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Kids are...
Great
65%
 65%  [ 41 ]
best put in seperate colonies until 18
9%
 9%  [ 6 ]
Ok
25%
 25%  [ 16 ]
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crazylemongirl



Joined: 23 Mar 2003
Location: almost there...

PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 7:30 pm    Post subject: Do you like kids? Reply with quote

Ok before beaver jumps in... this is mostly geared at people who are teaching them. Do you like kids. Leaving aside crazy co-workers and bosses I suspect that a lot of the source of EFLers hatred for their job comes from the fact that they don't actually like kids...
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the_beaver



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 7:35 pm    Post subject: Re: Do you like kids? Reply with quote

crazylemongirl wrote:
Ok before beaver jumps in...


Good preemptive strike.
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peppermint



Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.

PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 7:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Do I like kids- around 95% of the time yes.

Do I want my own- prolly not.
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Saxiif



Joined: 15 May 2003
Location: Seongnam

PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 8:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Aside from a few monkey-boys they're great from the time when they learn to stop hiding under the table until the time when the horomones kick in.
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 8:17 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

They are the best, for me. Saxiif hit the age range exactly, about 8 - 12.

There's real joy in the classroom, in fact, every emotion is apparent and fleeting with the students. Adults put on airs and worry about saving face, theirs and others. Kids are openly cruel and kind, mostly kind, and easily able to follow directions eagerly and happily if the activity is fun or competitive or both.

Teaching children solidifies my lifelong need to have kids of my own someday as well as is preparing me to be a better parent someday.

Like peppermint, there is that 5% of the time... but that's usually when I'm unprepared, sick or hungover.
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Dalton



Joined: 26 Mar 2003

PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 8:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The kids are great I have lots of fun with them. I am so glad I came here because before that I had no real experience with them. I was looking for a career change at the time and I lucked out. I can't imagine teaching here and not liking kids with all the all other potential problems. Many people find themselves in jobs they don't like.
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prosodic



Joined: 21 Jun 2004
Location: ����

PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 8:28 pm    Post subject: Re: Do you like kids? Reply with quote

the_beaver wrote:
crazylemongirl wrote:
Ok before beaver jumps in...


Good preemptive strike.


Pretty good preemptive strike. Should have included me. I think there should have been another answer option. I wanted to answer, "Kids are great in small doses."
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paul



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Taiwan

PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 11:19 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sure I like kids. They say the darndest things! Since I went back to teaching kids six months ago, I rediscovered some playfulness and humor in me that I thought was gone forever.

On the other hand, I sometimes have to discipline students and that is probably the only thing I don't like about teaching kids. Sometimes it's my best students who are in need of a goof, swift ****!

But they are resilient, thank heavens! I don't know if I could ever set foot back in the class if they had a memory like adults.
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Blind Willie



Joined: 05 May 2004

PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 11:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I like 'em just fine.

Never have one of my own, though. I'm worn out after eight hours with them. I cant imagine it being 24/7.
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sparkx



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: thekimchipot.com

PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 11:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

prosodic wrote:
"Kids are great in small doses."


Even better - kids are great in small pieces...at the bottom of a dumpster.


Whittney Houston was full of shit <-----poop
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just because



Joined: 01 Aug 2003
Location: Changwon - 4964

PostPosted: Fri Jul 30, 2004 1:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mostly besides a few terrors that nobody would like.

They can be very fun
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Homer
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PostPosted: Fri Jul 30, 2004 2:18 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Love em.
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ryleeys



Joined: 22 Dec 2003
Location: Columbia, MD

PostPosted: Fri Jul 30, 2004 2:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I want kids some day... but I certainly can't complete another year of teaching kids that are taught to not respect me and don't speak my language.
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VanIslander



Joined: 18 Aug 2003
Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!

PostPosted: Fri Jul 30, 2004 3:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ryleeys wrote:
I certainly can't complete another year of teaching kids that are taught to not respect me and don't speak my language.

These are two outcomes within one's control.

I myself teach the kids to respect me. The hagwon has lost two or three kids because I refuse to tolerate disrespect and have insisted, "Be nice, or get out." I'm more important to the hagwon than any one student, so my director learned which side to take with my either/or attitude.

And, they speak my language in my classroom, only English.

I have few rules, but they have been strictly enforced from day one.

Studies in American universities have found that teachers who are hard as nails right from the start, and then soften up over time, are more respected and liked than are loosy-goosy teachers who get fed up and try to crack down afterwards.

BTW, it's the adult students who I have trouble encouraging to speak only English in the classroom and whom occasionally say something disrespectful or clearly exhibit a little condescension.
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tomato



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: I get so little foreign language experience, I must be in Koreatown, Los Angeles.

PostPosted: Fri Jul 30, 2004 3:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Korean kids are the only Koreans I can relate to. This afternoon, some kids came into my classroom and sang Korean children's songs while I played the guitar. A little later, some other kids teased me while I chased them.

Yesterday evening, I stopped at the playground to make another of my many fruitless attempts on the chin-up bar. A group of kids crowded around and introduced themselves to me. I said "������ �ݰ����ϴ�" in Korean sign language. I then explained that I was studying Korean sign language.

This evening, the same kids came up to me and asked me to teach them to say "My name is ����" and "I am 8 years old" in sign language. (Note that this is Korean sign language, not American sign language.)

I have welcomed several puerile visitors in my apartment. They have shared my interest in sign language and have shown interest in my musical instruments.

One of the children asked me what I do every day. I told her that I go downtown and teach. She asked, "What do you teach? Do you teach music?" This question was very significant to me. In my 4 years in this country, no Korean has ever before implied that I was good for any other job besides teaching English.

Korean adults, on the other hand, see me as nothing more than a Bokanovsky twin with all other foreigners. There is no way possible that I can discuss my interests with them. They are too adamant in their contention that I don't have any. Consequently, the conversation never gets past "Can I help you?"
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