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Geumchondave



Joined: 28 Oct 2010

PostPosted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 4:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not knowing enough about either of the two people in question I couldn't possibly comment on who is right - however I would like to call up the OP on a couple of points.

Im a young guy just starting out - but i definitely do consider myself to be a teacher - its no necessarily what i want to do all my life but I've done my TESOL straight out of uni and I can see it would be a rewarding thing to do for a few years.

Korean teachers do expect us to parrot and repeat stock phrases - ok yes, but thats because they are used to hung over apathetic non teachers here to party - thats the reality - if you want to do something more interesting you can do it - I do all kinds of interesting things in my lessons because I see this as a way of building up my C.V - ( for the record I would be teaching at a language school in the UK but its very hard to get work in the TESOL industry without a few years experience)

If you want him to stop preaching to you - be a better teacher, do the research understand what your job is - then if he is wrong you can call him on it. And if someone has decided to make this there life, don't belittle it, don't tell people who have been out here for years that they are wasting their time and will never change anything - im not saying the guy is a saint he is probably as bad as you say but for people who are actually working hard to make things better for students having a co-worker bitch and gossip because they don't want to take their job seriously is not going to help things
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Ramen



Joined: 15 Apr 2008

PostPosted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 4:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

why is the OP talking about me that way? i'm the nicest guy you'll ever meet. Razz
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Catfisher



Joined: 10 Nov 2010

PostPosted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 5:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

chellovek wrote:
Sounds like another typical western arse. Man I hate foreigners here so much sometimes.


Me too, bro. That's why I only eat Korean food, only speak Korean outside of work, only hang out with Koreans in Korean bars. Down with the waygook. Yankees go home!!!!
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decolyon



Joined: 24 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 11:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Catfisher wrote:
Hey decolyon, by any chance is this teacher a fat Canadian with long reddish brown hair and a moustache/goatee combo?


Haha, it may very well be. The fact that could be two people that fit this profile makes me ill.

Btw, he came in this morning stinking to high heaven from the boozing last night. I thought for sure this would be the day they'd cut up his visa and give him a one way ticket to ICN. I was wrong. It amazes me people like this can remain employed. My boss did mention that his contract is up soon and they are seriously considering not offering him another year.

At one point he brought up some things about church service yesterday morning. Again, that's all well and good if it works for you. But I wish I could have found some way to draw the line from him going to church yesterday morning, to whatever the events were that lead him to rolling late (again) this morning boozed out of his head.
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jrwhite82



Joined: 22 May 2010

PostPosted: Mon Dec 06, 2010 12:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

He kept getting back in line at communion?
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Catfisher



Joined: 10 Nov 2010

PostPosted: Mon Dec 06, 2010 2:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

decolyon wrote:
Catfisher wrote:
Hey decolyon, by any chance is this teacher a fat Canadian with long reddish brown hair and a moustache/goatee combo?


Haha, it may very well be. The fact that could be two people that fit this profile makes me ill.

Btw, he came in this morning stinking to high heaven from the boozing last night. I thought for sure this would be the day they'd cut up his visa and give him a one way ticket to ICN. I was wrong. It amazes me people like this can remain employed. My boss did mention that his contract is up soon and they are seriously considering not offering him another year.

At one point he brought up some things about church service yesterday morning. Again, that's all well and good if it works for you. But I wish I could have found some way to draw the line from him going to church yesterday morning, to whatever the events were that lead him to rolling late (again) this morning boozed out of his head.


Okay, let's take it up a notch. Does his name begin with an 'R' and rhyme with 'slob'?
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southernman



Joined: 15 Jan 2010
Location: On the mainland again

PostPosted: Mon Dec 06, 2010 3:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've got to agree with others OP, you're hardly going to win any friends here saying that we're all English teaching monkey's and not teachers (or words to that effect)

Your co-teacher obviously shouldn't be teaching if he's recking of alcohol and preaching in class. Combined with his holier than thou attitude regarding him being a better teacher than everyone else. You should have told him that, in nicer words, ages ago. Possibly over a beer. Very Happy

So considering your words and his actions I'm actually glad you're in the same Kindi. Keep all the dross in one place, as it were Wink
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Junior



Joined: 18 Nov 2005
Location: the eye

PostPosted: Mon Dec 06, 2010 7:22 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

chellovek wrote:
Sounds like another typical western arse. Man I hate foreigners here so much sometimes.


Yep.
Has often been the one of the biggest pitfalls in Korea. Wehguk co-workers. Rolling Eyes

It'd be fine if Korea hired a variety of foreigners- including older and interesting people. But typically you have a hogwon with dozens of young western grads. Nothing worse.
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some waygug-in



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Mon Dec 06, 2010 7:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Best to just smile and ignore him as much as possible.

Or better yet smile and snicker to yourself next time he gives you un-solicited advice. If he asks why you are laughing, snicker louder and walk away.

I've had to work with a few 'class acts' as well. You won't change him.
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discostu333



Joined: 18 Nov 2009

PostPosted: Mon Dec 06, 2010 7:50 pm    Post subject: Re: Coworker Issues Reply with quote

Sounds like the typical weaboo looser type you often find who adopt Korea and ESL as their image.

Punch him in the face. Violence solves everything. And if he complains, tell him its ok because the Christians used violence in the crusades.
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decolyon



Joined: 24 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Mon Dec 06, 2010 8:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Catfisher wrote:
decolyon wrote:
Catfisher wrote:
Hey decolyon, by any chance is this teacher a fat Canadian with long reddish brown hair and a moustache/goatee combo?


Haha, it may very well be. The fact that could be two people that fit this profile makes me ill.

Btw, he came in this morning stinking to high heaven from the boozing last night. I thought for sure this would be the day they'd cut up his visa and give him a one way ticket to ICN. I was wrong. It amazes me people like this can remain employed. My boss did mention that his contract is up soon and they are seriously considering not offering him another year.

At one point he brought up some things about church service yesterday morning. Again, that's all well and good if it works for you. But I wish I could have found some way to draw the line from him going to church yesterday morning, to whatever the events were that lead him to rolling late (again) this morning boozed out of his head.


Okay, let's take it up a notch. Does his name begin with an 'R' and rhyme with 'slob'?


Oh, swing and a miss.
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Pa Jan Jo A Hamnida



Joined: 27 Oct 2006
Location: Not Korea

PostPosted: Mon Dec 06, 2010 9:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Just say words to the effect that I do my job for x amount per month so further contributions aren't required.

If you really do make more, he will get uptight but quick. Worked for me once.
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