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How to make your bored middle schoolers talk (really works)
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marista99



Joined: 05 Jun 2004
Location: Incheon

PostPosted: Fri Aug 27, 2004 6:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

A lot of my upper elem/jr high boys will go on and on if you ask them about computer games, and esecially the game "maple story"--ask what character they play and stuff.
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jajdude



Joined: 18 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sat Aug 28, 2004 12:31 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

That is certainly true about the computer games. I had a guy who had just finished high school, who said little for a few weeks. But when I asked him to describe and explain how to play his favorite game, it was good for a lot of talking.
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Sat Aug 28, 2004 12:40 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Some good ideas there, thanks.

Challenging their rigid belief systems with an alternative, never before heard viewpoint is what does the trick. Its new to them. And they feel suddenly compelled to defend their point of view. Works like a charm. Attack something that is precious to them, they'll be conferring over what is the most gramatically correct response.
So long as its not an out of control rant, its ok. Just be calm about it, and put your point. If you want to insult them, make sure you have a wry smile, so they know its a joke.
But even if you're more serious, it doesn't matter, because they're not going to tell the parents anyway. Why would they spoil a fun lesson where they know they can do what they like?
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Ilsanman



Joined: 15 Aug 2003
Location: Bucheon, Korea

PostPosted: Sat Aug 28, 2004 4:38 pm    Post subject: yes Reply with quote

I agree you an get a rise out of the kids by putting down Korea, but I don't agree with doing it. It causes may problems.

1. hostile classroom environment. They think u hate them, and they certainly hate u.

2. poor attitude of foreigners is developed or reinforced.

3. feeling under attack in the classroom.

I think you can see my point.
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Sun Aug 29, 2004 3:05 am    Post subject: Re: How to make your bored middle schoolers talk (really wor Reply with quote

rapier wrote:
I have fought solidly with my unruly middle schoolers for 6 months solid. this being a zero discipline hagwon, they know they rule, as their parents are well paying cusomers.


What I find bizarre is that parents would tolerate this behavior in their kids. Parents are paying good money. Don't they want to know little Johnny isn't doing dyck all but wasting their time and money?

Sometimes I take pity on the little beggars but I have to balance that with "these parents are paying 200K a month to send their Little Virus Distribution Factory to school they're not paying to warehouse the kid".
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Sun Aug 29, 2004 4:06 am    Post subject: Re: yes Reply with quote

Ilsanman wrote:
I agree you an get a rise out of the kids by putting down Korea, but I don't agree with doing it. It causes may problems.

1. hostile classroom environment. They think u hate them, and they certainly hate u.

2. poor attitude of foreigners is developed or reinforced.

3. feeling under attack in the classroom.

I think you can see my point.


1) They've done their best to hate me anyway. The time for games and nicety is over.
2)Their brainwashed ideas of foreigners are so strong at this stage, that only a vicious verbal challenge has any chance of breaking them.
3) Its me who's been under attack in the classroom. They've been at ease.

Of course all this could have been avoided by allowing some discipline- which actually engenders respect in my book.But The Director is so afraid of the parents, and so keen to maintain the image of happy hagwon, that the kids could commit murder and he'd still not call the parents.
Of course, I'm looking for a better job now..
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Sun Aug 29, 2004 4:20 am    Post subject: Re: How to make your bored middle schoolers talk (really wor Reply with quote

mindmetoo wrote:
rapier wrote:
I have fought solidly with my unruly middle schoolers for 6 months solid. this being a zero discipline hagwon, they know they rule, as their parents are well paying cusomers.


What I find bizarre is that parents would tolerate this behavior in their kids. Parents are paying good money. Don't they want to know little Johnny isn't doing dyck all but wasting their time and money?

Sometimes I take pity on the little beggars but I have to balance that with "these parents are paying 200K a month to send their Little Virus Distribution Factory to school they're not paying to warehouse the kid".


I find it incredible that The hagwons have survived this far, because of their sheer innefectiveness as educational institutions. Almost everyone involved conspires to ensure that a hagwon is little more than a circus with a few foreign ringmasters/bouncers.
I have little pity left for the parents now, as they will pull their kids out for the slightest infraction. I've had one mother pull her boy after I shouted at him,( for punching a girl in the face full force.)
As a result the director allows no calls to the parents that could contain any hint of negativity.. and the kids, realising that they have fun free time for lessons, aren't about to complain to their parents and thereby stop the whole charade.
I'm numb to it all now, I give even the kids with terrorism potential top marks on their report cards. Like everyone else in the business, i've stopped caring.
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Apple Scruff



Joined: 29 Oct 2003

PostPosted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 5:43 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I have realized that any perceived solution to an ongoing problem in the classroom is usually only a temporary one. The kids eventually come to their senses and remember that they can act like pricks and get away with it. Bashing Korea (while loads of fun) would eventually stop working as a teaching tactic. Sometimes I wonder about the intellectual capacity of Koreans, but if you could consistently keep the kids' attention by ripping apart their country on a daily basis, there would be no more wondering on my behalf.
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Arthur Fonzerelli



Joined: 22 Jan 2003
Location: Suwon

PostPosted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 5:06 pm    Post subject: Re: How to make your bored middle schoolers talk (really wor Reply with quote

rapier wrote:
I have fought solidly with my unruly middle schoolers for 6 months solid. this being a zero discipline hagwon, they know they rule, as their parents are well paying cusomers.
At one point I remember shouting full bell into their ears at point blank range to make them open their books. Never mind all the other "moments"- which usually bore no fruit...
Today I decided to forget about forcing them to read the usual passages in their staccato mumbling way.
Instead I just started taking the **** out of Korea. Suddenly they sat up and listened. I was onto a good thing. "Korea is a useless country..it ranks about 25th in importance in the world..as for the olympics..winning at table tennis is pathetic, its not even a real sport..blah blah" I went on, tearing to shreds every Korean nationalist point of pride possible, ending by accusing them of stinking of Gimchi.
A miracle occurred- suddenly they were actually reaching for words to express themselves in English, tripping over themselves to make correct and complete sentences...
I'm not even going to take the worst girls threats to get her dad to hit me and deport me out of Korea..I could see she'd enjoyed a lesson for the first time. Laughing


Why even put yourself through all this unnecessary stress?? Why not just leave and find a job back home??? You're becoming a bitter rotten shell of your former self...

You're not doing anyone a favor by staying here and losing your temper with a bunch of 12 year old kids...
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bundaegi



Joined: 05 Aug 2004
Location: Murfreesboro, TN

PostPosted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 5:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you want a class of sullen, stone-face middle-schoolers to come alive, insist that Japan taught them everything they now know. It's a bit more of a risk than insulting Korea, but if you craft your barb artfully you can hopefully get them off of Japan and onto more mundane topics, it sure does inject some passion.. whew..
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CanadaCommando



Joined: 13 Feb 2004
Location: People's Republic of C.C.

PostPosted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 5:38 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think that making them defend their country is def. a way to stimulate talking in class, but I would be a lil less aggressive in my approach.

Teaching a class on "perspective and opinion" right now, and my discussion question is "In my opinion, Canada is a better country than Korea. Do you want to try to change my opinion?"

A lot more passive in tone, and yet still puts them on the spot. Also, avoids any difficulty in looking like just another foreigner dumpimg on Korea.
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rapier



Joined: 16 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Mon Aug 30, 2004 10:18 pm    Post subject: Re: How to make your bored middle schoolers talk (really wor Reply with quote

Arthur Fonzerelli wrote:
rapier wrote:
I have fought solidly with my unruly middle schoolers for 6 months solid. this being a zero discipline hagwon, they know they rule, as their parents are well paying cusomers.
At one point I remember shouting full bell into their ears at point blank range to make them open their books. Never mind all the other "moments"- which usually bore no fruit...
Today I decided to forget about forcing them to read the usual passages in their staccato mumbling way.
Instead I just started taking the **** out of Korea. Suddenly they sat up and listened. I was onto a good thing. "Korea is a useless country..it ranks about 25th in importance in the world..as for the olympics..winning at table tennis is pathetic, its not even a real sport..blah blah" I went on, tearing to shreds every Korean nationalist point of pride possible, ending by accusing them of stinking of Gimchi.
A miracle occurred- suddenly they were actually reaching for words to express themselves in English, tripping over themselves to make correct and complete sentences...
I'm not even going to take the worst girls threats to get her dad to hit me and deport me out of Korea..I could see she'd enjoyed a lesson for the first time. Laughing


Why even put yourself through all this unnecessary stress?? Why not just leave and find a job back home??? You're becoming a bitter rotten shell of your former self...

You're not doing anyone a favor by staying here and losing your temper with a bunch of 12 year old kids...


"Find a job back home, haha.
My Home country Zimbabwe is a cesspit I cannot return to. There's nothing left. 4000% inflation and outright widespread lawlessness over the past 2 years has made it intolerable.I have no parents and no inheritance (stolen by corruption in Zimbabwe). I have a British passport, but zero desire to return to live there for various reasons I can't mention here.
I'm sure you have a nice happy supportive family in America to nestle back into. Lucky you.
At the moment I see no option for myself but further years of esl teaching and saving to try and start my own business...I am ambitious and positive, not just a loser esler. But I feel trapped and in a tricky long term situation...I'm trying to get a good future plan together.
Remember, some of us are not simply bums from the US or canada who can't get employed back home. People have different and real reasons for being here.
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Len8



Joined: 12 Feb 2003
Location: Kyungju

PostPosted: Tue Aug 31, 2004 6:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Rapier, what other Korean nationalistic points of pride did you tear to bits?
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rawiri



Joined: 01 Jun 2003
Location: Lovely day for a fire drill.

PostPosted: Tue Aug 31, 2004 8:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Paul Hamm....dont forget him!....we were discussing what to do in an emergency situation yesterday (like the 911 call) and the text ran out of examples....so i wrote one on the board.... somebody stole my olympic gold medal ......the kids went nuts at me...."he's so arrogant"...
"he should die!"..."you always make jokes about korea"...and i ahve been recently (just during the olympics...but they started it by giving me grief about nz's lack of medals)...i'll lay off them now though as they are a pretty good group of kids and i don't want any friction with them....well maybe just a little!.
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some waygug-in



Joined: 25 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Tue Aug 31, 2004 4:18 pm    Post subject: Re: How to make your bored middle schoolers talk (really wor Reply with quote

rapier wrote:
mindmetoo wrote:
rapier wrote:
I have fought solidly with my unruly middle schoolers for 6 months solid. this being a zero discipline hagwon, they know they rule, as their parents are well paying cusomers.


What I find bizarre is that parents would tolerate this behavior in their kids. Parents are paying good money. Don't they want to know little Johnny isn't doing dyck all but wasting their time and money?

Sometimes I take pity on the little beggars but I have to balance that with "these parents are paying 200K a month to send their Little Virus Distribution Factory to school they're not paying to warehouse the kid".


I find it incredible that The hagwons have survived this far, because of their sheer innefectiveness as educational institutions. Almost everyone involved conspires to ensure that a hagwon is little more than a circus with a few foreign ringmasters/bouncers.
I have little pity left for the parents now, as they will pull their kids out for the slightest infraction. I've had one mother pull her boy after I shouted at him,( for punching a girl in the face full force.)
As a result the director allows no calls to the parents that could contain any hint of negativity.. and the kids, realising that they have fun free time for lessons, aren't about to complain to their parents and thereby stop the whole charade.
I'm numb to it all now, I give even the kids with terrorism potential top marks on their report cards. Like everyone else in the business, i've stopped caring.



I have talked to a number of parents about this, and they freely admitted to me that they see hagwans as little more than baby-sitting services. They really don't care that much if junior is really "learning" anything, so long as he is off the street and not hiding in some pc or game room. I'm not saying all parents have this attitude, but a good number do. This makes it all the more fun when you get a few parents who actually do have expectations and want some real results. It's always going to be the waygook's fault, no matter what.
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