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nautilus



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 8:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you really want to succeed at a bad 6th grade class, it is possible but I doubt you get paid enough for the amount of effort required.
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zombiedog



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 8:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I understand, working in a hagwon myself, that in Korea you automatically start with 2.5 strikes against you. Koreans typically practice 0 pedagogy, and they are loath to understand even the most basic concept of the Western teaching styles they've hired us to teach. Books that are the wrong level, mixed level students, etc. only worsen the situation.

However, that said, it sounds like you could better prep for your class in order to save yourself a lot grief. For instance, don't spend time correcting essays while the kids run wild. They know you're down correcting and they will do whatever havoc they want. 15 minutes is wasted time. It's insane, unfruitful, wasting the kids' time, their parents money, the good will with your employers, and your own sanity. And who knows what those kids out in the halls are doing, probably not writing essays.

Here's one thing you could try if it's a 60 minute class.

First 15 minutes - review from the last assignment, have a couple students read their essays aloud, critique their work as a class. Collect their homework and correct it before or after class. Hand back at next class.

Second 15 minutes - preteach a writing skill having to do with essays: intro, body paragraphs, conclusion, attention getter (aka the "hook").

Third 15 minutes - have students practice that skill in class. Do it as a worksheet that you can collect or they put in their journals/notebooks for the next class.

Last 15 minutes - provide input (topic) for their next essay that they will write at home. Maybe this is a reading, or a short video, or an in-class debate, but you provide the input so that they know what to go home and write about.

I have dysfunctional classes, too. And I'm always my own worst critic when it comes to things I can do better or that I missed. That's all you can hope for. But at the very least I'm prepared and when my boss comes to me complaining, as happens from time to time. I have everything I need to shower her/him about what I'm having the kids do.
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nero



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 7:01 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

@three equals seven

You need to supplement your class. You need to create your own worksheet which simplifies the book's main points and work through it together, rewarding students who finish quickly and accurately.
Of course they speak in Korean - is there a punishment if they don't?

I added time to a clock I had drawn on the w.b every time a student spoke Korean, and the whole class had to stay the extra time. Get them to manage themselves.

OR - the students who have done well can leave on time the others have to stay...OR moving the bad boy next to you facing the wall etc etc.

You need to add some fun learning activities to get them motivated and speaking.

The class may be bad, but a lot of classes are. Students will keep misbehaving if you are not managing them correctly.

It sounds like you need to do some reading on classroom management and lesson planning.
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tanklor1



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 7:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Threequalseven wrote:
I know this topic has been buried for a while, but I have the exact same problem as the OP. However, the main difference is that I teach at a hagwon, so it's just me in the classroom. Also, my classroom is very small, so moving the kids around doesn't really work. (I've tried.)

My problem is that from Monday though Thursday, I have a "special class" which is made up of 5th and 6th grade students including the director's kid and the secretary's kid. It's "special" because these kids are supposed to be the best and brightest (but really it's just because their parents decided to shell out the extra dough). I'm supposed to teach from a discussion book that's way too complicated for them. In addition, they need to write an essay for me every day. This is in addition to their lab and their main class. So by the time they come to me, they've already been in academy for almost 2 hours.

My typical class starts with me finding out who finished their essays, and sending the rest of the kids out to the hallway to finish. Then, I have to correct all the essays as quickly as possible. This process usually takes the first 15 minutes out of the class. The students are usually just talking during this time. Once I finish, I'm supposed to make students read passages, answer questions, and have debates out of the book. Yet, the entire time, the whole class talks in Korean. There are two boys and four girls, and the two boys don't care at all. One of the boys left the class for a month but then came back, and the class was quite a bit better when he was gone. So I know he enables the other students. Anyway, if I have one person read a paragraph, the other students will talk through the whole thing. The same thing happens when I ask questions from the book. Just today, I asked one student (the enabler), "What's the answer to number four?" multiple times, and he just ignored me and continued talking to the girl across from him. Aside from totally freaking out, there's almost nothing I can do to reign in these kids. And I can understand why. There's no punishment for them if they don't pay attention, no worksheets or anything in the class (just discussion), and they really don't even need to do their essays. So they basically treat it as chill-out talk time. Yet I'm supposed to teach them from this book, but unlike the OP, there's no consequences if I don't. I could literally let them talk the whole time and nothing would happen to me, but I don't do that because then I'd be essentially "giving in" to the students.

I teach 25 different sets of students every week, and there are only three classes that are as bad as this one. However, I only have the other two once a week, so it's more manageable than this one. Oh! And one more thing. I had my co-teacher who teaches this class on Friday came in during one of my classes, and of course, they were perfect angels. So I'm convinced that they just don't have any respect for me. I've tried almost everything in the book, but nothing seems to work. Rewards don't work because they don't care, writing in the book doesn't work because their parents don't check, rearranging the class doesn't work because it's too small. The only thing I haven't tried is the air conditioner trick. The only problem there is they all wear their jackets to class anyway, so I don't know if they would get very cold.

What do other people do in this situation? I really don't think it's me. I think it's because I'm the foreigner, and I can't talk to the bad students' parents like my co-teacher can, so there's no reason for them to behave.


I remember being interviewed for a school once. The interviewer asked me how would I deal with disrupting kids.

I gave her one answer and one answer only. "A good lesson plan."

She asked me again "But what if they are really bad?"

I told her once more. "A good lesson plan. That's the only answer."

First thing I would do is collect their essays and hold onto them the next day so I can correct them in my down time. That way I wouldn't be wasting time in class correcting them. I wouldn't send the kids out to finish their homework because as one of my bosses told me once:"The parents pay for them to be in the class."

I'd then go straight into my lesson plan. The thing about teaching is that if you know where the class is going and you tell them exactly where the class itself will end up the kids will be more likely to follow you.

Then you deal with the problem makers on a personal level.

Students can smell a teacher who is new, uninterested, unprepared a mile away and they do prey upon them.

It sounds like you lost this class. It happens to all of us. My best advice is learn from it and change who you deal with new classes in the future.
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Who's Your Daddy?



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 8:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

nautilus wrote:
If you really want to succeed at a bad 6th grade class, it is possible but I doubt you get paid enough for the amount of effort required.


Exactly.

Some of these classes don't deserve to have a foreign teacher.

Two years ago I quit a part-time hogwon job for this reason - the pay was the going rate, but the kids were delinquents.
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Threequalseven



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PostPosted: Mon Dec 10, 2012 9:30 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I appreciate the feedback. I might change the lesson up a bit, per your recommendations, but there are a lot of limitations that I have that it seems other teachers don't have.

1st, the students write their essays in notebooks. So if I keep their notebooks after class, they have nothing to write their homework in for the next day. So that doesn't work. I've tried having students bring two notebooks, but only half the class followed through - the other half just didn't do the work.
2nd, I can't keep students late (as nero suggested). They have other academies to go to, and some students have to catch the bus to get home.
3rd, my class is 40 minutes not 60. This greatly limits the amount of depth I can get into, especially if I have to correct essays in class.
4th, I have a 15 minute dinner break before this class, so the students get to run wild for 15 minutes anyway while I'm not even in the class. This makes it very hard to settle them down after they've been talking and playing on their phones for so long.
5th, I'm already given designated topics to have students write about from the book. And I don't have any multimedia devices to play with. My entire hagwon is very regimented and very bare bones, so there's little freedom to assign more homework or deviate from the book in any way (aside from making more worksheets I suppose).

I do like the idea of making them read their essays in class. I'll try that today. However, I know the other students will still try talking over them. So maybe I'll employ the air conditioner as punishment if they do so. I also like the idea of making them write something in class. I'll try a few of these things today and see how it goes.
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Threequalseven



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PostPosted: Tue Dec 11, 2012 3:32 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wow! Today was a night-and-day difference with this class. Very Happy And I only did two things differently. First, I made a worksheet of the questions in the book. That way, instead of just calling on the students to say the answers, every student had to find the answers on their own and write them out. Second, I gave them an incentive. I said if they don't talk or use their phones in class, I will give them 12 minutes of free time at the end (which happens to be just enough time for me to finish correcting their essays). However, if even one person talked out of turn or used their phones, I would deduct time from everybody. And it worked wonders! No talking, no disruptions! I actually had even more material planned than I could get to (which is a good problem to have). Basically the class went like this:

0:00 - Tell the students who didn't finish their essays to finish them out in the hall.
0:01 - Write "No talking + No phone = 12 minutes free time" on the board and a column with "infractions" as the header.
0:04 - Collect all the students' essays as they return.
0:05 - Explain the new no talking/phone rule, have them open their books, and pass out worksheets
0:08 - Tell the students to start their worksheets, and say they can work in pairs if they want.
0:18 - Review the worksheets with the class
0:28 - Finish reviewing worksheets, give the class free time as promised, and start correcting essays.
0:38 - Assign essay homework for tomorrow
0:40 - Dismiss class

In the future, when I have classes that don't involve questions, I will make them read their essays instead and also prepare a worksheet just in case. Also, I acknowledge that my class would be better if I didn't have to correct essays in-class, but this is the only class where I'm required to do that.

Lastly, I tried the air conditioner trick with another class earlier today. This class started out fine earlier this year, but lately they've been playing the "it's fun to belittle the foreign teacher in Korean" game with me and the other foreign teacher. Some students in this class would even repeat what I said in a dumb person voice just to get a rise out of the other students. Unfortunately, the AC trick didn't really work. It wasn't cold enough, and my windows don't open. However, the stand-silently-and-wait trick worked well enough. Regardless, I honestly don't think that EVERY class can be remedied by having a good enough lesson plan... at least not for a hagwon, where there are few if any consequences. If a class openly disrespects you and will not participate in anything you present to them, even a movie, then there's really only so much you can do. I can only wonder what else is going on in those students' lives that makes it permissible to behave this way.
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nautilus



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PostPosted: Tue Dec 11, 2012 7:00 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Threequalseven wrote:
Wow! Today was a night-and-day difference with this class. Very Happy And I only did two things differently.


Thats cool but you will have to keep making effort and planning to keep on top of the game. The same thing rarely works twice with 6th grade. Many hogwon workers aren't even given the time to make proper lesson plans, let alone be motivated enough to make them.

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Regardless, I honestly don't think that EVERY class can be remedied by having a good enough lesson plan... at least not for a hagwon, where there are few if any consequences. If a class openly disrespects you and will not participate in anything you present to them, even a movie, then there's really only so much you can do. I can only wonder what else is going on in those students' lives that makes it permissible to behave this way.


Ultimately nothing works because essentially you're trying to hammer a nail with a piece of jelly. ie you haven't been provided with the tools for the job.

Hakwon bosses will pretend that its all your fault to keep some sort of psychological advantage.
if they were honest though they will concede that teaching 6th formers is akin to trying to tame a lion with a feather.

With ultimately no real power or authority -something teenagers are designed to detect and test for- the best you can hope for is to keep the noise below deafening levels.
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12ax7



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PostPosted: Wed Dec 12, 2012 12:09 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

soyoungmikey wrote:
Discipline problems are often due to ineffective classroom instruction: lack of interesting activities, English that is not authentic, instructions which are not simple and clear, not having enough varied activities, etc. I think it's time to hit the methodology books and think about what you can do as a teacher to get them to learn. It's always easy to point the finger at your students but it's difficult to say am I doing what I should be doing.

Hope this helps you to reflect on your teaching practice.



You'll be singing a different song when you get kids of your own.
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PRagic



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PostPosted: Thu Dec 13, 2012 8:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Show them the door. If they disrupt the class, tell them to leave. No warnings, no second chances. This counts as an absense, with X number of absenses equating to an F in the class. Once they're gone for the day, they're gone. Period. Make sure that mom, the co-teacher, and the principal/V.P. know the deal.
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nautilus



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PostPosted: Fri Dec 14, 2012 9:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

PRagic wrote:
Show them the door. If they disrupt the class, tell them to leave. No warnings, no second chances. This counts as an absense, with X number of absenses equating to an F in the class. Once they're gone for the day, they're gone. Period. Make sure that mom, the co-teacher, and the principal/V.P. know the deal.



I guess that might be possible at a public school.

Although when I worked at one they were hogwonizing rapidly and were not allowed to kick out disruptive students. The teachers were forced to "ignore" bad students.
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NQ



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PostPosted: Sat Dec 15, 2012 1:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

nautilus wrote:
PRagic wrote:
Show them the door. If they disrupt the class, tell them to leave. No warnings, no second chances. This counts as an absense, with X number of absenses equating to an F in the class. Once they're gone for the day, they're gone. Period. Make sure that mom, the co-teacher, and the principal/V.P. know the deal.



I guess that might be possible at a public school.

Although when I worked at one they were hogwonizing rapidly and were not allowed to kick out disruptive students. The teachers were forced to "ignore" bad students.


It's not possible actually at a school in Gyeonggi-do province at least. The ministry of education doesn't want teachers kicking out bad students, and the principal at my school is particular about this rule. There's so many times where I wanted to kick out the bad students and I also knew that doing so, would keep the rest of the class in check. However I can't, so the most I can do is to make the bad guys stand up in the back of the class which can also backfire as sometimes they try getting attention from other students.

I dunno, one time I did lose my cool and wanted to kick out these two idiots in my class. Despite the rule, I held the door open for them and told them to get out. they didn't move, and kept silent afterwards but my coteacher bitched at me for even attempting something like that.
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erasmus



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 16, 2012 3:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

One bad kid...the whole class pays. None of these kids want to be hated. They may not care what you think but they definitely care what their classmates think.
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nautilus



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PostPosted: Sun Dec 16, 2012 6:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

erasmus wrote:
None of these kids want to be hated.



Absolutely.

Unfortunately though their parents haven't taken the time to teach them socially acceptable behaviour.

Very often the parents haven't shown them much love or care. hence the desperate need for attention.

These kids are too young to make the connection between their own actions and the way others recieve them.

Sadly teachers are being forced to take on more and more of a parental role nowadays, something they don't usually have time for.
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PostPosted: Sun Dec 16, 2012 7:45 am    Post subject: Re: Disrespectful 6th Graders Reply with quote

orbit720 wrote:
So, I've been teaching a class of 6th graders for about 4 months now and I have basically lost control of the class. My other 6th grade classes are fine. They at least listen to me when I talk but not this really bad one. They are constantly speaking in Korean, disrupting the class, and basically pretending that I don't matter.



You don't know the full concept of class disruption untill you have taught the students lacking any readyness in Thailand.
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