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The first Korean you ever met and your impression....
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dull artist



Joined: 20 Jun 2004
Location: Osan

PostPosted: Tue Aug 10, 2004 5:55 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

shortskirt_longjacket wrote:
first korean i met was my supervisor who greeted me when i got off the plane here.


Ditto. My first impression was that I wanted to hi-tail it back to the states. It was Saturday night and all I wanted was sleep, but she couldn't stop talking about what she wanted me to wear to church the next day. You could see the brain almost explode when I told her that, "When I was a boy I took a vow that I would never attend church." And our problems continue...
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Tiberious aka Sparkles



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: I'm one cool cat!

PostPosted: Tue Aug 10, 2004 6:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm surprised no one has mentioned a convenience store owner as being the first Korean they ever met. That's how it was for me, although, at the time, everyone ignorantly thought he and his wife were Chinese.

Sparkles*_*
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Harin



Joined: 03 May 2004
Location: Garden of Eden

PostPosted: Tue Aug 10, 2004 8:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

shortskirt_longjacket wrote:
first korean i met was my supervisor who greeted me when i got off the plane here.

the first thing she said was: "i've been waiting here for two hours." like i had been wandering around the airport aimlessly, causing her to wait for me. or like i had been piloting the plane and had control over whether i was late or not. she walked ahead of me in a huff, her fake louis vuitton purse swinging on her shoulder.

she took me to this tiny box of a car (our school bus driver's personal vehicle) and said, "wow, you brought a lot of stuff. i don't know if it's going to fit in here." it was like it was the most foreign concept to her that someone who was moving overseas for a year would bring two large suitcases with her. and if it didn't all fit i could just leave it at the airport or something?

oh, i could relate stories and stories about the woman! she is still, by far, one of the strangest koreans i know. bang-up first impression.


What a biatch! I am sorry to hear your episode with Korean women....,but please know that there are some cool ones too. Wink
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captain kirk



Joined: 29 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Aug 10, 2004 8:58 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was finishing up the last class for my degree, a Summer session English class (19th C Brit Lit), and met some in the Dairy Queen brazier accross the street from campus. I knew then I was going over so when I met them I asked them if they wanted 'free English lessons'. And met with them at the Dairy Queen twice a week. We hung out that way for a month or more, and I helped them rent an apt. by driving them around looking at places advertised in the paper. We even all drove down to Regina (from Saskatoon, Saskatchewan) in the dead of winter (minus 30 celsius) just to see it. I had a van. We also headed up north to my grandparents bush farm where they made a dinner party for them. They could NOT believe the national park an hour north of there, well up into northern Canada. We hiked a trail through three feet of powder snow in the forest and, standing on the ice of a big lake, the silence was like being in another world to them. I could see it on their faces.
They were college students. I thought they were formal in their manners. They knew I was older so they treated me with formal respect. They hacked around playing that slap happy little card game. I remember one night in particular. We stayed at a bush hotel up near my Grandparents place. It had a saloon bar full of woodcutters and indians. They looked at the Koreans a second time. Up in the room I had a surreal feeling. They were playing the slap happy card game while, on the radio, a station from somewhere in the states came through (a couple of thousand miles away, the signal curving mysteriously on the atmosphere, travelling far) talking about the ancient, Atlantis like, undersea ruins off Barbados.
Everyone who met them was curious about where they were from and when they said Korea the questions flew.
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manlyboy



Joined: 01 Aug 2004
Location: Darwin, Northern Territory, Australia

PostPosted: Wed Aug 11, 2004 12:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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A little off topic, but I'll tell you about the first Korean(s) I met when I came back to Korea from Canada last summer vacation. I get off the plane around 9:30/10... can't be sure exactly, and the first person who greets me is a taxi driver/pimp in the airport entrance. He asks me where I'm going and I respond Suwon. He goes on to tell me that the last bus has gone, but he'll drive me there for 100,000 won. I say, "Ah, maybe... I'll maybe get back to you." I walk out the doors and am greeted by another taxi driver/pimp and he says the same thing as the other driver... that the last bus for Suwon is already gone, but that he'll drive me there for 100,000 won. To make a long story short... I find there are still buses running, so I take a bus to Suwon for 12,000 won. Nice first impression getting back into Korea again. Such a noble people.


Imagine a world where all nations are judged by the moral fiber of their taxi drivers!

Excellent thread topic this. I'm going to casually bring it up at the pub on Friday night, and try to pass it off as my own Wink !

I feel for those of you whose first experience was with someone from a hagwon. You'd get a better impression from a greedy bar-stud taxi driver I think.
When I got off the plane, I took a bus to Jongno (just because it was in the center of town) to look for some accomodation. I had two heavy bags hanging off my shoulders and a Lonely Planet in one hand. This girl comes up and asks if I need help. She whips out her mobile phone and starts calling all the yeogwans in the area. Gets detailed information and even bargains their prices down for me! Takes one of my bags and guides me to the various places. I choose one (still stay there when I travel these days). And that evening she shows me around the Jongno area. There was no monkey-business (I'm not sure what her motives were), but it was definitely the best first impression I've ever had of a nation and it's people. (the bus driver doesn't count, right?)
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Alyallen



Joined: 29 Mar 2004
Location: The 4th Greatest Place on Earth = Jeonju!!!

PostPosted: Wed Aug 11, 2004 12:51 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tiberious aka Sparkles wrote:
I'm surprised no one has mentioned a convenience store owner as being the first Korean they ever met. That's how it was for me, although, at the time, everyone ignorantly thought he and his wife were Chinese.

Sparkles*_*


That would be the first experience but I didn't get to know them very well. My high school was very diverse so I met a lot of Koreans (Adoptees, Korean Americans, and Newly arrived Koreans). I dated a Korean guy in High School actually. I liked most of my Korean classmates but some definitely were clichy(sp?) but that wasn't unique to their ethnicity or unique to my school. Good people...
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Wed Aug 11, 2004 1:15 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

manlyboy wrote:
Excellent thread topic this. I'm going to casually bring it up at the pub on Friday night, and try to pass it off as my own Wink !

Thanks, I do try to post up interesting/entertaining threads.
When i was a journalist i was constantly having people stealing my ideas as well.
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tomato



Joined: 31 Jan 2003
Location: I get so little foreign language experience, I must be in Koreatown, Los Angeles.

PostPosted: Wed Aug 11, 2004 1:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Her name is �����. She was a student at Interlochen at the same time I was. She was a voice student and had a very beautiful voice.

One evening, the opera department gave a performance of The Medium by Gian-Carlo Menotti. She played the role of Monica, the daughter of a fake medium. In one scene, she hides behind a dimly lit curtain and repeats the words "Mother, Mother, are you there?"

A few days later, a group of students in the lunchroom teased her by singing those words over and over. She ran from the lunchroom.

Since I came to Korea, I have met one person who knows her. She is now a voice professor somewhere in Seoul. She has gotten married, but I would like see her anyway--even if she can't remember me.
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Tiberious aka Sparkles



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: I'm one cool cat!

PostPosted: Wed Aug 11, 2004 2:59 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Alyallen wrote:

My high school was very diverse so I met a lot of Koreans (Adoptees...


Sorry, this is a little bit off-topic:

Reading your post, something clicked, and I heard this movie trailer voice in my head -- you know the one; it's deep and gravelly -- that went a bit like this:

After 20 years, Brian Kim returns to the land that once shunned and scorned him -- with a vengeance!

(I know this is a weird post, but my shrink says that if I have something on my mind, I should spout it, as long as it doesn't break the Forum Guidelines)

Sparkles*_*
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jurassic5



Joined: 02 Apr 2003
Location: PA

PostPosted: Wed Aug 11, 2004 3:39 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

ryleeys wrote:
They were adoptees.
... they are also very talented athletes and just missed qualifying for the Korean Olympic team this year.


if they are korean adoptees, how and why were they trying to qualify for the korean olympic team? (they never became citizens??)


as for the poster that had their first experience with an adopted korean, just gotta say...yeah, they're are some adoptees that have identidy problems, depression etc....but then they're are some like myself, who is satisfied with who i am. Laughing Very Happy
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Alyallen



Joined: 29 Mar 2004
Location: The 4th Greatest Place on Earth = Jeonju!!!

PostPosted: Wed Aug 11, 2004 12:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tiberious aka Sparkles wrote:
Alyallen wrote:

My high school was very diverse so I met a lot of Koreans (Adoptees...


Sorry, this is a little bit off-topic:

Reading your post, something clicked, and I heard this movie trailer voice in my head -- you know the one; it's deep and gravelly -- that went a bit like this:

After 20 years, Brian Kim returns to the land that once shunned and scorned him -- with a vengeance!

(I know this is a weird post, but my shrink says that if I have something on my mind, I should spout it, as long as it doesn't break the Forum Guidelines)

Sparkles*_*


Hahaha.

After 20 years, Brian Kim returns to the land that once shunned and scorned him -- with a vengeance!


I could hear this in my head. I think I have a problem Laughing
I wonder who's voice I'm imagining. Hmmmm..... Razz
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just because



Joined: 01 Aug 2003
Location: Changwon - 4964

PostPosted: Wed Aug 11, 2004 6:07 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The first one I met was a girl who lived in my home city who was a guide for tours for Koreans as where I live is popular with Asian tourists.

She was one of those girls who would ring all the time for 5 days and then you wouldn't hear from her for a week and then she would be on you to come around for some companionship Wink .

It all make sense now i think she had 3 or 4 of us on the go at once but she wasn't half bad. Wink
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coldcrush



Joined: 02 Apr 2004
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PostPosted: Wed Aug 11, 2004 7:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

first korean i met was my tae kwon do instructor when i was a kid. even had the taegukki hanging on my wall for a few years as part of the school's flag. go figure.

second korean was a guy named dong-ho whom i met at university. big tall guy who dated an incredibly gorgeous korean lass. we "studied" japanese together and he came up with a business plan for us to manage east coast holiday tours for korean and japanese female students. he said ' you and i will travel up and down the country with many beautiful women showing them the sights. making money and having lots of fun. sound good?' erm.. yes. yes it does. unfortunately, his family took a huge hit in the financial crisis in the late 90s and he had to go home. c'est la vie.

married the third korean i met.
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wylde



Joined: 14 Apr 2003

PostPosted: Wed Aug 11, 2004 9:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i had a fight with the first korean i met, we were both 10..

he scratched and bit me... thats just not cricket where i'm from
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krats1976



Joined: 14 May 2003

PostPosted: Wed Aug 11, 2004 10:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Korean Koreans or enthic Koreans? I went to junior & part of senior HS in the Seattle area so there were lots of Korean Americans in my schools. They were just like everyone else as far as I saw--some hard workers, some not; some popular, some nerdy... etc.

As for Korean nationals, one of my best friends here in Korea I met when we were at BYU. She was one of the best roommates I had. I admired her for being gutsy enough to come all the way to the States for school--and not just one year like lots of people do. She worked her way through her entire bachelor's degree in a second language (and had a job the entire time). She grew up in the country-side without a lot of money so she never went to hagwons or anything, yet she had good enough English skills to study in the US. She also made lots of Korean food (such as she could find in Utah) and shared with me. To top it all off, she let me borrow her car. She definately left a good impression. Cool
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