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hogwonguy1979

Joined: 22 Dec 2003 Location: the racoon den
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 9:17 pm Post subject: typical behavior for a korean company |
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Got a question for those of you who work for a Korean Company or whose SO works for one. Hogwongal got very sick while traveling for her Korean company and while at a Sales Conference in China about 10 days ago had to be hospitalized, they stabilized her and got her back to Korea.
Well over the weekend she had to be hospitalized again, this time as inpatient for the past few days, she got home last night. Well she called and emailed her office saying she was in the hospital and would be there a few days and wouldnt be in this week. So far she has heard nothing from her company other than "hope you get better" email, no phone calls, no visits, nothing.
I've been told if somebody in a office is hospitalized the staff visits, offers to help the family, and at least stays in touch,
So is this normal for a company to ignore an employee in the hospital or is her staff being a-holes since she is foreign?
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Rutherford
Joined: 31 Jul 2007
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Posted: Mon Aug 06, 2012 9:26 pm Post subject: |
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Much better than being guilt tripped and pressured to come back to work before you're well. |
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Jonephant
Joined: 05 Jul 2010 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 1:18 am Post subject: |
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My wife works at a small brokerage firm. A couple of months ago one of my wife's colleagues was hit and killed by a car. No one in the office was allowed time off to go to the funeral even though she had been an employee for almost 2 years. Not even the boss went. Talk about cold blooded. |
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slothrop
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 1:34 am Post subject: |
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lemak
Joined: 02 Jan 2011
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 2:00 am Post subject: Re: typical behavior for a korean company |
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hogwonguy1979 wrote: |
So is this normal for a company to ignore an employee in the hospital or is her staff being assholes since she is foreign |
Big whoop. Enjoy it. Had they shown up continuously you'd be complaining about the endless Korean being spoken, dudes stinking like smoke and old cabbage, coffee reeking pee on the toilet seat, kids farting on the IV and people insisting on her consuming vile, stinky local "delicacies" for "health-uh", whilst extolling the virtues of various oriental quackery...must write the numbers on your feet and slap dried fish against the wall 6 times. Not seven!
Like another poster said she should count her lucky stars to even get a few days off work.
Enjoy the peace and quiet and if they are just being assholes, well they're actually inadvertently being kind ones. |
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fosterman
Joined: 16 Nov 2011
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 5:47 pm Post subject: |
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Jonephant wrote: |
My wife works at a small brokerage firm. A couple of months ago one of my wife's colleagues was hit and killed by a car. No one in the office was allowed time off to go to the funeral even though she had been an employee for almost 2 years. Not even the boss went. Talk about cold blooded. |
the workers should of all just ganged together and not turned up to work, gone to the funeral and then come to work. whats the boss gonna do.. fire everyone? yeah right..
but yeah, that is very unique case, most companies I know someone would attend the funeral, and leave a donation. the boss of that company sounds like a real loser! |
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fosterman
Joined: 16 Nov 2011
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 5:48 pm Post subject: Re: typical behavior for a korean company |
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lemak wrote: |
hogwonguy1979 wrote: |
So is this normal for a company to ignore an employee in the hospital or is her staff being assholes since she is foreign |
Big whoop. Enjoy it. Had they shown up continuously you'd be complaining about the endless Korean being spoken, dudes stinking like smoke and old cabbage, coffee reeking pee on the toilet seat, kids farting on the IV and people insisting on her consuming vile, stinky local "delicacies" for "health-uh", whilst extolling the virtues of various oriental quackery...must write the numbers on your feet and slap dried fish against the wall 6 times. Not seven!
Like another poster said she should count her lucky stars to even get a few days off work.
Enjoy the peace and quiet and if they are just being assholes, well they're actually inadvertently being kind ones. |
hahahaahahah |
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laynamarya
Joined: 01 Jan 2010 Location: Gwangjin-gu
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Posted: Tue Aug 07, 2012 9:31 pm Post subject: |
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When my husband got pneumonia, he had to be hospitalized for a week. No one from his company visited or called, unless they had a question about one of his clients.
But he didn't mind at all. In fact, he compared hospitalization to free vacation time. Apparently being in lots of pain and forced bedrest are way more fun than fourteen hour days and condescending bosses. |
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Hugo85
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 2:42 am Post subject: |
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Well they are picking up her part of the work without guilt-tripping her or complaining about it. Unless she is in critical situation, I would say that's fairly decent? |
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Steelrails

Joined: 12 Mar 2009 Location: Earth, Solar System
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 3:48 am Post subject: |
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I remember back home when I got sick all the bros would show up with chicken soup, balloons, and teddy bears for me.
Seriously, for a couple day hospital stay, not many people are going to come. Most won't find out about it until the day before...
"Dude, Eric's in the hospital."
"Is he alright? What's wrong? How bad?"
"Oh nothing big, he'll be out in a couple days."
Do you A) Drop everything, and cancel work or B)Plan to get him drunk as soon as he is strong enough?
Now if it was something major like gunshot wound or serious car accident or something that puts you on life support, then yeah that would be strange. And not giving a phone call or a facebook shoutout would be a little cold, but seriously, what are you expecting everyone to come over and play Patch Adams? |
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djmarcus

Joined: 12 Jan 2006 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Wed Aug 08, 2012 5:37 am Post subject: |
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I work at a Korean company with everyone being Korea except for myself (us citizen). The Korean mentality is quite different than that of western thinking. I myself am Korean by blood so I try to see things in both perspective.
From the 4 years that I've worked in a Korean company, I can tell you that people do care, but do not go out of their way to show that they care, unless they are your close personal friend. At work, you are just another worker, doing your 9-5 shift. They respect you to that degree, nothing more nothing less. If someone is sick, they may wish them to get better, but this is the extent. Citizenship has no bearing on the matter. It is just how things are done in a collective minded country. |
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