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hadeshorn



Joined: 30 Jul 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jul 28, 2004 6:05 pm    Post subject: How to say no to jobs Reply with quote

Well im coming over to Korea in 1 weeks time. I have some interviews lined up.

However one question bugs me. How do I knock back jobs that I interview for.

For example I am going to one school that is 1.9 for 120 hours. Well I cant see myself working for that. But if the employer is willing to negoiate up to 2.2. Then I might take it. But say for example I want to see if better deals are out there. How do I politely decline this but at the same time leave the bridge unburnt in case this is the best offer I get?
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Gollum



Joined: 04 Sep 2003
Location: Japan

PostPosted: Wed Jul 28, 2004 10:02 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Haven't you been through this once before?

Just tell them you are checking into a better offer, and will let them know as soon as you decide.

If they try to push you, then just say, "I'm sorry, I will let you know. If you have to give the job to someone else because you are in a hurry, I understand."
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JAMZ



Joined: 18 May 2004
Location: Ori Station, Bundang

PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 4:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

your turning down jobs and i cant even get an interview for a decent one! Confused
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Demophobe



Joined: 17 May 2004

PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 6:13 am    Post subject: Re: How to say no to jobs Reply with quote

hadeshorn wrote:
Well im coming over to Korea in 1 weeks time. I have some interviews lined up.

However one question bugs me. How do I knock back jobs that I interview for.

For example I am going to one school that is 1.9 for 120 hours. Well I cant see myself working for that. But if the employer is willing to negoiate up to 2.2. Then I might take it. But say for example I want to see if better deals are out there. How do I politely decline this but at the same time leave the bridge unburnt in case this is the best offer I get?



This is a joke, right? On so many levels.... Laughing

Maybe you should just tell those 1.9 lamers who you are...that should up their ante. Razz
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hadeshorn



Joined: 30 Jul 2003

PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 6:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Im sorry, I didnt mean to sound egotistical. I thought it was the sentiment of the board was to always go for the best offers. I also thought it was also implied that 1.9 for 120 hours for an "experienced" teacher was sub par pay.

I was just saying, I am going for some interviews. However I want to keep my options up for the best one. Because I hear a lot of people that have knocked back jobs in exchange for holding out for that "perfect" job. But say for example you want to survey all the jobs for various factors (School quality, education programme, director is ok, apartment is ok) and then make a final decision a little later on. How do you walk out of the interview at the end and still keep that option of a job open?

Thats what im trying to say. But money is also a contributing factor. I worked 1.9 for 100 hours last year but it was a split shift deal and it really wore me out. I just dont see it being worth 1.9 mil for 120 hours. It sounds like murder.
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prosodic



Joined: 21 Jun 2004
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 6:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

hadeshorn wrote:
Im sorry, I didnt mean to sound egotistical. I thought it was the sentiment of the board was to always go for the best offers. I also thought it was also implied that 1.9 for 120 hours for an "experienced" teacher was sub par pay.


Don't worry. You don't sound egotistical. You should definitely always go for the best offer. Some of these people are just jealous that you're having an easier time lining up interviews than they are.

Personally, I reject a lot of job offers. I rejected one uni job a month ago and I was planning to reject another one until they surprised me by agreeing to everything I asked for.

Just be upfront and polite. If they won't negotiate what you want, then don't worry about keeping that option of a job open. If they won't negotiate, you wouldn't want to work there anyways, right?

I might be potentially turning down three more jobs in the near future, depends on how many of my other uni interviews turn into offers. Then again, it's always easier for a school to handle a rejection when it's because you've already accepted another offer.


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Ryst Helmut



Joined: 26 Apr 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 1:55 pm    Post subject: Re: How to say no to jobs Reply with quote

hadeshorn wrote:
Well im coming over to Korea in 1 weeks time. I have some interviews lined up.

However one question bugs me. How do I knock back jobs that I interview for.

For example I am going to one school that is 1.9 for 120 hours. Well I cant see myself working for that. But if the employer is willing to negoiate up to 2.2. Then I might take it. But say for example I want to see if better deals are out there. How do I politely decline this but at the same time leave the bridge unburnt in case this is the best offer I get?




Well, I had to turn a few schools down due to money...here's what I told them - Wow, I really like this school and you seem really nice, however, I am sorry I can not work here/there because I have to make X amount of won per month, as I have to support my (insert children, parents, spouse, but not drinking habit).

The administrators were really cool when I explained this, and one or two upped (is that a word?) the base pay. When that happened, I told them that I didn't expect them to do that, nor was I asking for more, so I already signed elsewhere (truth, I was just practicing interviewing skills each year, and never left my <then> current job).

!Shoosh

Ryst
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hellofaniceguy



Joined: 10 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 2:41 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Do you think that the school hires the first teacher that comes along? Of course not. So.... while you are waiting for the school to make a decision, they are looking at all possible candidates.
Teaching jobs in korea are a dime a dozen. And if you think that "X" school is the best choice for you...then jump on it, don't wait.
I have walked out in the middle of interviews a few times because the director was talking out of both sides of his/her mouth and gone back to the other position I interviewed for and accepted their offer.
It's all about getting the best deal for you.
1.9 for 120 hours? Never.
Never teach "X" amount of hours. Only agree to "X" amount of classes per day. Hakwons? Anything over 5 is too many a day. But...many teachers are desperated, hard up for work and and can't get a job back home and will lower their standards and accept bad contracts. In the long run..doing just that affetcs all of us.
If you put in your time, network, pay your dues and make connections...better doors will open. But, you'll have to suffer for a few years first.
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Demophobe



Joined: 17 May 2004

PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 7:57 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yeah...hadeshorn, I was just pulling your leg. The OP made it sound like you were a first-timer with no experience, and thus a touch overblown.

Anyways, of course, shop yourself around. It's prudent and necessary.

How to say "no" without burning your bridges? Well, I guess if you decline, you can expect the hogwan to work fast to find another applicant, so it seems like it has little to do with how you say no (gracefully, of course), but if you say no. You could just tell them it's a bit far from your friends/girlfriend or something, so you will need to talk to her/them to work out the travel logistics.

A hogwan that needs a teacher will probably take you even after you have declined. Just tell them that the interview/school/staff were unforgettable and you decided you MUST work there. Wink
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prosodic



Joined: 21 Jun 2004
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 29, 2004 8:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've got a related question that's a bit more difficult. Yesterday I accepted an offer from a fourth tier university because they were willing to negotiate all the terms of the contract including salary. I'm not saying they rolled over. The extra 300,000/month is in exchange for two additional office hours per week. Still, the fact that they were willing to rewrite the contract and bump up the salary makes me feel good about the place.

About an hour ago, I wrapped up a phone interview with a top tier university (okay, it's SNU). I had the interview scheduled anyways and thought it would make sense to do the interview for practice. We talked for over an hour and everything went extremely well. The interview was actually the third step in the application process. The second step was a timed proofreading/revision/writing exam (they sent it by email and I had to return it within 6 hours of when they sent it). During the course of the interview, she told me that I was the only applicant to get a perfect score on the written exam. Basically, it's down to me or one other person she has yet to interview and they're leaning towards me. She said she'll give me their final decision within two days.

If the top tier university offers me the position, what do you think I should do? If I choose to take it, how would I gracefully get out of the agreement with the fourth tier university? Nothing's been signed yet.
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hadeshorn



Joined: 30 Jul 2003

PostPosted: Fri Jul 30, 2004 6:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Demophobe wrote:


A hogwan that needs a teacher will probably take you even after you have declined. Just tell them that the interview/school/staff were unforgettable and you decided you MUST work there. Wink


Nice advice. This was the stuff I was looking for. Im not good at confrontation.
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TheUrbanMyth



Joined: 28 Jan 2003
Location: Retired

PostPosted: Fri Jul 30, 2004 8:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Couldn't you just say "Thanks for the interview, and I'll get back to you/let you know my decision in a couple of days"?
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teachingld2004



Joined: 29 Mar 2004

PostPosted: Sat Jul 31, 2004 3:16 am    Post subject: salary Reply with quote

All this talk about 1.9 0r 2.2, or what ever.
Before I get my head bashed in.............
I am making 1.9, and while that is much too low, I have a great apartment and I can walk to the sea in 1/2 hr. The people I work with are really great, and so is the owner. I work 27 hours a week, and that will never go up. O.K., the job is not perfect, but nothing is. I am happy most of the time, and the little trivial things that bother me are gone by the end of the day. This is my second year. When my contract expires in March, I will go some place else for more money, but who knows if I will be this happy. Its a trade off.
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Demophobe



Joined: 17 May 2004

PostPosted: Sat Jul 31, 2004 6:47 am    Post subject: Re: salary Reply with quote

teachingld2004 wrote:
All this talk about 1.9 0r 2.2, or what ever.
Before I get my head bashed in.............
I am making 1.9, and while that is much too low, I have a great apartment and I can walk to the sea in 1/2 hr. The people I work with are really great, and so is the owner. I work 27 hours a week, and that will never go up. O.K., the job is not perfect, but nothing is. I am happy most of the time, and the little trivial things that bother me are gone by the end of the day. This is my second year. When my contract expires in March, I will go some place else for more money, but who knows if I will be this happy. Its a trade off.


I dunno....sounds like you have a pretty good deal there. Of course, we always want more money, but in Korea, the things you describe can't be bought and are truly more treasured than a few extra bucks.

Now it's my turn to get bashed....1.9 isn't great, but it's not terrible either. The topic of pay has been done to death here and I am not re-opening the coffin, just saying that your situation seems pretty favorable, so you should really consider yourself rich. Cool
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