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Captain Corea



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 1:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Unposter wrote:
Curiouser and Curiouser, if you follow the link and read the article, there is room for comments. The one comment left discusses the trials and tribulations of one "Dr." David Thiessen in surprisingly intimate detail. Coincidence? I think the comment screams something.

Good luck with this one...


Any time his name comes up...

I cringe.
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12ax7



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 1:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Harpeau wrote:
It's an intersting article, but there are a few things that I have a problem with.
It's not ESL, but rather EFL - English as a Foreign Language. If she can't even get this right, how can I take the rest of the article seriously?!!


Seems obvious enough since most students have few opportunities, and therefore interest, in using English outside of the classroom.
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PatrickGHBusan



Joined: 24 Jun 2008
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 4:28 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Steelrails wrote:
PatrickGHBusan wrote:
Steelrails wrote:
Something about this article seems a little off...


Reads more like a blog post than an actual article but whats "off" about it?


I think that's the start of it...Not enough citations of studies or facts or whatnot.

As an opinion-based slice of life, I guess its alright, but it just lacks a certain...gravitas.

That and there' something just...I'm sure it will hit me...

I'd say that treating your employees well is just as likely to work out for an employer as sucking up to the boss is likely to work out for the employee.

That is to say, sometimes it works, but the bottom line is that people are generally selfish and no one is too loyal in this industry.

Hagwons could do everything well and you'd still get a lot of the clownery that happens with NETs. Likewise, NETs could be perfect and the Hagwons would just walk all over them.


Good post.

Well, while the piece itself is a basic run of the mill slice of life, it makes a point that is rarely made here. Is it a great piece of writing? Not by any stretch of the imagination!
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PatrickGHBusan



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 4:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Harpeau wrote:
It's an intersting article, but there are a few things that I have a problem with.
It's not ESL, but rather EFL - English as a Foreign Language. If she can't even get this right, how can I take the rest of the article seriously?!!

As a counselor who has been working in Seoul for over 11 years, I've been informed by many clients on why they had to leave the country. They include:
Sexual abuse, rape, stalking, creepy behavior from both bosses and coworkers, culture shock, loneliness, isolation, anxiety, depression, death in the family, wanting to get back together with an ex (back home), a great job offer (back home), an impulsive busride to the airport, a very messy break-up with a partner, needing a proper vacation, paranoid schizophrenia, psychotic break, boredom, etc.

There are many reasons why one may choose to do a midnight run from a hogwan. I really wonder why they don't happen more often.


Interesting.

I would say things like Sexual abuse, rape, stalking, creepy behavior from both bosses and coworkers, depression, death in the family are all valid reasons to pull a midnight run.

However things like culture shock, loneliness, isolation, impulsive busride to the airport, a very messy break-up with a partner, wanting to get back together with an ex (back home), needing a proper vacation and boredom are not.

Finally someone with paranoid schizophrenia or who suffers a psychotic break is in a bad spot no matter where they are and would need help, support, possible medication and treatment.
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PatrickGHBusan



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 4:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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Unposter said
I completely agree with the sentiment that hakwons (and any business or even school) get what they deserve - I mean it is their responsibility to hire and train their employees and if they are having staffing issues they should not look any farther than themselves -


Thats true to an extent. Hakwons are responsible to support and treat their employees well within the limits of the work agreement. However, Hakwons are NOT responsible for a Teacher who shows up hired on good faith gets a fair shake and then behaves like an idiot and pulls a runner because he or she gets lonely or does not like his job. Responsibbility is funny in the way that its usually a SHARED thing between an employer and an employee.
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shifty



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 5:25 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

PatrickGHBusan wrote:
Is it a great piece of writing? Not by any stretch of the imagination!


Well, I think it's not badly written at all, no complaints there.

In fact, that is its one redeeming feature.

It is embarrassing when a colleague takes off suddenly and one feels like having to apologize on behalf of one's kind. I used to get all loud and vehemently denounce the errant.

I think the writer is going through a similar bad patch.

The piece is a knee-jerk reaction.
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Paddycakes



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 5:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Harpeau wrote:
It's an intersting article, but there are a few things that I have a problem with.
It's not ESL, but rather EFL - English as a Foreign Language. If she can't even get this right, how can I take the rest of the article seriously?!!

As a counselor who has been working in Seoul for over 11 years, I've been informed by many clients on why they had to leave the country. They include:
Sexual abuse, rape, stalking, creepy behavior from both bosses and coworkers, culture shock, loneliness, isolation, anxiety, depression, death in the family, wanting to get back together with an ex (back home), a great job offer (back home), an impulsive busride to the airport, a very messy break-up with a partner, needing a proper vacation, paranoid schizophrenia, psychotic break, boredom, etc.

There are many reasons why one may choose to do a midnight run from a hogwan. I really wonder why they don't happen more often.



You forgot cockblocking.
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itistime



Joined: 23 Jul 2010

PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 5:42 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

TheUrbanMyth wrote:
stevieg4ever wrote:
This forum is the same now as it was back in 2005 when i first logged on.

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Then you should have seen it in early 2003...that article would have been torn apart and the writer accused of being a troll and brown-nosing lackey.


As to tthe article it's fairly well-written. Many times schools get the employees they deserve and employees get the schools they deserve. Small wonder then that more often then not neither side is happy.


Excellent comment. Sometimes people are just not capable of
figuring things out...and usually deserve what they get.
If you're not happy with your situation, you need to figure
it out.


Unposter wrote:
Curiouser and Curiouser, if you follow the link and read the article, there is room for comments. The one comment left discusses the trials and tribulations of one "Dr." David Thiessen in surprisingly intimate detail. Coincidence? I think the comment screams something.

Good luck with this one...


Yup.


Also, she just wanted to get published somewhere.
Mission accomplished!
Seeming a bit silly and in the honeymoon/newbie
phase, it's not difficult to discern the education of some.
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Steelrails



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 6:53 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You know given that it's an election year in the U.S. and how political everyone on this board is, I'm surprised I've seen nothing in my 3 years about 'public vs. private' and how the private market (hagwons) is as much like a socialist kleptocracy as anything. You'd figure the leftists on here would be ramming it down people's throat.

Sorry, but as an employee and even as a consumer if I'm looking at public vs. private, I have to lean public. Granted, elite private is best, but McHagwon private is more likely to be trash than public.

And what in the world is Troy Media or whatever it was...? Sounds like the Canadian news version of Bleacher Report.

And look at the people working for them....It's like Elaine's bad boyfriends from Seinfeld...Either that or a bunch of diddler mugshots from the cop shop's books...I wouldn't give directions if they asked me to any of those people..."Hey can you tell me where Glenview Elementary School is?" I kid I kid, I'm sure they're fine folks...but man...

http://www.troymedia.com/about-2/about/
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Stout



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 8:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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I thought Draz hit this one on the head. There is something not quite right about the writer of the "blog." For someone with a background in human rights, she sure doesn't seem to know one.

And, while I completely agree with the sentiment that hakwons (and any business or even school) get what they deserve - I mean it is their responsibility to hire and train their employees and if they are having staffing issues they should not look any farther than themselves - but I don't understand why people get so worked up about qualifications. I mean hakwons aren't even schools - they are businesses. I don't see why the government should do more than to suggest some basic hiring criteria and then leave it to the business to decide.

And, this whole idea that the other side is not talked about as if this was a Western person's problem rather than an individual problem. We tell people on this board time and time again - don't look at things like it is a Korean problem, it is an individual problem. But, all of sudden, it is okay to say, well, look at Western people, what's wrong with them, when they don't like their job, they just quit and don't give notice. NO!!! Some people do that and some people don't. It is an individual circumstance.

I don't know how wide-spread this issue is. But, if it is as wide-spread as the blogger suggests that I think it should be telling any sane person that their endemic problems with the system here (such as the nature of hiring, visa's and the way contracts are done here - and my guess at the lack of cross-cultural communication that is taking place) and not some moral failure or weakness on some individual's part.

Again, I don't know to what extent this is really a problem, but if it really is a problem, nothing in this blog in any shape or form is going to deal with the root problems that are causing it.

So, Draz hit it on the head, the writer offers nothing and makes herself look silly, even uneducated, in the process. And, I would put Stout and anyone else who supports such dribble as to what could possibly be gained from such nonesense?


Sorry, you've got it wrong. I don't support the "dribble".

It's about the fact that certain issues are brought up which hit a nerve and get people thinking and talking...which obviously (both points, in spades) it does Idea

I mean, dudes (and dudettes), when people be coming out and throwing down their ideas and views in a (semi) respectable way, in their own inimitable style, whether it be some guy stationed out in the Korean country-side just free-riffing and throwing in more than the kitchen sink, or someone who's been and now relocated abroad's focused, ice-cold analysis, it's a beautiful thing, it's a creative anarchic carnival of dialectic interplay putting the other animal species to shame, getting you to don your best, dick deep, and come to the table with what you got. Sure, we ain't gonna see eye to eye on some/most/all things, but it's more interesting, then, say, just living a life of, "Yes, sir"/"Right away, madam".

In short, if you want to say to someone, "don't post things that get people talkin' 'cos I say it's dribble", you better just pack up and get off the thread, because this is an internet forum.
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cfile2



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 5:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Steelrails wrote:
You know given that it's an election year in the U.S. and how political everyone on this board is, I'm surprised I've seen nothing in my 3 years about 'public vs. private' and how the private market (hagwons) is as much like a socialist kleptocracy as anything. You'd figure the leftists on here would be ramming it down people's throat.

Sorry, but as an employee and even as a consumer if I'm looking at public vs. private, I have to lean public. Granted, elite private is best, but McHagwon private is more likely to be trash than public.

And what in the world is Troy Media or whatever it was...? Sounds like the Canadian news version of Bleacher Report.


And look at the people working for them....It's like Elaine's bad boyfriends from Seinfeld...Either that or a bunch of diddler mugshots from the cop shop's books...I wouldn't give directions if they asked me to any of those people..."Hey can you tell me where Glenview Elementary School is?" I kid I kid, I'm sure they're fine folks...but man...

http://www.troymedia.com/about-2/about/


Had to LOL at this. I grew up in a really small town in Canada. The only place smaller than us in the area was a town that occupied about 10 feet of highway east of us: Troy.

The whole newspaper seems odd. They also have the following stories about teaching in Korea:

1) http://www.troymedia.com/blog/2012/01/01/the-perils-of-teaching-a-second-language-in-a-foreign-country/

2) http://www.troymedia.com/blog/2012/01/02/south-korean-teaching-experience-quickly-turned-sour/

The first one being part of a whole series written by one woman.

What seems odd about this to me is why any Canadian publication would run so many stories on teaching in South Korea. At most I'd expect one feature, or maybe two but spaced out.

My favourite quote from the second story is this:

"about five weeks into my job at Bank of America, I received an email through Hotjobs.com, written in broken English. The person contacting me identified himself as a recruiter from Korea and he was offering me a job to teach English. I would later find out that the recruiter was actually my future employer and not a recruiter at all ."
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Unposter



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 6:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If I may be serious for a momment...

Let's cut to the heart of the matter: this is not about quitting (a human right), it is about not giving notice.

Now, why are some people not giving notice? As an academic, I don't know. But, I can take a guess or make a hypothesis: it is because the person for whatever reason does not believe that he or she will be treated fairly if they do, doesn't feel confident that they can resolve a dispute and he or she feels an even larger sense of "lack of control" because they are in a foreign country without their normal safety net that they are used to.

Now, what is the saying - I forget - something like - the repetition of a mistake is insanity.

Midnight runs are nothing new in the Hakwon business. It has probably gone on since there have been native English speakers in hakwons. Either you change your management style or you accept it as a potential business loss.

Now, this has nothing to do with crednetials but it does have to do with hiring and training. Now, you can hire fresh off the boat or the first person with a white face you see and just throw the person in a classroom and say here is a book (if you are lucky), your an English teacher now teach or you can do something sane.

If you have had problems with people leaving - the writer of the "blog" reports - what? - 3 people have done a midnight run in less than a year - I mean what is the other side of that? - you can either keep doing what you are doing or you can change.

You can itnerview the person. You can talk to the person about the difficulties of living in another country. You can quiz them and see if they are really up to it or if they are just saying yes to what you say. While doing research is all fine and dandy, how can I say it is wrong, but if your employer is not preparing you for what their previous employees difficulties, then they are just not doing their jobs or they are trying to scam you and milk you for whatever they can get out of you until leave on the next midnight run.

If that employer is not interviewing the next person they want to hire and say listen the last person here had difficulties with A, B and C and if you don't think you can do that than you are not the right fit for this position.

Again, I don't know what the numbers are - one of the biggest problems with this field is that these sort of things aren't researched - is I bet between 0% and 10% of any hakwon, public school or university interviews and trains their employees in this manner.

This "blog" was terribly written - not because of its nouns and verbs - but because its content was severely lacking. There are so many open questions there such as: 1) why did the previous people leave without notice? 2) How often does this happen? 3) What is the company (hakwon) doing about it? 4) What policies are in place to help the employees adjust to another country and culture? The list could go on...that I as an editor would have sent the writer back to find out and address before I let such a stinker be published. Its disgraceful IMHO.

Anyway, good luck with it all...
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Steelrails



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PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 7:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

As for runners and whatnot- Young people are stupid.

Anyone with half a brain knows to research things fully before you jump in and not to believe some pamphlet schpiel hook, line, and sinker.

Seriously, who in the world hops half way around the world to some place without any clue of the language, culture, food, customs, practices, etc. etc. and with little to no background in education, to work in a place they've never even heard of or talk to anyone who works there?

Now that doesn't excuse evil Hagwon bosses, but I seriously wonder about these people and what went through their heads.

To paraphrase Dark Helmut: Evil will always triumph if good is dumb.
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 8:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Kimchifart wrote:
As someone who has only worked at unis, I'm very surprised that people put up with the conditions hagwons offer (low pay, low holiday, high intensity of teaching hours) all just to stay in an Asian country that let's face it, isn't Thailand with the beaches or Japan with the relatively high standard of living/first world infrastructure.


I have yet to figure out where the whole 'Japan's high standard of living' notion comes from. Having lived there for a short while and having seen the size, cost and quality of apartments there... I keep coming to a conclusion that Japan is far from being a 1st world country. This is particularly true if you live in Tokyo on teacher's salary. In comparison, apartments in Seoul/Bangkok are much cheaper and more spacious. On a teacher's salary, it is possible to live substantially better than in Tokyo.
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PostPosted: Thu Jan 05, 2012 9:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The one strength which labour has always had is to withdraw it.
Saying this is 'wrong' or 'immoral' is daft.
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