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The dating "chaperone" phenomenon
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The Man known as The Man



Joined: 29 Mar 2003
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2004 8:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

little mixed girl wrote:
The Man known as The Man wrote:
What if a guy just wanted to squeeze your pillows?

acceptable. depending various circumstances that is.


Just hit the PM function and we'll get right to it.
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little mixed girl



Joined: 11 Jun 2003
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PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2004 12:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

kiwiboy_nz_99 wrote:
The thrust of the thread was sex before marriage or not, and more specifically, LMG has her beliefs, but should she be using derogatory terms to put down those who make different choices.

not really. i don't care if people have sex before marriage.
my point was that going off with whatever random person that catches your fancy and having sex with them is nasty. Confused
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kiwiboy_nz_99



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2004 3:28 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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not really. i don't care if people have sex before marriage.
my point was that going off with whatever random person that catches your fancy and having sex with them is nasty.

And you've been told by almost every poster in this thread that your position is ignorant immature, and judgemental.
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Derrek



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2004 3:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

kiwiboy_nz_99 wrote:
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not really. i don't care if people have sex before marriage.
my point was that going off with whatever random person that catches your fancy and having sex with them is nasty.

And you've been told by almost every poster in this thread that your position is ignorant immature, and judgemental.


But it's her opinion. We should respect that.

I'm not big on jumping in bed with someone I just met, either. Maybe I'm just weird. I have to at least get to know them for a few dates, but them I'm open to opportunities if I am interested. There has to be a genuine "like" for the person in some way. Odd as it may be, I can do other intimate stuff with a person, but taking the plunge and going "all the way" with someone I just met that night isn't my style.

I guess I feel like if she wants to sleep with me on the first night, she has probably been with Itaewonguy at least a few times, and that scares me! *wink*


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peemil



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2004 3:43 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Is this thread still going?
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bucheon bum



Joined: 16 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2004 4:09 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Derrek wrote:
kiwiboy_nz_99 wrote:
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not really. i don't care if people have sex before marriage.
my point was that going off with whatever random person that catches your fancy and having sex with them is nasty.

And you've been told by almost every poster in this thread that your position is ignorant immature, and judgemental.


But it's her opinion. We should respect that.

I'm not big on jumping in bed with someone I just met, either. Maybe I'm just weird. I have to at least get to know them for a few dates, but them I'm open to opportunities if I am interested. There has to be a genuine "like" for the person in some way. Odd as it may be, I can do other intimate stuff with a person, but taking the plunge and going "all the way" with someone I just met that night isn't my style.

I guess I feel like if she wants to sleep with me on the first night, she has probably been with Itaewonguy at least a few times, and that scares me! *wink*


see, you did that with a little class and weren't too judgemental to those who are into it. LMG wasn't.
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kiwiboy_nz_99



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PostPosted: Sun Oct 24, 2004 4:35 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

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But it's her opinion. We should respect that.

The opinion is fine, it's the putting negative labels of others who make different choices that we have been objecting to.
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The Man known as The Man



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PostPosted: Mon Oct 25, 2004 7:01 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

kiwiboy_nz_99 wrote:
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But it's her opinion. We should respect that.

The opinion is fine, it's the putting negative labels of others who make different choices that we have been objecting to.


Joe Thanks is a bipolar headcase moron.
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little mixed girl



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PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 12:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

kiwiboy_nz_99 wrote:
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But it's her opinion. We should respect that.

The opinion is fine, it's the putting negative labels of others who make different choices that we have been objecting to.

if it walks like a dunk and talks like a duck....

whatever. i don't get how u can DEFEND this practice.
would u really be happy to have sex with a girl that has been with your friends and 1/2 of your hometown? Confused
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bucheon bum



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PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 1:25 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

depends on the situtation...
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the_beaver



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PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 2:11 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

little mixed girl wrote:
would u really be happy to have sex with a girl that has been with your friends and 1/2 of your hometown? Confused


Depends on if my friends say she's good in the sack or not.
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Tiberious aka Sparkles



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PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 3:15 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

the_beaver wrote:
little mixed girl wrote:
would u really be happy to have sex with a girl that has been with your friends and 1/2 of your hometown? Confused


Depends on if my friends say she's good in the sack or not.


Sloppy seconds (or thirds or fourths or...) is not the move.

Sparkles*_*
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The Man known as The Man



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PostPosted: Tue Oct 26, 2004 3:45 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Tiberious aka Sparkles wrote:
the_beaver wrote:
little mixed girl wrote:
would u really be happy to have sex with a girl that has been with your friends and 1/2 of your hometown? Confused


Depends on if my friends say she's good in the sack or not.


Sloppy seconds (or thirds or fourths or...) is not the move.

Sparkles*_*


Rudy's brother, you suck!

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kiwiboy_nz_99



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PostPosted: Wed Oct 27, 2004 1:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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if it walks like a dunk and talks like a duck....

Great theory, as long as you have the wherewithall to correctly ascertain what is, in fact, a duck, and what is a south american sloth, and what is a tuatara. I'm not convinced about your animal spotting abilities.
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