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chungbukdo
Joined: 22 Aug 2010
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 Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2013 7:06 pm Post subject: How do you impress a Korean Dad? |
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Sorry, I'm not saying all Korean dads are the same. Just getting this out of the way to avoid arguments. But I mean the kInd of Korean Dad who is against their daughter getting married to non-Koreans, especially non-Asians. What kInd of stuff can I do to look better in his eyes?
I am already studying Korean and also want to be in this country long term. Of ccourse I love and care for his daughter. |
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edwardcatflap
Joined: 22 Mar 2009
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| Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2013 7:14 pm Post subject: |
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But I mean the kInd of Korean Dad who is against their daughter getting married to non-Koreans, especially non-Asians. What kInd of stuff can I do to look better in his eyes?
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Why would you want to curry favour with a daft racist? Unless you need his permission for the marriage to go ahead. Behave like you would to the father of any girl you wanted to marry. |
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IPayInCash
Joined: 27 Jul 2013
Location: Away from all my board stalkers :)
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| Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2013 7:20 pm Post subject: |
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There is NOTHING you can do to change his views. Youll always be a foreigner to him, and everyone else in Korea for that matter.
So instead of acting like a beta do whatever you want and dont show any signs of weakness, that way he has no choice but to accept you.
Luckily for me my smoking hot girlfriends dad was blown away when he met me. My confidence, my success, my presence, it tends to have a way with people. We have met on multiple occassions and he thinks very highly of me, which is no surprise after meeting someone like me. |
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Seoulman69
Joined: 14 Dec 2009
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| Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2013 7:23 pm Post subject: |
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Be civil and polite to him but don't be a sniveling arselicker. Koreans are usually pathetically sycophantic when meeting each others parents. That sets them up for a lifetime of being treated like a pleb. Look him in the eyes, show that you love his daughter and will be able to take care of her (will you?), and treat her well.
If he still doesn't like you then that's his problem. Not yours. |
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Lucas
Joined: 11 Sep 2012
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| Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2013 7:50 pm Post subject: |
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Be civil and polite to him but don't be a sniveling arselicker. Koreans are usually pathetically sycophantic when meeting each others parents. That sets them up for a lifetime of being treated like a pleb. Look him in the eyes, show that you love his daughter and will be able to take care of her (will you?), and treat her well.
If he still doesn't like you then that's his problem. Not yours. |
Just take him to a 찜질방, laugh at his and point!
You're the 'daddy' then  |
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chrisinkorea2011
Joined: 16 Jan 2011
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| Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2013 8:12 pm Post subject: |
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There is NOTHING you can do to change his views. Youll always be a foreigner to him, and everyone else in Korea for that matter.
So instead of acting like a beta do whatever you want and dont show any signs of weakness, that way he has no choice but to accept you.
Luckily for me my smoking hot girlfriends dad was blown away when he met me. My confidence, my success, my presence, it tends to have a way with people. We have met on multiple occassions and he thinks very highly of me, which is no surprise after meeting someone like me. |
wow get the shovel out because the $h!t is getting deep. You know on this board as well as the waygook board that you apparently recently joined, you come off as a douchebag pretentious snob. Also im pretty sure youre full of shit on anything you say. Im sure many others agree with me 
OP just be yourself and be polite, pay no attention to this bag full of hot air. People's opinions change everyday and all you can do is simply do your best and show that you love his daughter. If he is still hardheaded and against you/foreigners, dont let it stop you. |
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edwardcatflap
Joined: 22 Mar 2009
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| Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2013 8:16 pm Post subject: |
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wow get the shovel out because the $h!t is getting deep. You know on this board as well as the waygook board that you apparently recently joined, you come off as a douchebag pretentious snob. Also im pretty sure youre full of shit on anything you say. Im sure many others agree with me
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He doesn't post on the waygook board any more because he didn't get a reaction from anyone on it and he got bored. If people would only do the same here he would piss off a lot quicker. |
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IPayInCash
Joined: 27 Jul 2013
Location: Away from all my board stalkers :)
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| Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2013 8:46 pm Post subject: |
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| chrisinkorea2011 wrote: |
| IPayInCash wrote: |
There is NOTHING you can do to change his views. Youll always be a foreigner to him, and everyone else in Korea for that matter.
So instead of acting like a beta do whatever you want and dont show any signs of weakness, that way he has no choice but to accept you.
Luckily for me my smoking hot girlfriends dad was blown away when he met me. My confidence, my success, my presence, it tends to have a way with people. We have met on multiple occassions and he thinks very highly of me, which is no surprise after meeting someone like me. |
wow get the shovel out because the $h!t is getting deep. You know on this board as well as the waygook board that you apparently recently joined, you come off as a douchebag pretentious snob. Also im pretty sure youre full of shit on anything you say. Im sure many others agree with me
OP just be yourself and be polite, pay no attention to this bag full of hot air. People's opinions change everyday and all you can do is simply do your best and show that you love his daughter. If he is still hardheaded and against you/foreigners, dont let it stop you. |
A combination of stalking, attacking, and dodging the swear filter as a violation of the rules.
I forgot all about Waygook, I was recommended to that site from a friend.. Wow... I have stalkers on multiple websites now |
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cabeza
Joined: 29 Sep 2012
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| Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2013 8:55 pm Post subject: |
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| chrisinkorea2011 wrote: |
wow get the shovel out because the $h!t is getting deep. You know on this board as well as the waygook board that you apparently recently joined, you come off as a douchebag pretentious snob. Also im pretty sure youre full of shit on anything you say. Im sure many others agree with me . |
He's a troll. Troll. Troll. Troll. Why does everyone keep replying to him and acting indignant at his BS.
He's doing it to wind you up. Of course he's full of it. He's in an invented persona on an internet forum whose sole purpose is to take the piss and annoy people. He's kind of funny.
You really think some alpha with the job he says he has is going to be hanging out at daves?? |
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IPayInCash
Joined: 27 Jul 2013
Location: Away from all my board stalkers :)
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| Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2013 12:33 am Post subject: |
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| cabeza wrote: |
| chrisinkorea2011 wrote: |
wow get the shovel out because the $h!t is getting deep. You know on this board as well as the waygook board that you apparently recently joined, you come off as a douchebag pretentious snob. Also im pretty sure youre full of shit on anything you say. Im sure many others agree with me . |
He's a troll. Troll. Troll. Troll. Why does everyone keep replying to him and acting indignant at his BS.
He's doing it to wind you up. Of course he's full of it. He's in an invented persona on an internet forum whose sole purpose is to take the piss and annoy people. He's kind of funny.
You really think some alpha with the job he says he has is going to be hanging out at daves?? |
So you cant understand why anyone responds to me when YOU follow and respond to me in the university thread, where I simply wrote I was happy to see my alma mater near the top of the list and you attacked me. Dont expect people to follow your advice when you arent even capable of doing so, genius. |
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hellofaniceguy
Joined: 10 Jan 2003
Location: On your computer screen!
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| Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2013 12:43 am Post subject: |
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| Be a Man! You don't have to impress no one! Just your wife! |
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cabeza
Joined: 29 Sep 2012
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| Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2013 12:54 am Post subject: |
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| IPayInCash wrote: |
| cabeza wrote: |
| chrisinkorea2011 wrote: |
wow get the shovel out because the $h!t is getting deep. You know on this board as well as the waygook board that you apparently recently joined, you come off as a douchebag pretentious snob. Also im pretty sure youre full of shit on anything you say. Im sure many others agree with me . |
He's a troll. Troll. Troll. Troll. Why does everyone keep replying to him and acting indignant at his BS.
He's doing it to wind you up. Of course he's full of it. He's in an invented persona on an internet forum whose sole purpose is to take the piss and annoy people. He's kind of funny.
You really think some alpha with the job he says he has is going to be hanging out at daves?? |
So you cant understand why anyone responds to me when YOU follow and respond to me in the university thread, where I simply wrote I was happy to see my alma mater near the top of the list and you attacked me. Dont expect people to follow your advice when you arent even capable of doing so, genius. |
Because my reply there was extremely serious, wasn't it? Or.....maybe it was! I've hit a nerve. Don't worry, Florida is a fine state (do you love oranges? I do!) and online education is becoming more and more accepted. Sorry if I offended you. |
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IPayInCash
Joined: 27 Jul 2013
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| Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2013 1:08 am Post subject: |
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| And again you respond. Thanks for proving my point. |
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BigBuds
Joined: 15 Sep 2005
Location: Changwon
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| Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2013 2:07 am Post subject: |
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| IPayInCash wrote: |
Luckily for me my smoking hot girlfriends dad was blown away when he met me. My confidence, my success, my presence, it tends to have a way with people. We have met on multiple occassions and he thinks very highly of me, which is no surprise after meeting someone like me. |
That must have been a nice wet dream you had.
Your reality must be really pitiful to make up such obvious BS. It wouldn't surprise me in the least if you were still a virgin. |
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transmogrifier
Joined: 02 Jan 2012
Location: Seoul, South Korea
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| Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2013 3:20 am Post subject: |
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wow get the shovel out because the $h!t is getting deep. You know on this board as well as the waygook board that you apparently recently joined, you come off as a douchebag pretentious snob. Also im pretty sure youre full of shit on anything you say. Im sure many others agree with me
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He doesn't post on the waygook board any more because he didn't get a reaction from anyone on it and he got bored. If people would only do the same here he would piss off a lot quicker. |
Exactly this. |
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