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ashshea



Joined: 02 Jun 2007

PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 1:49 pm    Post subject: Sandals/flip-flops rude? Reply with quote

A few people have told me that it's rude to show your feet without socks in Korea and, thus, flip-flops and sandals are considered rude. Is this true? I know they don't want me to wear flip-flops to my school, but what about out in town? Would it be rude to wear flip-flops? I'm leaving in a week and trying to figure out what to pack, so I would appreciate your advice. By the way, I'm going to Daegu which I know is more conservative than Seoul. Thanks in advance for your help.
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jvalmer



Joined: 06 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 2:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wearing flip-flops in a working environment is generally a no-no. But walking about town with them is okay.
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happiness



Joined: 04 Sep 2010

PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 2:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

yes, ive was told showing legs is kind of rude for a teacher, but i rock 3/4 pants from uniqlo, and get away with it, but i always put on ankle socks (footies?)

i just cant get over how guys dont wear shorts in the summer, but they get used to sweating it out with those uniforms in school and in the military, not me, out of work, into shorts and sandals. whew
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Triban



Joined: 14 Jul 2009
Location: Suwon Station

PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 3:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

In public I see Koreans wear sandals all the time...although it is the ones with like 4 straps and not a thong.

You're safe. I've worn them to work a couple times with no complaints, although I haven't tried the shorts ever.
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pangaea



Joined: 20 Dec 2007

PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 4:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You'll be fine. People here wear sandals and flip flops all the time. Wearing them at work will probably be against your school's dress policy, but wearing them on your own time will be fine.

I've never heard that it is rude for teachers to show their legs. I wear skirts and capris to work all the time. I guess if anyone is offended by my pasty white legs, it's a year too late to worry about it now.
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sadguy



Joined: 13 Feb 2011

PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 7:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OP, you've been a member since 2007 and you're finally making it out to korea?
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DaHu



Joined: 09 Feb 2011

PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 7:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I don't want to see people's feet, but apparently that's just me.

Of course, no telling if your boss will be the same kind of crazy that I am.
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Kaypea



Joined: 09 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 7:56 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah, you generally aren't supposed to show bare foot at school, but I do. I really hate socks in the summer, even those footies, so I just keep some under my desk in case anybody ever makes me wear them. BTW, I've been given footies as impromptu gifts... heheh. It's not that I mean to be a rebel, or one of those people who openly disregards obvious hints, but it's just that I take my socks off when I'm deskwarming and forget to put them back on. Oopsies. I know there's a no bare feet rule, but I'm going to wait until I'm "reminded" of it before following it again.

When I first came to Korea, I worried a bit about wearing the right thing when walking around town and stuff, but it really doesn't matter. Wear whatever you want, really. Sandals of all kinds are popular, and more people are wearing sleeveless tops too, which I think used to be less common.
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wishfullthinkng



Joined: 05 Mar 2010

PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 8:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

happiness wrote:
yes, ive was told showing legs is kind of rude for a teacher, but i rock 3/4 pants from uniqlo, and get away with it, but i always put on ankle socks (footies?)

i just cant get over how guys dont wear shorts in the summer, but they get used to sweating it out with those uniforms in school and in the military, not me, out of work, into shorts and sandals. whew


i understand not all of us live in an adult professional state of mind, but for those of us who do or are required to, we see shorts as something that are for children, vacations, and frat boys and hippies (both arguably altered states of being a child).

i was just commenting to a friend not too long ago on how i don't understand how some people run around in shorts like happy-go-lucky tourists and expect to be treated as adults.

not that i made the system, but that's the way it is unfortunately.
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jvalmer



Joined: 06 Jun 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 8:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

happiness wrote:
i just cant get over how guys dont wear shorts in the summer

What are you talking about? I see guys in shorts often, but usually not when they're working though.
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nathanrutledge



Joined: 01 May 2008
Location: Marakesh

PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 9:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

jvalmer wrote:
happiness wrote:
i just cant get over how guys dont wear shorts in the summer

What are you talking about? I see guys in shorts often, but usually not when they're working though.


My Korean co teacher was wearing shorts and a t shirt the other day. I told her that I'd never thought of wearing something like that to work. She looked at me and said "Why not?"

It really depends on the school and the co workers, IMO. If they'd let me wear shorts, I'd have no trouble doing that on those 100+ degree days, or when it rains. I roll my pants up to my knees to walk to school on the wet days...
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PastorYoon



Joined: 25 Jun 2010
Location: Sea of Japan

PostPosted: Wed Jun 22, 2011 9:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Sandals/flip-flops rude?


This is Korea. In my experience (3 years +), anything that a foreigner does which is not how EVERY Korean person does it, is considered weird, rude, and mildly offensive.
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ashshea



Joined: 02 Jun 2007

PostPosted: Thu Jun 23, 2011 7:07 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thanks for your help. This clears things up a bit for me.

Quote:
OP, you've been a member since 2007 and you're finally making it out to korea?


I was thinking about going to Korea in 2007, but went to grad school instead. I'm finally going now.
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DaHu



Joined: 09 Feb 2011

PostPosted: Thu Jun 23, 2011 4:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

PastorYoon wrote:
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Sandals/flip-flops rude?


This is Korea. In my experience (3 years +), anything that a foreigner does which is not how EVERY Korean person does it, is considered weird, rude, and mildly offensive.


If this isn't worth a +1, then no post is.
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DIsbell



Joined: 15 Oct 2008

PostPosted: Thu Jun 23, 2011 4:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It really depends on the workplace. I work at a fairly well-known chain in Mokdong (with some notoriously picky mothers, no less) and the dress-code is very, very lax. In this hot and humid season now shorts and flip-flops are fine for the guys.

But in general I do notice that a lot of Korean guys are still wearing jeans/pants out and about. I guess maybe growing up in this kind of weather and wearing pants through it you just get used to it.
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