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Lifeguards in Korea-Student Almost Drowned

 
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emetib



Joined: 27 Dec 2009
Location: Somewhere between sanity and insanity.

PostPosted: Thu Aug 27, 2015 4:26 am    Post subject: Lifeguards in Korea-Student Almost Drowned Reply with quote

We took all of our rugrats to an aquapark for their fieldtrip today. Of course it was crowded with other children. I was already uncomfortable bringing so many small children, who didn't know how to swim, to a place where people were most likely not going to watch them well. I'm monitoring a group of our 4-5 year olds when the lifeguard's whistle blows and I see him carrying a lifeless body from one of the other pools. Another teacher was with my group, so I dashed off to assist (sorry, not much faith in medical support training here). Instead of working on the child, the lifeguard was asking around for whose child she was. The girl was unconscious, cyanotic, not breathing, and I couldn't get much of a pulse. I start working on her (begin CPR measures etc.), and the lifeguard just keeps shaking her asking her in Korean if she was ok, trying to shake her awake. Obviously that wasn't going to happen. Finally, he snaps into it and starts counting...without doing anything. I'm just doing compressions etc. and she finally regains consciousness. Then they want to sit her up immediately. I have to shove them off to roll her to her side to help her expel any excess water. When the girl opened her eyes, I realized she was one of my school's students. I later found out one of the teachers let a group of four of them in a pool unsupervised for a few minutes. When the school called the aquatic center they said the girl didn't need CPR. Then when the mother called and spoke with the lifeguard, he said he performed CPR by himself.
Seriously, I love this country, but how on earth are they training these people? Are they just having them memorize test answers and then sending them out?
The student's mother is mad at our school, and I can't blame her. I'd be furious. I'm pretty upset, too. I never wanted to have to do that for one of my students. Today was completely unnecessary, and happened due to negligence.
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Fallacy



Joined: 29 Jun 2015
Location: ex-ROK

PostPosted: Thu Aug 27, 2015 4:38 am    Post subject: Re: Lifeguards in Korea-Student Almost Drowned Reply with quote

Impressive. Horrifying situation, but you saved a life, and that is heroic. Well done.
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Smithington



Joined: 14 Dec 2011

PostPosted: Thu Aug 27, 2015 3:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Wow! What a story. Thank goodness you were there. You might well have saved that child's life.

Let's hope you get your contract renewed.
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denverdeath



Joined: 21 May 2005
Location: Boo-sahn

PostPosted: Fri Aug 28, 2015 12:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Smithington wrote:
Wow! What a story. Thank goodness you were there. You might well have saved that child's life.

Let's hope you get your contract renewed.


S/he will not be renewed because a mother complained. Even though same said mother still has a living daughter.
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mandoo



Joined: 25 Mar 2008

PostPosted: Fri Aug 28, 2015 12:13 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Thank God you were there. That is awful that lifeguard didn't know what he/she was doing. I'm sorry you didn't get credit- you certainly deserve it. It doesn't surprise me that the center claimed she didn't need cpr- they didn't want to take any responsibility and possibly could've been sued. That lifeguard should lose his/her job and is probably trying to save it by lying. Good on you. I reallly hope someone does something nice for you at your school- you deserve it, but if they choose to ignore it and pretend it never happened, that wouldn't surprise me. I've learned to lower my expectations.
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radcon



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PostPosted: Fri Aug 28, 2015 2:36 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You are lucky that they didn't some how blame you for this child almost drowning.
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emetib



Joined: 27 Dec 2009
Location: Somewhere between sanity and insanity.

PostPosted: Fri Aug 28, 2015 7:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Apparently at the water park I was either a-invisible b-not associated with my school or c- camouflaged by having mastered blending into the homogenous society. I don't know how they could've missed the only foreigner in the place doing chest compressions on a child...

We're trying to just move on from all of this, with the child being up and walking it's all "ok" now. The mentality now is "forget" about it. My kids who watched her almost drown were still a little shaken up about it all today. I had to explain everything to them and talk about what happened. I knew no one else would...

No, I wasn't blamed for it. It obviously wasn't my fault, and they know the reason things resolved in a positive manner were because I acted. I'm lucky to finally be working with close friends/family (or I wouldn't be at this type of school).
However, were I at another type of school, I'd be applying a ton of cynicism as I've experienced many levels of hogwan/employer hell during my stay in Korea...
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Fallacy



Joined: 29 Jun 2015
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PostPosted: Fri Aug 28, 2015 3:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

emetib wrote:
I had to explain everything to them and talk about what happened. I knew no one else would...
Further impressive. The heroism continues. I really admire what you did, and support what you are doing as follow up in the aftermath. Sharing communication, particularly with children, is critical. We need more like you in the world.
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Captain Corea



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Aug 28, 2015 9:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good on ya, OP. Ya did right, by all accounts.

It's a shame that others didn't - especially those that SHOULD have.
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hellofaniceguy



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PostPosted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 3:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Good job!
That..and I use the term loosely...that lifeguard should have "manned up"
and told the truth that he/she did nothing!
What a coward! Worthless.
And the others who were around should be speaking up also!
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Smithington



Joined: 14 Dec 2011

PostPosted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 10:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sadly, nothing will be learned from this. Not better supervision of students, training for life guards, teaching children how to swim, taking accountability for minors in your care, assigning blame where it is actually due, or the development of a basic safety culture. Unfortunately, whatever the OP talked to his students about will soon be lost because the message is not reinforced by Korean society at large. His message is fighting an uphill battle against a wave of indifference to what he is saying. Even his school has adopted a "forget about it" approach to the near death of a student.
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radcon



Joined: 23 May 2011

PostPosted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 10:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You are truly a hero OP. Whoever thought it would be a good idea to take a bunch of kids that young to a water park is a complete idiot. I shudder to think what would have happened to you if your CPR efforts failed and the kid died.
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