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Who here left Korea, struggled back home, and returned?
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Forbidden-Donut
Joined: 17 Jul 2007
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Posted: Sat Nov 06, 2010 6:45 pm Post subject: Who here left Korea, struggled back home, and returned? |
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As the title states, I'm curious to see if anyone here returned home, only to struggle for a while and choose to head back to Korea.
I ask because I'm in that boat now. I've been at home for about half a year now and can't seem to get it together. Can't find decent work, no social network, struggling to re-adjust to the culture, etc. I didn't plan my return very well. [/cry fest]
I wasn't planning on returning to Korea, as a matter of fact I was really glad to get the F outta there, but it's looking more and more tempting to go back now. Part of me doesn't want to return, because I feel like I'm 'running away' from reality here and making a total cop-out move. I gotta say though, life there was pretty cushy, I liked teaching, and another year doesn't look like a bad idea. I'm just hesitant because I remember how fed up I got with Korean culture and its people the first time.
So, yea, did anyone else make an unexpected return to Korea? |
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Louis VI
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: In my Kingdom
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Posted: Sat Nov 06, 2010 6:49 pm Post subject: |
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Never go back. It's a good philosophy in life.
Try a new country. The world is full of interesting different cultures and there are plenty of ESL jobs worldwide. And if it's pay you're worried about, even China has quite a few good paying jobs advertised.
Life is an adventure! Explore and above all ENJOY! (If you were happy to leave Korea, honor that feeling and stay away. Don't be one of those L-is-for-how-they-look gripers who feel chained to this place for no apparent reason.) |
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Xylox
Joined: 09 Jul 2010
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Posted: Sat Nov 06, 2010 10:02 pm Post subject: Re: Who here left Korea, struggled back home, and returned? |
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Forbidden-Donut wrote: |
no social network |
What did you do to make all your friends hate you? |
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comm
Joined: 22 Jun 2010
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Posted: Sat Nov 06, 2010 10:39 pm Post subject: |
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Louis VI wrote: |
Try a new country...
...If you were happy to leave Korea, honor that feeling and stay away. |
If you were desperate to leave Korea and come back, you'll go nuts with every minor irritation. You'll think "I KNEW I hated this, why did I come back to it?"
On the other hand, there are a lot of other countries out there. Try to identify EXACTLY what you didn't like about your Korean experience and change that. |
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Murakano
Joined: 10 Sep 2009
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Posted: Sat Nov 06, 2010 10:58 pm Post subject: |
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not necessarily referring to the OP here but it`s funny how so many end up crawling back here after all their anti Korea posts/whining/hating on Korea before......
The OP should perhaps try another country if he was a bit disillusioned with life here. Taiwan? As someone mentioned previously, China is also offering a fairly decent salary when you take into account the slightly lower costs of living. There aren`t as many hoops to jump through for the visa process either IIRC. |
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Yaya

Joined: 25 Feb 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 2:35 am Post subject: |
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I love it when people who leave Korea kicking and screaming that they'll never be back come back. I've seen and heard of this so many times.
To the OP, however, why would you return to a place that you seemed to thoroughly dislike? There are other countries you could hit, and probably China is a good bet, or perhaps you could go back to school. Don't give up after six months, readjusting back home takes time and a LOT of effort. |
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Ukon
Joined: 29 Jan 2008
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 2:36 am Post subject: |
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Met quite a few, former SMOE buddies who are back already... |
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furtakk
Joined: 02 Jun 2009
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 3:08 am Post subject: |
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as other posters have said, maybe try another country. if you enjoyed teaching and have nothing going on at home, it doesn't seem like a bad idea. also, where did you live during your contract year? that may be part of the reason. |
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Died By Bear

Joined: 13 Jul 2010 Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 3:28 am Post subject: Re: Who here left Korea, struggled back home, and returned? |
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Forbidden-Donut wrote: |
As the title states, I'm curious to see if anyone here returned home, only to struggle for a while and choose to head back to Korea.
I ask because I'm in that boat now. I've been at home for about half a year now and can't seem to get it together. Can't find decent work, no social network, struggling to re-adjust to the culture, etc. I didn't plan my return very well. [/cry fest]
I wasn't planning on returning to Korea, as a matter of fact I was really glad to get the F outta there, but it's looking more and more tempting to go back now. Part of me doesn't want to return, because I feel like I'm 'running away' from reality here and making a total cop-out move. I gotta say though, life there was pretty cushy, I liked teaching, and another year doesn't look like a bad idea. I'm just hesitant because I remember how fed up I got with Korean culture and its people the first time.
So, yea, did anyone else make an unexpected return to Korea? |
First you have to ask yourself if you like being away from home, and if you're willing to try teaching as a career. If you think you might be into it, try another country, Korea for now, or whatever working abroad. If not, then listen to what I have to say:
You have to start small. Try to get any job you can, just so you have somewhere to go every day. Even if it's volunteer work, you need to get out of the house and meet people. Churches are a great place to network and find a job. Target people in their 30's, you'll get there with some patience.
The key to remember is that as you're working and living in your own country, and you keep looking for better opportunities, you are there and you may be able to rise up if you play your cards right. Takes time, patience, but it's better than being in Korea where you can't go interview for those better jobs. It's a ladder. You bide your time, learn new things and get better jobs/promotions. You take it one rung at a time.
One thing I learned about the Korea-as-a-fallback plan, is that when we keep it up there as an option, we tend to pass on things we might otherwise not. And by that I just mean that you shouldn't start comparing the easy money you were making in Korea to a crappy job you might take until things get better in the job market. Hang in there, things will get better. On the other hand, if you're a stone's throw away from poverty and the street, by all means get on that plane and go my man.
I know a guy with a PhD and he's been back in California for 11 months looking for any job that pays more than 14 bucks an hour. He won't take anything else. Can't find a job. Frequently compares both countries and hints that he'll go back and work until the job market gets better. It's not a bad thing, and don't let the zing monsters get you down. Good luck. |
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Yaya

Joined: 25 Feb 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 3:49 am Post subject: |
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I'm not sure if you're in the U.S., but well, the situation there is pretty bleak and won't get better any time soon.
The richest 1 percent of Americans now take home almost 24 percent of income, up from almost 9 percent in 1976. As Timothy Noah of Slate noted in an excellent series on inequality, the United States now arguably has a more unequal distribution of wealth than traditional banana republics like Nicaragua, Venezuela and Guyana.
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/11/07/opinion/07kristof.html?src=ISMR_AP_LO_MST_FB |
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Died By Bear

Joined: 13 Jul 2010 Location: On the big lake they call Gitche Gumee
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 3:57 am Post subject: |
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It's very bad here if you don't have a job. Extremely bad. The unemployment rate went to 9.6% a few days ago on the news. Green chutes of light, isn't that what Obama said a year and a half ago?
This one is funny. NPR - notice the text is highlighted, so click on each sentence to read the translation...so funny...
http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=131043062&ps=cprs
The economy still sucks. People are spending a little bit more, but they're stretched thin: One in 10 workers can't find a job, wages are basically flat, home prices are way down and nobody can get a loan. Companies are buying more stuff, for now, but they're not building new factories or offices. Nobody's hiring. Nobody's building. Inflation has gone from low to super low. |
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Lee Myung Bak
Joined: 25 Jun 2010 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 4:09 am Post subject: |
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Links...the New York Times followed by NPR!!!! wow...you lefties should hang out. |
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Louis VI
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: In my Kingdom
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 4:11 am Post subject: |
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Lee Myung Bak wrote: |
Links...the New York Times followed by NPR!!!! wow...you lefties should hang out. |
And you should keep watching Fox News. |
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Lee Myung Bak
Joined: 25 Jun 2010 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 4:23 am Post subject: |
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Nope.
Its common knowledge that the NYTimes has a liberal slant, and that the NPR will probably lose its federal funding soon for blatantly firing someone(African-American) for freedom of speech. Although it wouldn't matter because lefty tycoon George Soros basically owns and controls NPR now. |
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Illysook
Joined: 30 Jun 2008
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Posted: Sun Nov 07, 2010 4:57 am Post subject: |
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I did it and it wasn't a bad decision. Research shows that people who graduate from college during a recession make significantly less money throughout their lifetimes. If you get some savings going while you are in Korea sitting out the recession in the U.S. The miracle of compound interest could keep you from being a victim of this economy. This is why many of us come here in the first place. It sucked for the first year and I didn't want to come back, but the recession certainly wasn't over.
After staying home for eight months and while working at my third dead-end temp job, I started making plans to return. That final temp job had an end date that was a little while off, so I had time to be picky, do some research, and pray a lot. Things have worked out really well. I now work for a public school in a nice area, and I didn't have to build a whole social life from scratch because many of my friends were still here.
One of the downsides is that it has become more expensive to live here. The prices of many fruits and vegetables are twice what they were six months ago. This makes it a lot harder to save money. |
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