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Scorpion
Joined: 15 Apr 2012
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 4:55 pm Post subject: |
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Stan Rogers wrote: |
I agree that money is not a factor. Many apartments are poorly constructed/soundproofed and some neighbors are intolerant complainers. I've had some neighbors that I would classify as nothing more than bullies.
The neighbors I have now are wonderful. They know I have kids and they see the noise they make as part of children growing up. |
It's the responsibility of parents to teach their children about noise limits. Saying "they are kids" is no defence. Children play, but if you live in an apartment, especially with thin walls, it is 100% the parents responsibility to ensure the neighbors aren't being annoyed by your kid's noise. Your right to make noise, or your children to make noise, stops where my right to a certain amount of peace and quiet in home starts.
The "oh, I have kids" defence is a non-starter as far as I'm concerned. |
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le-paul

Joined: 07 Apr 2009 Location: dans la chambre
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 5:02 pm Post subject: |
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Scorpion wrote: |
Stan Rogers wrote: |
I agree that money is not a factor. Many apartments are poorly constructed/soundproofed and some neighbors are intolerant complainers. I've had some neighbors that I would classify as nothing more than bullies.
The neighbors I have now are wonderful. They know I have kids and they see the noise they make as part of children growing up. |
It's the responsibility of parents to teach their children about noise limits. Saying "they are kids" is no defence. Children play, but if you live in an apartment, especially with thin walls, it is 100% the parents responsibility to ensure the neighbors aren't being annoyed by your kid's noise. Your right to make noise, or your children to make noise, stops where my right to a certain amount of peace and quiet in home starts.
The "oh, I have kids" defence is a non-starter as far as I'm concerned. |
Its funny you should say that.
I'm reading a book at the minute about why French kids are so well behaved and quiet (written by an american who resides in France).
Its helped me put things into perspective a lot but it does seem its simply - parenting skills (but thats another thread...). |
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Captain Corea

Joined: 28 Feb 2005 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 5:05 pm Post subject: |
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Scorpion wrote: |
Stan Rogers wrote: |
I agree that money is not a factor. Many apartments are poorly constructed/soundproofed and some neighbors are intolerant complainers. I've had some neighbors that I would classify as nothing more than bullies.
The neighbors I have now are wonderful. They know I have kids and they see the noise they make as part of children growing up. |
It's the responsibility of parents to teach their children about noise limits. Saying "they are kids" is no defence. Children play, but if you live in an apartment, especially with thin walls, it is 100% the parents responsibility to ensure the neighbors aren't being annoyed by your kid's noise. Your right to make noise, or your children to make noise, stops where my right to a certain amount of peace and quiet in home starts.
The "oh, I have kids" defence is a non-starter as far as I'm concerned. |
I feel the same way.
I have a 6 yr old and I teach her how to walk, and what sort of play is appropriate indoors - especially in apartments.
I'm all for kids letting loose - but that should be outside. Inside requires "inside talking". |
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EZE
Joined: 05 May 2012
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 5:25 pm Post subject: |
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I think a lot of it in Korea has to do with population density. More people means more noisy people, even if the percentage of noisy people is the same.
Based on my experiences living in numerous apartments throughout the southeastern USA and Seoul metropolitan area, I think Americans tend to produce a lot more noise with televisions, radios, and other electronics. This is true with whites and it's doubly true with blacks. I just don't hear as many TVs and radios here. The bongo trucks are the one exception. One morning, one woke me up with the "old school" woman singing in vibrato. I couldn't go back to sleep, so I Skyped home. Mom commented that I was up early, and I told her about the truck, laughing about how it was similar to the rednecks cruising the high school (mom taught high school for decades) playing Skynard full blast, as if everyone else wanted to hear it.
Even though we turn our TVs and radios up a lot louder than Koreans, the area where they excel in noise is talking. Most do talk extremely loudly. Over the years, Koreans have asked me, "Why do you talk just loudly enough that the person you're talking with can hear you?" Korea is the only country where I have been asked that. They speak so loudly. And again, maybe that harkens back to population density. I grew up in a small town, so I didn't have to speak loudly. I wasn't drowned out by other people. The talking didn't have to escalate in volume with everyone having to talk over everyone else, since so few people were around.
So we're louder in some ways and they're louder in others.
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Smithington
Joined: 14 Dec 2011
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 5:27 pm Post subject: |
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My English classroom is divided from the grade one classroom by a thin wall. The volume of the teacher's voice is really excessive. She's not speaking to the kids, she's yell-talking at them. And they yell-talk back. That noise is acceptable is ingrained in them from infancy. And if they want the teacher's attention they yell. If the teacher is busy with another student the volume is raised until the teacher gets around to addressing them. The teacher doesn't tell them that yelling, and demand yelling, is wrong. In fact she encourages them to yell answers to questions as loudly as possible. At my other school I share a class with a female co-teacher. She made a phone call the other day and I just had to get up and leave the room until she was finished. Is it really necessary to yell into a phone? Their conversation partner isn't holding their phone to their knee or their foot; they're holding it to their friggin' ear. Yelling is absolutely not required to be heard.
Sometimes when I want some real quietness I go and sit in the library. But guess what, that's where the office secretary goes to have her yell-talking phone conversations. The friggin' library - with me sitting there trying to read. Again, I get up and leave the room until the conversation is finished (it's that loud). Does she get the hint? Of course not.
Koreans be loud, and they be inconsiderate. |
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EZE
Joined: 05 May 2012
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 5:46 pm Post subject: |
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And yes, I know it's the pot calling the kettle black for an American to say Koreans talk loudly. We're probably the second loudest talkers behind South Korea, probably brought on by hearing loss of turning TVs and radios up too loud. |
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fustiancorduroy
Joined: 12 Jan 2007
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 6:19 pm Post subject: |
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Smithington wrote: |
My English classroom is divided from the grade one classroom by a thin wall. The volume of the teacher's voice is really excessive. She's not speaking to the kids, she's yell-talking at them. And they yell-talk back. That noise is acceptable is ingrained in them from infancy. And if they want the teacher's attention they yell. If the teacher is busy with another student the volume is raised until the teacher gets around to addressing them. The teacher doesn't tell them that yelling, and demand yelling, is wrong. In fact she encourages them to yell answers to questions as loudly as possible. At my other school I share a class with a female co-teacher. She made a phone call the other day and I just had to get up and leave the room until she was finished. Is it really necessary to yell into a phone? Their conversation partner isn't holding their phone to their knee or their foot; they're holding it to their friggin' ear. Yelling is absolutely not required to be heard.
Sometimes when I want some real quietness I go and sit in the library. But guess what, that's where the office secretary goes to have her yell-talking phone conversations. The friggin' library - with me sitting there trying to read. Again, I get up and leave the room until the conversation is finished (it's that loud). Does she get the hint? Of course not.
Koreans be loud, and they be inconsiderate. |
Just ask the teachers to be quieter. Just say 조용히 주세요. Or ask them in English. Unless they are total jerks, they should at least try to keep it down.
When I teach, I (usually) don't yell at my kids, and they very rarely yell at me. I have established rules for raising hands and sitting quietly until I address you. Most of the kids follow this. On the rare occasion when a kid does try to yell to get my attention, I remind them of the rule. They almost always comply. But then again, I work in a hagwon in Gangnam, where the students are taught by their parents to be more polite and obedient than the children in other parts of the country. |
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le-paul

Joined: 07 Apr 2009 Location: dans la chambre
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 6:28 pm Post subject: |
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When I see some people talking on the phone (irrespective of country), I swear they think the person is too far away to hear them talking, so they have to shout into it  |
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jazzmaster
Joined: 30 Sep 2013
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 6:50 pm Post subject: |
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I agree that it's due to the inconsiderate nature of many Koreans. Pushing on subways, spitting phlegm on the ground, shouting in the middle of the night, rude driving, speaking as loudly as they can, the list goes on.
It's all down to an attitude of "I'll do whatever the hell I like". The more educated and traveled Koreans tend to be more empathetic.
I'm pretty lucky, I have a Korean who leaves his officetel at 5pm on one side, and a foreigner on the other. I've told the foreigner if I'm ever being too loud to let me know. I try to be silent from midnight to 7:30am. I understand that the walls are thin and during the day people make noise, but at night I try to respect peoples need to get a good nights sleep. I appreciate it when others show that respect too. |
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fustiancorduroy
Joined: 12 Jan 2007
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 6:52 pm Post subject: |
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A lot of the noise issues stem from the fact that Korean apartments are built out of concrete. Concrete is actually quite good at blocking noises transitted through the air. A concrete wall that is 8 inches thick has an STC rating of around 55. This means it reduces noises traveling from one side to the other by 55 decibles. This is quite substantial, seeing as how a typical spoken conversation is between 50 to 70 decibles. With the flooring and the ceiling, the soundproof rating of concrete goes up further.
The problem with concrete is that it is very poor at blocking impact noises. Because concrete is so dense, the energy from most impacts gets transfered from one side to the other with little loss in the kinetic energy. This means that if your upstairs neighbor drops something on the floor or your next door neighbor hammers something into the wall, you'll hear it pretty much perfectly.
This video goes over some of the problems of noise with concrete construction and what can (and cannot) be done about it:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OEs3jlNOzwY
Nevertheless, there are some factors to keep in mind when looking for a quieter apartment in Korea.
Concrete
The concrete in the building should be at least 20 centimeters thick. The thicker, the better of course. The easiest way to determine the thickness is to look how thick the concrete is between floors in the stairwell.
Flooring
Avoid places where the flooring is just vinyl placed on top of the concrete directly. That's not going to block out noise much at all. Instead, look for places with wood panel flooring that interlocks together. They create a floor surface above the concrete so that less noise from footfalls, dragged chairs, etc, will make it into the concrete.
Ceilings
A lot of cheaper, older apartments have a thin interior ceiling made from particleboard. That's not going to reduce noise much. Make sure that the ceiling is at least made from drywall, which has a stronger, deeper sound if you knock on it. It will help reduce noise further. Ideally, the ceiling should not have a hollow sound when you knock on it. This means that there is sound insulation above it.
Walls
Newer apartments have drywall over the concrete. This will help reduce noises by at least a few decibles from both next door and above (remember, noises from loud footsteps also come through the walls since the energy is transferred down throughout the entire concrete shell). In some cases, the drywall has a dense styrofoam board attached to the back for further soundproofing. Having concrete walls covered with drywall with styrofoam on the back should reduce noises by at least 7 to 10 decibles. (Keep in mind that a decrease of 10 decibles reduces apparent noise by HALF).
If you want to get a truly soundproof apartment, I think you have to spend about $2 million on the purchase price or around $5,000 a month rent. Those really highend apartments DO have soundproofing, and lots of it, along with strong flooring materials with subfloors beneath them and thick walls with insulation behind them. It's just a shame that getting a nice, perfectly quiet apartment -- even one with neighbors above, below, and next to you located near a busy area -- costs so much money.
Of course, the problem of sounds of footsteps, heavy objects falling, and yelling is not unique to Korea. Behold, a little bit of "advice" for living above this guy from Craigslist:
http://www.craigslist.org/about/best/aaa/116389566.html |
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atwood
Joined: 26 Dec 2009
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 7:11 pm Post subject: |
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EZE wrote: |
I think a lot of it in Korea has to do with population density. More people means more noisy people, even if the percentage of noisy people is the same.
Based on my experiences living in numerous apartments throughout the southeastern USA and Seoul metropolitan area, I think Americans tend to produce a lot more noise with televisions, radios, and other electronics. This is true with whites and it's doubly true with blacks. I just don't hear as many TVs and radios here. The bongo trucks are the one exception. One morning, one woke me up with the "old school" woman singing in vibrato. I couldn't go back to sleep, so I Skyped home. Mom commented that I was up early, and I told her about the truck, laughing about how it was similar to the rednecks cruising the high school (mom taught high school for decades) playing Skynard full blast, as if everyone else wanted to hear it.
Even though we turn our TVs and radios up a lot louder than Koreans, the area where they excel in noise is talking. Most do talk extremely loudly. Over the years, Koreans have asked me, "Why do you talk just loudly enough that the person you're talking with can hear you?" Korea is the only country where I have been asked that. They speak so loudly. And again, maybe that harkens back to population density. I grew up in a small town, so I didn't have to speak loudly. I wasn't drowned out by other people. The talking didn't have to escalate in volume with everyone having to talk over everyone else, since so few people were around.
So we're louder in some ways and they're louder in others. |
Now you're a redneck for playing Lynyrd Skynyrd loud in your car?
Ronnie Van Zant, if he were still with us, would kick your scrawny Yankee ass for saying that.
Free Bird!!! |
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Smithington
Joined: 14 Dec 2011
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 8:12 pm Post subject: |
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[quote="jazzmaster"]I try to be silent from midnight to 7:30am. I understand that the walls are thin and during the day people make noise, but at night I try to respect peoples need to get a good nights sleep. /quote]
That's not nearly good enough. You're making noise up until midnight? Really? Not everyone is a night owl, and people who go to bed at 9pm shouldn't have to listen to your noise for three hours. I assume that my neighbors go to bed early, whether they do or not I cannot know, but I opt to err on the side of caution and decency. I hate being kept awake, or awakened from a sound sleep by loud neighbors. I assume that they dislike it too.
Neighbors should be seen, not heard. |
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jazzmaster
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 8:26 pm Post subject: |
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That's not nearly good enough. You're making noise up until midnight? Really? Not everyone is a night owl, and people who go to bed at 9pm shouldn't have to listen to your noise for three hours. I assume that my neighbors go to bed early, whether they do or not I cannot know, but I opt to err on the side of caution and decency. I hate being kept awake, or awakened from a sound sleep by loud neighbors. I assume that they dislike it too.
Neighbors should be seen, not heard. |
If my neighbours feel that it's "not nearly good enough" they can come and speak to me. I did write in my previous post that I told my neighbour "if I'm ever being too loud to let me know". So far we have had no problems and no complaints. |
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le-paul

Joined: 07 Apr 2009 Location: dans la chambre
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 8:28 pm Post subject: |
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jazzmaster wrote: |
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That's not nearly good enough. You're making noise up until midnight? Really? Not everyone is a night owl, and people who go to bed at 9pm shouldn't have to listen to your noise for three hours. I assume that my neighbors go to bed early, whether they do or not I cannot know, but I opt to err on the side of caution and decency. I hate being kept awake, or awakened from a sound sleep by loud neighbors. I assume that they dislike it too.
Neighbors should be seen, not heard. |
If my neighbours feel that it's "not nearly good enough" they can come and speak to me. I did write in my previous post that I told my neighbour "if I'm ever being too loud to let me know". So far we have had no problems and no complaints. |
I think thats called 'picking your battles' (ie your neigbours being tactful).
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Smithington
Joined: 14 Dec 2011
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 8:47 pm Post subject: |
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jazzmaster wrote: |
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That's not nearly good enough. You're making noise up until midnight? Really? Not everyone is a night owl, and people who go to bed at 9pm shouldn't have to listen to your noise for three hours. I assume that my neighbors go to bed early, whether they do or not I cannot know, but I opt to err on the side of caution and decency. I hate being kept awake, or awakened from a sound sleep by loud neighbors. I assume that they dislike it too.
Neighbors should be seen, not heard. |
If my neighbours feel that it's "not nearly good enough" they can come and speak to me. I did write in my previous post that I told my neighbour "if I'm ever being too loud to let me know". So far we have had no problems and no complaints. |
You shouldn't have to be told not to make noise at 10:30 or 11:55. You're an adult, you should have learned common decency many years ago. Your neighbors shouldn't have to come and knock on your door. Some people instinctively avoid confrontation, but that doesn't mean they're not bothered by your noise.
What on earth are you doing at 11:45 that could be considered noise? Loud music? Blaring television? Partying? Please enlighten me here.
Five to midnight is much, much too late to be making noise of any sort, and of any discription. I can't believe this has to be said. |
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