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Lucas
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 3:51 pm Post subject: |
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Not if you have money, but it's hard to save in the UK when you're being charged 500 + pounds per month (close to 1 million won) for rent
Nearly everyone I know in Seoul is paying about that much (apart from the ones sharing) plus 15 million key money down. |
That figure wasn't including London - London you'd be closer to 1000 pounds +per month, for a '1 room'
I for one would hate to live in London, or Seoul.
Then you include the UK's cost of public transportation, utilities ect and Korea is miles ahead of the UK in savings potential, unless you spend all of your time in Seoul drinking 12,000 JD and cokes and eating western food all the time.
Plus less rain, proximity to loads of cool countries, nice kids, nice food (not joking), increasing supply of good beer. Bliss  |
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happiness
Joined: 04 Sep 2010
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 5:13 pm Post subject: |
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As a South Korean/USA dual citizen I stay because it suits me. Are things perfect here? No, but they sure as hell are not perfect anywhere in the world. The perception of foreigners being alcoholic, druggies, womanizers, thugs, etc. has all been played out i) |
It was funny, like ths. The other day I was talking with a cool K-chick who is into artsy stuff and she said she dug Japanese clothes, but when she looks at the magazines they seem to have only two stlyes: Businessman or Nalaree (delinquent). Another win for zero sum education and Conufcian sense of rightness while the world is creating and expanding.
I think its changing, but theres still too little of looking out and not lookin inward. Good luck though.
AFA London, I stayed there doing professional music for a month. As an American, I have to say I liked the food, but I instantly noticed the Nationalism Ive heard Morrissey sing of, it was as shocking as Koreas when I first landed and figured it out. It is expensive, and since my job was a bit fun, it was more tolerable. That said, I had to rebt a room from an ex-rock star (over there, that was a book in itself that week) and it was too pricey and it was just a bed and a crappy toliet in the middle of the stock duplexes on every street.
I lost my romanticism about the UK, but I had fun. The pub culture is rather stoic, but the goods were delicious. Still, Id listen to Morrissey now with a bit deeper understanding. |
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cmxc
Joined: 19 May 2008
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 9:29 pm Post subject: If the stereotype is true, what does it say about Korea? |
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"English teachers here are alcoholic womanizing losers who are unemployable at home?"
Let's bite the bullet. Let's say that the Korean stereotype of English teachers is spot on 100% accurate.
WTF does it say about Korea that it imports every year thousands of such individuals to teach children language skills?
WTF does it say about Korean women that they would be attracted to such low status individuals?
WTF does it say about the Korean labor market that such unemployables are able to find ample opportunities for work here?
I can't for the life of me understand how Koreans think they are insulting foreign English teachers with such stereotypes. Koreans are only insulting themselves if such stereotypes are true.
Don't they realize this? |
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World Traveler
Joined: 29 May 2009
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 9:37 pm Post subject: |
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English is the most important and useful language in history. Koreans need to learn it. (If all they can get is a mix of losers, well they will have to make due with that.) Do Korean women go gaga for English teachers? Not really. Most would not want to date one (or even talk to one). But English is valuable worldwide (whereas Korean is not). Some might talk to an English teacher to get free English practice in. Some are interested in Western culture. Some might be interested in the dashing good looks of the guy, etc. But those would be in the minority. Most Korean women (especially the hot ones) won't give Western English teachers the time of day.
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Until recently, being an English teacher (especially an uni esl teacher) had some pedigree. Now whether it was merited or not is another question. My opinion is that it wasn't. Many Korean women, much like their japanese counterparts now know it is dead end and doesn't attract the most motivated/brightest individuals. Now i'm sure old timers will chirp on about "qualifications" and that it can be "lucrative" but at the end of the day, it's still perceived as "meh" ( which wasn't the case in 2001) and it is certainly NOT a good field to be in N. America (barely middle class and thats after 6 years of uni and additional qualifications). Maybe in 1993 but not now.
My argument is that being an esl teacher before, you were held in high regard. Now you're considered a loser. Quite the drop in just over a decade don't you think? |
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edwardcatflap
Joined: 22 Mar 2009
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 9:51 pm Post subject: |
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Most Korean women (especially the hot ones) won't give Western English teachers the time of day. |
most Korean women would have very little reason or opportunity to be in social situations with English teachers. Or do not have the language skills to interact with them. Aside from that I assume your guesstimate is largely based on your own personal experiences. |
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World Traveler
Joined: 29 May 2009
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 9:56 pm Post subject: |
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Yes. And from what was written on the international forums of this site and elsewhere online. And from people I've talked to and what I've observed.
Interest in Westerners varies according to country. Japanese girls: interested in Westerners. Same with Taiwanese, Chinese, and pretty much every South East Asian country. It is not true to the same extent in Korea. |
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edwardcatflap
Joined: 22 Mar 2009
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 10:03 pm Post subject: |
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More than half the Westerners I work with have either Korean girlfriends or wives. Some might be considered to be 'hot', others less so, though in general I'd say it was a higher proportion than with the Western Wags. Can't compare it to other Asian countries but compared to some countries in Europe I've worked in , Korean women are very interested in NETs. |
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World Traveler
Joined: 29 May 2009
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 10:08 pm Post subject: |
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Some might be considered to be 'hot', others less so, though in general I'd say it was a higher proportion than with the Western Wags. |
Their girlfriends and wives are generally more attractive then they are? I guess I would (partly) explain that by women being (universally) attracted to money. You work for the cream of the crop EFL job(s) in Korea, meaning the wealthiest EFL teachers work there. That gives them some leverage and pull. |
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edwardcatflap
Joined: 22 Mar 2009
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 10:33 pm Post subject: |
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Their girlfriends and wives are generally more attractive then they are? I guess I would (partly) explain that by women being (universally) attracted to money. You work for the cream of the crop EFL job(s) in Korea, meaning the wealthiest EFL teachers work there. That gives them some leverage and pull. |
Ok if you're determined to believe, like many other posters on here, that women are only interested in one thing, maybe you should head over to Thailand where any farang can punch above his weight. I reckon most of the Korean wives/girlfriends are with the guys I work with as they happened to meet each other in the same social circle. I don't think many of them were blinded by the amount of wealth on display.
I said the Korean Wags were generally more attractive than the Western Wags by the way, didn't comment on the guys' attractiveness. |
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Weigookin74
Joined: 26 Oct 2009
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 10:57 pm Post subject: |
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I came for the money and got addicted to the slackness and free time that rural EPIK use to be. Most of the people themselves were xenophobic arrogant A holes with C blocking galore. Some cool cats, you'd occasionally meet in Seoul. But, the semi-permanent vacation working here use to be made life pretty tolerable in spite of that.
Then the recession flipped it all around and caused the won to go down and average wages to fall flat and even decrease for many. Since then, working, even in many rural areas, has come to resemble a full time job. Still not as bad as one back home, I guess. But more strict than before. I do actually like meeting the kids most of the time, as they'll say random things in broken English that crack me up and I blurt out my own quick witted respenses of sorts. So, it's fun.
Somewhere during the last 2 or 3 years, the locals became pretty nice too. Most Koreans can't seem to be friendly enough to me. Don't know if it's jsut me but lots of the xenophobia and arrogance has disappeared. So, it makes Korea more liveable on a personal level nowadays.
That said, for me, I stuck with one province (though I transferred from within it). Wages and the payscale for the levels kept getting put up until about 1010, when EPIK realized it didn't need to be desperate for foriegners anymore. I kept climbing the payscale, though it did take me some time to recover from the fallen exchange rate and the higher transportation costs I faced moving to a bigger city.
Personally, due to the above, the hit I took at the end of 2008 and early 2009, took me until about the end of 2011 to recover due to EPIK raises. This brought me back to where I was before the exchange rate nosedived and moving to a bigger city gave me some mroe increased living costs. Then, I got my final raise a year later and then over the next year the exchange rate went up again (2013). So, for 3 years, I got a bit of a kick in the teeth, then got back to where I was and then started going up again.
If the exchange rate keeps rising, then I'll make more money from that. But once my loans are paid off if ever and I have to keep the money in Korea, then it will feel like a non raise. It's a raise for me as long as I can increase the amount of money that lands in my Canadian bank each month. This I've done partly due to raises, increased belt tightening, and a slowly recovering exchange rate.
So, for me, Korea has continued to work out. But, if I left my job or it disappeared, I'd be pissed if I had to go to a 2.0 million hakwon. That'd be the ultimate insult. I think a Canadian should give them the finger and go work in Northern Alberta for a eyar or two and just suck it up. AN American could do the same by working in Montana or where ever the oil fields are there. The work sucks and too many guys and not enough women. But, getting enough money to start a life ought to get you thinking long term.
In my case, I've mostly gone up (except my student loans and CC debt has taken longer than I would have thought to get rid of). If I weren't going up, I wouldn't have stayed. I also haven't account some overtime on offer sometimes. Not much but adds to the bottom line along with being a Level 1+. Also, I don't live the cheap backpacker lifestyle, but one of modern semi western convenience. (I even drive.) Might be why it took me a while to get the CC debt down, but I have turned the corner and maybe in another year the total debts will be manageable enough.
Don't know why so many waygooks would stay for years upon years getting lowballed with salaries. I sure wouldn't have. I have nothing more than a good old Business Undergrad degree, but lots of experience and a darn good local rep as a teacher. I'm prob in the low 3.0's range each month which isn't a huge bragging effort by any means as there are guys working their tails off making 4 or 5 million or more. But, 2.0? WTF??!!
Please, please, please...do yourself a big favor, if you marry a local, make sure she works too. (A good job all the better.) You will be miserable working day and night making your 5 million hustling for it to feed your wife and kids if they do nothing or not much. Korea is expensive for families. You meet a girl that pulls the "I'm a pretty girl" routine on you, run like hell in the opposite direction or you will be financially drained forever more. (Most of the time.)
Another, late afternoon, deskwarming rant from yours truly.
Anyhow, that's my 2 cents worth. |
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Weigookin74
Joined: 26 Oct 2009
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 11:05 pm Post subject: |
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World Traveler wrote: |
edwardcatflap wrote: |
Some might be considered to be 'hot', others less so, though in general I'd say it was a higher proportion than with the Western Wags. |
Their girlfriends and wives are generally more attractive then they are? I guess I would (partly) explain that by women being (universally) attracted to money. You work for the cream of the crop EFL job(s) in Korea, meaning the wealthiest EFL teachers work there. That gives them some leverage and pull. |
In the west, so long as you don't work at Burger King, and if you're half decent looking, a lot of hot women won't be too picky about your job or money if you turn them on. Many of the younger generation here are starting to go in that direction. For all the talk you hear of pay equity back home, it seems many women make more money than men and have good jobs. It stands to reason to me, if they are making the money and taking all the good jobs, then they'll have to date men with less money than them. |
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Weigookin74
Joined: 26 Oct 2009
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Posted: Mon Apr 14, 2014 11:06 pm Post subject: |
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Most Korean women (especially the hot ones) won't give Western English teachers the time of day. |
most Korean women would have very little reason or opportunity to be in social situations with English teachers. Or do not have the language skills to interact with them. Aside from that I assume your guesstimate is largely based on your own personal experiences. |
Me thinks in 2014, many women except for grannies and the most ruralist of areas, have good comprehension of English. |
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