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Husband and wife starting at different times...

 
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Yellowstone_1872



Joined: 12 Nov 2010

PostPosted: Tue Mar 08, 2011 9:10 am    Post subject: Husband and wife starting at different times... Reply with quote

I've been working with a recruiter for the last couple of months, who has been very pleasant and a good communicator with me in general, but recently we seem to have hit a roadblock. Last week in conversation, the day after a school official was supposed to call me for an interview and didn't call, it came out in conversation that I was married and that my wife wants to come to Korea 2-3 months after I arrive. She'd like to teach English as well, and we're both qualified to do so.

The recruiter seemed to have some misgivings about us arriving at different times, mostly based on our contracts not ending at the same time next year. I assured him that we'd considered this and don't think it's a problem. Frankly it makes it easier for us by insuring that we have at least one full time job going at any given time, since she's got a couple of months left to run on a job here in the US and she'd like to take a month off before starting up with a new job (teaching or otherwise).

I understand the schools being nervous about me getting out of contract and then convincing her to pull a midnight run or something. I offered to meet them halfway by working a 15 month contract (or whatever would align our contracts if she got a job 3 months after me), and floated the possibility that she might not even teach English there (she's a certified pilates/yoga instructor and could easily do that). I'm not asking for couples housing, as I know that it's difficult to justify when she isn't coming at the same time and may not be in immediate proximity.

In any case, I told the recruiter that I'd like to go ahead and interview, even if the recruiter has misgivings. Today I hear back:

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I am very sorry, but your application wasn�t selected by the education office due to the possible joint application with your wife & the possibility that your employment dates will overlap.

It doesn�t prevent you or your wife from obtaining public schools, but you need to apply at the same time.

I hope you can appreciate this from their perspective.


Honestly, it doesn't work for us to apply at the same time. It would probably mean waiting till August/Sept to start, when we'll be seriously hurting for money if her current job stops and we have to wait a couple of months for either of us to work full time.

Am I going to find the same situation with all the recruiters/schools I try to get a job with? I'd just like to start work in April/May, and I'm not picky on location (I was looking for an EPIK position in the South, but I'm flexible).
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Skippy



Joined: 18 Jan 2003
Location: Daejeon

PostPosted: Tue Mar 08, 2011 9:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

First off your wife can not teach YOGA here. Sorry not allowed - English yes. Thru she could probably teach on the side illegally. Still this not your main worry.

You answered you own question. They are worried your wife will leave at nine months or 10 months. You can make all the assurances you want they did not take them.

Now what you might want to try is separate applications. But if you do that you will likely lose out on the benefits like bigger apartment and being assigned close together. She gets assigned on one side of the city or province and you the other. Have to deal with two apartments, deposits, health insurance, etc.

Another one is one goes private another goes public. Get your public school job and your wife gets a private school job close by. Only major problems with that is Vacations will never sync or work and hours can be also messed up. She works evenings, you 9 to 5. Might not help the relationship.

Still Good Luck.
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minos



Joined: 01 Dec 2010
Location: kOREA

PostPosted: Tue Mar 08, 2011 6:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Under table yoga teaching is possible....I know some under the table foreigner dance teachers here.

Probaly a big demand since they'll even pay money to import Indian yoga masters(ala foreign teachers in Eng schools).
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emmahearst



Joined: 10 Jan 2011

PostPosted: Tue Mar 08, 2011 8:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

What do they have with Yoga teachers? What if you gather a bunch of Americans and teach them Yoga at a house or something.

minos wrote:
Under table yoga teaching is possible....I know some under the table foreigner dance teachers here.

Probaly a big demand since they'll even pay money to import Indian yoga masters(ala foreign teachers in Eng schools).
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Skippy



Joined: 18 Jan 2003
Location: Daejeon

PostPosted: Tue Mar 08, 2011 9:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

emmahearst wrote:
What do they have with Yoga teachers? What if you gather a bunch of Americans and teach them Yoga at a house or something.

minos wrote:
Under table yoga teaching is possible....I know some under the table foreigner dance teachers here.

Probaly a big demand since they'll even pay money to import Indian yoga masters(ala foreign teachers in Eng schools).


What does the United States have against importing Chinese or Mexican workers to build cars in Detroit for less money - BECAUSE AN AMERICAN CITIZEN CAN DO THE THE JOB. We get to teach English because the Korean government has decided that we bring a unique skill to the country that can not be filled by Koreans. The same can go for Scientists and Engineers and even athletes.

Also this is not really the main point the guy is trying to get advice for.

Thru a third option is available is the wife could come later on a spouse visa and NOT teach English. She could teach Yoga under the table but she would likely not make enough money compared to English teaching and if she gets caught she risks both her and her busbands visa status plus money paying fines.
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