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lyonhead
Joined: 05 Oct 2011
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2011 8:50 pm Post subject: How much do you spend? |
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After hearing so much talk about how much other people are saving and how little I am (almost none) I want to figure out what I'm doing wrong. Please help.
As soon as I get a paycheck, I always pay my bills right away. This means after pension, taxes, healthcare, electricity, gas, cable, phone, internet, and student loans, of my 2.3mkw salary, I take home about 1.3mkw.
Note though, the exchange rate makes the student loan payments more painful than they used to be, but I'm about to pay one loan off entirely and that will free up a few hundred bucks a month.
At this point, I decide what kind of month, or weeks, I'm going to have. Either I can load up at the grocery store on the weekend and cook all my food and hardly eat out at all. Or I can keep little food at home and eat out (mainly 7-11 food) all month. If it's option A - then I'll drop loads of cash at Emart and need to spend very little on a daily basis. If it's option B - I spend almost nothing at the store but end up having a highly daily budget. Either way at the end of the month, I spend about the same, which comes to around a million won.
That leaves just a few hundred, that gets eaten up quick if I have a date, or pay a gym fee, or need some protein powder or what not.
Food is far and away my biggest expense. Now granted, I don't eat kimbap and ramyeon everyday. Sure I could spend just a few dollars a day that way, but I'd probably be 50 pounds overweight and be nearing a heart attack by the time I"m 30. Instead, I eat pretty healthy. Lots of fruits and veg, chicken breasts, lean beef, brown rice, etc.
Do I have to sacrifice my health to save more money? Is that what i'm doing wrong?
I mean, it's so frustrating. At this point, I just got paid, but I can already tell I'm just barely going to make it till next paycheck. I can't even afford new clothes, and I desperately need new clothes. Every pair of socks I own have holes in them, and I've been wearing the same 3 pair of jeans for years... years.
I don't blow my money. I don't drink, at all. Alcohol is just not for me. I don't buy new gadgets (using a 4 year old netbook still), I don't rent prostitutes, I take the bus, I don't go out on weekends. I will occasionally have a date, but I try to keep it pretty cheap. Samgyup sal, walks, maybe a movie.
I'm sick of living paycheck to paycheck. Why can I not get the hang of this? |
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ttompatz

Joined: 05 Sep 2005 Location: Kwangju, South Korea
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2011 8:59 pm Post subject: |
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Pay the bills and include the savings plan as one more bill.
Live on what is left.
No trick to it.
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loose_ends
Joined: 23 Jul 2007
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2011 9:02 pm Post subject: Re: How much do you spend? |
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lyonhead wrote: |
After hearing so much talk about how much other people are saving and how little I am (almost none) I want to figure out what I'm doing wrong. Please help.
As soon as I get a paycheck, I always pay my bills right away. This means after pension, taxes, healthcare, electricity, gas, cable, phone, internet, and student loans, of my 2.3mkw salary, I take home about 1.3mkw.
Note though, the exchange rate makes the student loan payments more painful than they used to be, but I'm about to pay one loan off entirely and that will free up a few hundred bucks a month.
At this point, I decide what kind of month, or weeks, I'm going to have. Either I can load up at the grocery store on the weekend and cook all my food and hardly eat out at all. Or I can keep little food at home and eat out (mainly 7-11 food) all month. If it's option A - then I'll drop loads of cash at Emart and need to spend very little on a daily basis. If it's option B - I spend almost nothing at the store but end up having a highly daily budget. Either way at the end of the month, I spend about the same, which comes to around a million won.
That leaves just a few hundred, that gets eaten up quick if I have a date, or pay a gym fee, or need some protein powder or what not.
Food is far and away my biggest expense. Now granted, I don't eat kimbap and ramyeon everyday. Sure I could spend just a few dollars a day that way, but I'd probably be 50 pounds overweight and be nearing a heart attack by the time I"m 30. Instead, I eat pretty healthy. Lots of fruits and veg, chicken breasts, lean beef, brown rice, etc.
Do I have to sacrifice my health to save more money? Is that what i'm doing wrong?
I mean, it's so frustrating. At this point, I just got paid, but I can already tell I'm just barely going to make it till next paycheck. I can't even afford new clothes, and I desperately need new clothes. Every pair of socks I own have holes in them, and I've been wearing the same 3 pair of jeans for years... years.
I don't blow my money. I don't drink, at all. Alcohol is just not for me. I don't buy new gadgets (using a 4 year old netbook still), I don't rent prostitutes, I take the bus, I don't go out on weekends. I will occasionally have a date, but I try to keep it pretty cheap. Samgyup sal, walks, maybe a movie.
I'm sick of living paycheck to paycheck. Why can I not get the hang of this? |
You eat a million won worth of food a month? That's pretty intense.
My first year in Korea was similar to your except I partied all my pay cheques away. Remember at the end though you will be walking away with over 6 million won in the bank (final pay cheque, severence, pension refund) + a years worth of student loan payments taken care of.
Don't worry so much about money. It comes and goes. I wasn't able to money until I picked up part-times around my hagwon job. I spent the money from my part-times and banked by hagwan cheque. |
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Setaro
Joined: 08 Aug 2010
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2011 9:13 pm Post subject: Re: How much do you spend? |
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lyonhead wrote: |
After hearing so much talk about how much other people are saving and how little I am (almost none) I want to figure out what I'm doing wrong. Please help.
As soon as I get a paycheck, I always pay my bills right away. This means after pension, taxes, healthcare, electricity, gas, cable, phone, internet, and student loans, of my 2.3mkw salary, I take home about 1.3mkw.
Note though, the exchange rate makes the student loan payments more painful than they used to be, but I'm about to pay one loan off entirely and that will free up a few hundred bucks a month.
At this point, I decide what kind of month, or weeks, I'm going to have. Either I can load up at the grocery store on the weekend and cook all my food and hardly eat out at all. Or I can keep little food at home and eat out (mainly 7-11 food) all month. If it's option A - then I'll drop loads of cash at Emart and need to spend very little on a daily basis. If it's option B - I spend almost nothing at the store but end up having a highly daily budget. Either way at the end of the month, I spend about the same, which comes to around a million won.
That leaves just a few hundred, that gets eaten up quick if I have a date, or pay a gym fee, or need some protein powder or what not.
Food is far and away my biggest expense. Now granted, I don't eat kimbap and ramyeon everyday. Sure I could spend just a few dollars a day that way, but I'd probably be 50 pounds overweight and be nearing a heart attack by the time I"m 30. Instead, I eat pretty healthy. Lots of fruits and veg, chicken breasts, lean beef, brown rice, etc.
Do I have to sacrifice my health to save more money? Is that what i'm doing wrong?
I mean, it's so frustrating. At this point, I just got paid, but I can already tell I'm just barely going to make it till next paycheck. I can't even afford new clothes, and I desperately need new clothes. Every pair of socks I own have holes in them, and I've been wearing the same 3 pair of jeans for years... years.
I don't blow my money. I don't drink, at all. Alcohol is just not for me. I don't buy new gadgets (using a 4 year old netbook still), I don't rent prostitutes, I take the bus, I don't go out on weekends. I will occasionally have a date, but I try to keep it pretty cheap. Samgyup sal, walks, maybe a movie.
I'm sick of living paycheck to paycheck. Why can I not get the hang of
this? |
I probably spend less 200,000 a month on food, thus I'm saving at least 800k more than you a month. I eat nothing but school lunches, then I go out and eat some tteokboggi, sundae, kimbap, bibimbap, gukbap etc for dinner. Sometimes I eat so much at school lunch I'm not even hungry until 9PM, in which case I eat Frosties/a bit of toast and nutella.
And I ain't fat. Seriously, you can eat nothing but crap, as long as you exercise, or simply don't eat stupid sized portions, you aren't going to get fat. Stop buying insanely expensive 'healthy' food and save some of that cash. |
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alwaysgood
Joined: 15 Aug 2011 Location: Changwon
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2011 9:15 pm Post subject: |
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It sounds like you are paying a lot in student loans per month. Maybe 700,000? I wouldn't be able to save much with that kind of monthly bill. As far as food you mentioned, maybe substitute lean pork for the lean beef. Would need more details to help further. |
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The Floating World
Joined: 01 Oct 2011 Location: Here
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2011 9:19 pm Post subject: |
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Salary is 2.4, can save 1.3 easily per month. I don't have any loans to pay off though. |
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loose_ends
Joined: 23 Jul 2007
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2011 9:20 pm Post subject: Re: How much do you spend? |
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Setaro wrote: |
lyonhead wrote: |
After hearing so much talk about how much other people are saving and how little I am (almost none) I want to figure out what I'm doing wrong. Please help.
As soon as I get a paycheck, I always pay my bills right away. This means after pension, taxes, healthcare, electricity, gas, cable, phone, internet, and student loans, of my 2.3mkw salary, I take home about 1.3mkw.
Note though, the exchange rate makes the student loan payments more painful than they used to be, but I'm about to pay one loan off entirely and that will free up a few hundred bucks a month.
At this point, I decide what kind of month, or weeks, I'm going to have. Either I can load up at the grocery store on the weekend and cook all my food and hardly eat out at all. Or I can keep little food at home and eat out (mainly 7-11 food) all month. If it's option A - then I'll drop loads of cash at Emart and need to spend very little on a daily basis. If it's option B - I spend almost nothing at the store but end up having a highly daily budget. Either way at the end of the month, I spend about the same, which comes to around a million won.
That leaves just a few hundred, that gets eaten up quick if I have a date, or pay a gym fee, or need some protein powder or what not.
Food is far and away my biggest expense. Now granted, I don't eat kimbap and ramyeon everyday. Sure I could spend just a few dollars a day that way, but I'd probably be 50 pounds overweight and be nearing a heart attack by the time I"m 30. Instead, I eat pretty healthy. Lots of fruits and veg, chicken breasts, lean beef, brown rice, etc.
Do I have to sacrifice my health to save more money? Is that what i'm doing wrong?
I mean, it's so frustrating. At this point, I just got paid, but I can already tell I'm just barely going to make it till next paycheck. I can't even afford new clothes, and I desperately need new clothes. Every pair of socks I own have holes in them, and I've been wearing the same 3 pair of jeans for years... years.
I don't blow my money. I don't drink, at all. Alcohol is just not for me. I don't buy new gadgets (using a 4 year old netbook still), I don't rent prostitutes, I take the bus, I don't go out on weekends. I will occasionally have a date, but I try to keep it pretty cheap. Samgyup sal, walks, maybe a movie.
I'm sick of living paycheck to paycheck. Why can I not get the hang of
this? |
I probably spend less 200,000 a month on food, thus I'm saving at least 800k more than you a month. I eat nothing but school lunches, then I go out and eat some tteokboggi, sundae, kimbap, bibimbap, gukbap etc for dinner. Sometimes I eat so much at school lunch I'm not even hungry until 9PM, in which case I eat Frosties/a bit of toast and nutella.
And I ain't fat. Seriously, you can eat nothing but crap, as long as you exercise, or simply don't eat stupid sized portions, you aren't going to get fat. Stop buying insanely expensive 'healthy' food and save some of that cash. |
With that diet I bet you have very little lean mass, ie, muscle. Skinny fat ain't cool. Some people like to look good, healthy food is part of it. I'm just not sure why OP has to spend 1 million won on it. |
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adzee1
Joined: 22 Jul 2010
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Posted: Thu Nov 24, 2011 9:37 pm Post subject: |
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After Tax and healthcare I take home around 2,100,000 then I pay - 65,000 per month for the apartment maintainance, 15,000 electricity and about 40,000 gas which leaves me just under 2 million.
I also have a wife who is not working so my salary pays for both of us.
I withdraw 250,000 per week and this is plenty to last me the week and includes eating out twice per week in a nice place and going out to a bar usually once per week.
I spend about 80,000 of it on the weekly shop from Emart, the veg market and the butchers, and that leaves us 170,000 per week to have fun or buy clothes etc.... Shopping at the butchers is worth it for me as I can get a kilo of beef for 10,000 won instead of 10,000 for about 400g in the supermarket.
With this I am saving 1 million per month |
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alice_w
Joined: 10 Aug 2011
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2011 1:25 am Post subject: |
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Yeah, I would say it's the amount of money you spend of food that sets you apart from others. We're a family of four and we only spend 700,000 won per month on it, and we never eat out.
Making more money would help, too!  |
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OneWayTraffic
Joined: 14 Mar 2005
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2011 3:12 am Post subject: |
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Agreed, if you are spending more than 75,000 a week on food there's room to cut somewhere without sacrificing health. I spent something like 500,000-750,000 for a family of four per month including a bit of eating out.
Debt payment is a form of saving though. The trick is to keep that money rolling in once the debt is gone. |
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duke of new york
Joined: 23 Jan 2011
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2011 4:32 am Post subject: |
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I'm curious about what food you buy that is running you a million a month. Other than the beef, that stuff is all pretty inexpensive. Do you buy a lot of meat, and if so, how much do you pay for it? It might be that you could save a fair amount just by shopping somewhere cheaper. On the other hand, if you consume a steady diet of ribeye steaks, you're either going to have to change your eating habits or just get used to dropping half your paycheck on groceries.
I don't spend a lot of money in general, but I love food, so it's the one thing I pretty much let myself spend as much as I want on (within reason). I still probably don't spend more than 400,000 a month at the absolute most. And that's including probably one or two restaurant meals a week of 10-25,000 won, and 3-4 quick work dinners a week (6000won bulgogi soup at the Korean restaurant or 4000won sub sandwich, etc). I also allow myself a good amount of overpriced and unnecessary "treats" like chicken wings, salsa, peanut butter, bacon, coffee...well, maybe coffee is a necessity.
You can eat a very healthy diet based around fruit, vegetables, eggs, rice and bread for next to nothing. You can even add a couple of nicer dinners throughout the week like a steak or something, and it still should be easy to stay under 200,000 a month. |
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SeoulNate

Joined: 04 Jun 2010 Location: Hyehwa
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2011 4:40 am Post subject: |
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Agree with the other posters. It is impossible to spend a million won a month on food unless you are eating out at expensive places every night, or cooking steak at home.
I spend less than 100,000 won a week on food and that usually includes eating out twice a week. |
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The Floating World
Joined: 01 Oct 2011 Location: Here
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2011 5:10 am Post subject: |
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Lol even steak doesn't cost that much!
A 250g American chuck steak or rump steak from emart runs around 5 - 6k, so only 40k if he ate it everday of the week. |
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lyonhead
Joined: 05 Oct 2011
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2011 7:45 am Post subject: |
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I make a fruit and veg smoothie every day for breakfast. It's mainly a mix of spinach and banana with a few other little things thrown in. I know when I go to the store and just pick up enough of these ingredients for 5 smoothies (one each morning) it's about 25,000 won. I have this at about 10am.
I usually get lunch when I get to school around 1:30 or 2. This is mostly subway or local Korean place. Average is 5,000 a day, so that's another 25,000.
Okay, already up to 50,000 won a week and that's just two meals a day.
I usually get a second lunch or an early dinner while at work around 7 or 8. This is usually what I make at home. Chicken breast on brown rice, maybe lean beef meat ball in mix veg, hamburger patty with baked sweet potato... you get the idea. If I work it out per meal, that's usually another 5,000, once you figure in meat cost, veg cost, etc.
Sometimes I just skip dinner. Sometimes I just have another one of the above, and sometimes I'm lazy and grab some Jesters or curry to go. Again, about 5,000-7,000 per. We'll call it 20,000 a week.
95,000 just for food, just for the week, and I haven't even made it to the weekend yet. That's also not including other things at the grocery store I need like laundry detergent, shampoo, body wash, spray cleaner, garbage bags, etc. Again, nothing strange or drastic or expensive or unnecessary. Just normal things.
Once I count in what I need for that week and food on the weekend (lazy weekend, no date or anything) that's easily another 100,000 a week.
So 195,000 a week on basic things, we'll call it 200,000 just to be simple and that's 800,000 a month. And that's if every weekend I just live like a hermit and don't leave my officetel. If I have a date or two in that month, you can see how that shoots up to a million won easily.
So what should I do? Not eat during the day? Switch over to ramyeon cups instead and pack on 5 extra pounds a week? I don't see how someone can eat on 400,000 a month and have anything resembling a healthy body.
If I the only way to put back all that extra cash is to stop eating right and let a spare tire form around my middle and my arms dwindle in size, then I'll pass. But I need to know if that really is the problem or is it something else.
I want to save better, I really do. But I'm not willing to sacrifice my health and fitness for it. |
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duke of new york
Joined: 23 Jan 2011
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Posted: Fri Nov 25, 2011 8:54 am Post subject: |
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lyonhead wrote: |
I make a fruit and veg smoothie every day for breakfast. It's mainly a mix of spinach and banana with a few other little things thrown in. I know when I go to the store and just pick up enough of these ingredients for 5 smoothies (one each morning) it's about 25,000 won. I have this at about 10am. |
Sounds very nutritious, but I would personally consider 5000 a day on breakfast way too much. Occasionally, sure, but not every day. Typical breakfast for me is a few eggs with toast or a bowl of cereal, and a glass of juice. Not really sure what either of those break down to per day, but I'd guess about 1000 won. Maybe not as fortified as a spinach-banana smoothie, but it's a perfectly healthy breakfast.
Now, if it was just a banana and some spinach, it would probably be substantially cheaper. Maybe you should eliminate some of the "other little things."
lyonhead wrote: |
I usually get lunch when I get to school around 1:30 or 2. This is mostly subway or local Korean place. Average is 5,000 a day, so that's another 25,000. |
Sounds reasonable enough to me for lunch, but only if you didn't just spend that much on breakfast. Also, since you're looking to cut costs and you are rather health-conscious, it's worth mentioning that lunch is a relatively unimportant meal. When I was in college, my daily lunch consisted pretty much exclusively of fresh fruit--apples, pears, bananas etc. Cheap and healthy. If you have a nutritious breakfast and dinner with enough protein, lunch is really just to keep you from getting hungry in between.
lyonhead wrote: |
I usually get a second lunch or an early dinner while at work around 7 or 8. This is usually what I make at home. Chicken breast on brown rice, maybe lean beef meat ball in mix veg, hamburger patty with baked sweet potato... you get the idea. If I work it out per meal, that's usually another 5,000, once you figure in meat cost, veg cost, etc. |
Well, everyone's lifestyle is different, but to me, a meal at 7 or 8 is not a second lunch or early dinner, it's dinner. Anything after that is a snack. I don't know when you hit the sack, but you should generally avoid eating anything from about three hours before you go to sleep.
Not that I always follow that rule, but if I eat late at night, it's a snack, not a whole meal.
lyonhead wrote: |
Sometimes I just skip dinner. Sometimes I just have another one of the above, and sometimes I'm lazy and grab some Jesters or curry to go. Again, about 5,000-7,000 per. We'll call it 20,000 a week. |
So when does this happen? It just doesn't seem like you should need another full-size meal after you eat at 8:00pm. Fresh fruit is great for curbing hunger in between meals. If you need something heavier, have a bowl of cereal, make a peanut butter sandwich, scramble some eggs...plenty of possibilities for around a buck or less.
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Once I count in what I need for that week and food on the weekend (lazy weekend, no date or anything) that's easily another 100,000 a week. |
Well, you suddenly went from eating 20,000 worth of food a day on weekdays to 50,000 on the weekend. That may be a major part of your problem. I spend more on food on the weekends, too, but not twice as much.
If you had a less complicated breakfast and cut the after-work "dinner" to a ~1000 won snack, you're already looking at a weekday food budget of 60,000 a week rather than 95,000, if my math is correct. There's some pretty significant savings right there.
One day this week, I had 3 eggs and two slices of toast for breakfast, peanut butter sandwich and an apple for lunch (at work), bulgogi soup with rice and the other various shit you get at a Korean restaurant for dinner (also at work), and a bowl of cereal when I got home. Typical day for me, and I think it is satisfying as well as nutritionally sound. (I didn't mention today's meal schedule because it involved an atypical, somewhat extravagant and quite unhealthy substitute for Thanksgiving dinner.)
However, the weekend spending is the real culprit here. You're spending fifty bucks on food in a single day, two days in a row. I can't see any justification for spending more than 25,000 a day on food (weekend or otherwise) on a regular basis. I go to a nice restaurant every now and then, but not every week, because...well, they're expensive, and I don't have a million won a month to spend on food.
I think my diet is reasonably healthy, it's relatively inexpensive, and I NEVER eat ramen or gimbap--not so much because they're unhealthy, mainly just because they don't taste very good. There is plenty of nutritious and inexpensive food in Korea. Your main problems are spending way too much on the weekend and eating too many large meals a day. You only need one big meal a day, the rest should be pretty light. |
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