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EmmaHewitt



Joined: 14 Apr 2011
Location: US

PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 12:08 am    Post subject: Can you have unusual hair as a teacher? Reply with quote

I am a male, and I have longish hair, styled in a fashion that wouldn�t be considered normal (not as extreme as a Mohawk or anything). Would this be acceptable as an English teacher in Korea? I can slick my hair back and it looks like a normal style, but in the way I normally style it looks completely different. I understand that English teachers in Korea are expected to be somewhat professional, but I have seen some vloggers that teach English in Korea who have had unusual hair coloring hair and such. Any info would be great!

*Another random question
I am a vegan (I don�t eat meat/dairy/eggs/honey), and I also don�t drink alcohol. I am fine with not being able to eat out, but how often are there situations where I would have required work outings at food places where this will cause an awkward situation?
Thanks in advance for the replies I appreciate it!
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Squire



Joined: 26 Sep 2010
Location: Jeollanam-do

PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 1:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Hippies' appearance and lifestyle flies in the face of everything to do with Korea and it's people, so expect to be an object of curiosity
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soomin



Joined: 18 Jun 2009
Location: Daegu

PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 3:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

One of my friends had a mohawk and she was fine~ but the students did bug her about it and ask questions, so get ready for that. Also, if your school states "professional attire only" or something, you might want to ask them if your hair style is okay...

I was a vegan for over a year here and you will pretty much never be able to eat out, which is why I gave it up. I was constantly constricted to my house or eating side dishes and having to try to explain veganism/ vegetarianism while having meat pushed on me. There are some vegan restaurants (the chain Loving Hut is in bigger cities) but it will limit you. If you are asked to go out with colleagues (this is usually non-existant (cheap boss) or a common event, depending on your workplace), then just tell them you can't eat certain things and maybe just stick to side dishes... Also, kimchi is rarely vegan (it is usually seasoned with shrimp brine, oysters, or fish sauce). There is at least one thread on here about being vegan in Korea, so I would look that up for more info ^.^
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Skippy



Joined: 18 Jan 2003
Location: Daejeon

PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 4:11 am    Post subject: Re: Can you have unusual hair as a teacher? Reply with quote

EmmaHewitt wrote:
I am a male, and I have longish hair, styled in a fashion that wouldn�t be considered normal (not as extreme as a Mohawk or anything). Would this be acceptable as an English teacher in Korea? I can slick my hair back and it looks like a normal style, but in the way I normally style it looks completely different. I understand that English teachers in Korea are expected to be somewhat professional, but I have seen some vloggers that teach English in Korea who have had unusual hair coloring hair and such. Any info would be great!

*Another random question
I am a vegan (I don�t eat meat/dairy/eggs/honey), and I also don�t drink alcohol. I am fine with not being able to eat out, but how often are there situations where I would have required work outings at food places where this will cause an awkward situation?
Thanks in advance for the replies I appreciate it!


Hair outside the norm can be done but expect hassles with questions, getting hired, and treatment. In Korea looks matter.

As to your vegetarian lifestyle, well if you work for a public school then expect lots of problems. If hagwon - some questions and minor problems. The public school because teachers are expected to eat lunch with the staff and students. Not partaking of the wonderful Korean food will irritate some teachers, have opinions formed about you like you are a snob, and ad nasuem .

Read some of the previous threads about the vegan lifestyle in Korea.
use the line below to search the forums at google...
forums.eslcafe.com/Korea "vegan"
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valkerie



Joined: 02 Mar 2007
Location: Busan

PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 6:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

There are a couple of groups on Facebook that are all about veggie/vegan lifestyles.

Most schools are fine with you taking a packed lunch and eating it in the canteen.
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young_clinton



Joined: 09 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 6:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

As long as you don't look like too much like a criminal, I suspect you could get a job in Korea with an unusual hairstyle. I even suspect that some schools will prefer someone that is good looking and sports unusual hair and clothing, but only some. I think the smaller cities will be more reasonable about this. So......don't change anything you will find something.
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jasonXkeller



Joined: 17 Jan 2012
Location: Redlands, CA

PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 12:55 pm    Post subject: Re: Can you have unusual hair as a teacher? Reply with quote

EmmaHewitt wrote:
I am a male, and I have longish hair, styled in a fashion that wouldn�t be considered normal (not as extreme as a Mohawk or anything). Would this be acceptable as an English teacher in Korea? I can slick my hair back and it looks like a normal style, but in the way I normally style it looks completely different. I understand that English teachers in Korea are expected to be somewhat professional, but I have seen some vloggers that teach English in Korea who have had unusual hair coloring hair and such. Any info would be great!

*Another random question
I am a vegan (I don�t eat meat/dairy/eggs/honey), and I also don�t drink alcohol. I am fine with not being able to eat out, but how often are there situations where I would have required work outings at food places where this will cause an awkward situation?
Thanks in advance for the replies I appreciate it!


I'm vegan and I have long hair(albeit the normal sort, tied back in a ponytail or knot). You must take my advice with a grain of sea salt, because I am not in Korea yet. It has been my experience, though, that listening to non-vegans about how to eat vegan in Korea is just short of useless. They have no idea what it's like to be vegan anywhere, let alone in Korea(with the exception, of course, of @Soomin, who was vegan). I follow a dude on IG who is vegan and living in Daegu. He does just fine. I suppose it just depends on how strong your convictions are about it. I would never change my diet as a matter of convenience. Where there is a will, there is a way. My hairs another matter. I'm growing my hair to donate, but it interfered with obtaining a professional position, I'd cut it off tomorrow. A pic of your hair would be helpful.

I guess I should also ask, what type of diet you normally maintain. If you rely heavily on veggie"meats," it may be harder than if you are accustomed to eating whole foods. Also, they have LOTS of tofu. They just have no idea how to cook it and will put fish sauce on it if you're not mindful. Where are you looking to teach? Perhaps we should take this to PM.
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young_clinton



Joined: 09 Sep 2009

PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 4:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Not hiring someone because of a pony tail is unprofessional. There are recruiters that will hire you regardless. Stick to those recruiters and schools.
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Dodge7



Joined: 21 Oct 2011

PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 4:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is why this "profession" is a joke, because you get rejects coming over here with hair that would unacceptable in the West going for jobs and think it would be acceptable over here to a place that is more conservative than their own country back home. Cut your hair, present yourself as a professional or stay home. If not, come here and be made fun of by your staff behind you back and by the kids, probably to your face, and not taken seriously and possible be one of the future reasons you were fired or not re-contracted.
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EmmaHewitt



Joined: 14 Apr 2011
Location: US

PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 6:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank you everyone, i really appreciate the info/advice. As far as what my hair looks like, it looks exactly like this: http://cdn.buzznet.com/assets/users16/nisuh/default/davey-havok-2006--large-msg-130507777688.jpg
here is more of a side angle:
http://i2.listal.com/image/1934410/600full-davey-havok.jpg
When i slick it back it looks pretty normal, but i would like to be able to wear my hair how i normally wear it (but its not a deal breaker).

@Dodge7 Part of the reason i ask these questions is because i haven't been in grade school for a while, and am not entirely sure what is accepted in such a setting(though i do remember having a teacher with long hair). Also at university most of my professors wear normal t-shirts, and don't appear to have many restrictions as far as hair goes. As far as being made fun of by staff or kids, it doesn't bother me. My only concern is with actually getting the job.Honestly someone�s skin would have to be rather thin to cut their hair in fear of being made fun of.
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ewlandon



Joined: 30 Jan 2011
Location: teacher

PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 9:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

G DRAGON G DRAGON G DRAGON.

You're skin wouldnt have to be thin to cut your hair because youre an adult and trying to get a job.

I cant comment on the vegan thing because I cant even respect that decision.

As for the hair it's going to drive you nuts when the kids call you G dragon all day.
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ewlandon



Joined: 30 Jan 2011
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PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 9:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

double post
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cheezsteakwit



Joined: 12 Oct 2011
Location: There & back again.

PostPosted: Thu May 31, 2012 9:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

OP ,

I've got long hair and I make sure to wear it in a pony tail when in class. I teach at a public high school and I've had no problems thus far ... maybe people are talking behind my back , but whatever.

I haven't had a haircut in approx. 2-3 years and I don't intend to get it cut until Winter time , when my pony tail is closer to being 12 inches long. I'm donating my hair to Wigs for Kids , a charity that makes wigs for kids with cancer.

As for me being "professional", I'm a certified teacher back home & I work hard for my kids over here. You do a good job in the classroom and your hair shouldn't matter ... just keep it looking presentable while in school.

Outside of the classroom , I look like a character from the Lord of the Rings or Game of Thrones or a member of Metallica. Inside the classroom is a different story.

Best of luck to you.
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Joe Boxer



Joined: 25 Dec 2007
Location: Bundang, South Korea

PostPosted: Fri Jun 01, 2012 1:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think that people should think about the teachers they had when growing up, and then present themselves in a similar fashion.

And I don't mean the weirdo teachers you had, or the P.E. teacher!
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EmmaHewitt



Joined: 14 Apr 2011
Location: US

PostPosted: Fri Jun 01, 2012 9:14 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

cheezsteakwit wrote:


Outside of the classroom , I look like a character from the Lord of the Rings or Game of Thrones or a member of Metallica. Inside the classroom is a different story.

Best of luck to you.

This is awesome ^_^

@ewlandon the point was that you would be thin skinned if you cut your hair in fear of being made fun of. Changing your image to get a job is a different topic. Also, you cant respect the decision to be a vegan? You don't even know why i'm a vegan, so why would you immediately not respect the decision?
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