong il



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Pyongyang room salon with a pocket full of rice!

PostPosted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 9:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

yes, i've dated one. s/he was a transexual who really got around. so i guess it might be true...most are playboys/playgirls and gay.
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Hotuk



Joined: 10 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 9:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes, I dated one for two months. Actually, I met her on the plane here, and she was returning from a trip to Toronto. I didn't find out until after the first month that she worked at a hostess bar, and even then she claimed she was only the "cashier" (sure). She was actually really cool, and an excellent introduction to Korea for me. I'll always be grateful to Korean Air for the fine seat selection.

I'm married now, so this is an old story.
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phil



Joined: 24 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 5:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If they're working part time while studying, they're usually pretty normal. If it's their profession, then whoa, watch out.... or giddy up....
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teacher



Joined: 16 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 6:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Watch out for these women if you be a man. They will work you up and come on to you, but are mostly just teases after your money and. . .
sometimes may rip you off. And watch out for them if they want to come to your house. And, keep a low profile if there's a pimp coming around. And don't be an American soldier who got so pissed he strangled one. No, keep entirely away.
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hellofaniceguy



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: On your computer screen!

PostPosted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 6:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know of a few teachers who have been ripped off on the "hill" in Itaewon. While the girl is doing her thing to the guy, she is also removing money from his wallet! And I don't mean for services rendered either! They were paid up front. These teachers were "pre-occupied" and "distracted" and not noticing the hands were also in their wallets! One guy had $1200.00 lifted! The girls get their money up front and so when they are done, the guy leaves the bar and usually does not check his wallet other than to "feel" that it's still in his back pocket or where ever. Now, who's he going to complain to when he reaches for some money an hour or so later?
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U.S.A.



Joined: 19 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 6:31 pm    Post subject: Horrific generalizations Reply with quote

The job does not make the person. The statements about bar workers are excellent examples of the fallacies of oversimplification:

sweeping generalization:
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i think most korean woman who work at bars are partygirls and most korean men who work at bars are gay. i think the profesion is frowned upon here


This is a stereotype and an oversimplification of barmaids/bartenders.

Hasty generalization:
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yes, i've dated one. s/he was a transexual who really got around. so i guess it might be true...most are playboys/playgirls and gay.


Insufficient evidence. Yes, "i guess it might be true" is included but is of little help other than as a buffer.

Most ESL teachers I meet in Korea are fresh out of university and are rarely prepared for life outside of their home countries (this is not fair and is a horrible generalization based upon insufficient evidence).

I like to think the previous sentence is indicative of the power of generalizations. If I had started a thread based on the above paragraph, the flaming would have been very strong, and, hopefully, someone would have pointed out the error of my writing.

In order to be teaching in Korea, you are supposed to have university degree. Make sure to take advantage of the knowledge you've acquired and show it when posting to discussion boards.

Cya
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scott



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 9:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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weatherman



Joined: 14 Jan 2003
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Tue Jan 28, 2003 10:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wow, I know quite a few bartenders and barmaids, and I will say not one of the male bartenders I know are gay, where are you coming up with this vibe? A lot of the barmaids are university students, at least in my city of Kwangju. Sure they play, but no more than the happy so-ga-teen freaks out there, or the young women who go to booking clubs or host clubs. If you get to know a few of them, you will see that they aren't a whole lot different than you, it is just that Korean society treats them like crap because of their service job.
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scott



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jan 29, 2003 6:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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kim jong il



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Pyongyang room salon with a pocket full of rice!

PostPosted: Wed Jan 29, 2003 6:29 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

u.s.a, i was attempting to expose the folly of the original post. funny thing is, she'll read this and still won't know i've ridiculed her.
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princess



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: soul of Asia

PostPosted: Wed Jan 29, 2003 8:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Zyzyfer



Joined: 29 Jan 2003
Location: who, what, where, when, why, how?

PostPosted: Wed Jan 29, 2003 6:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

scott wrote:
it's been my observation/experience that most girls who work in them like to party and most men who work in them are gay.


And? That makes them bad?

I was really good friends for about a month or two with two small-time barmaids. The bar didn't have a lot of business and they started acting weirder around me after a while, but that was mostly my fault. The point is, they were invaluable friends to me when I first came to Korea.

Now, if you're one of those Seoulites, you'll probably get the freaks. Just like you would in any big city. Again, I say...and? They're freaky. Makes life interesting.
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U.S.A.



Joined: 19 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jan 29, 2003 8:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Our Dear Leader, Sorry but I didn't realize your intent about the transexual; however, I can be a bit thick at times.
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