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Koreans who say 'you are in Korea, speak Korean'
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Sue_Canada



Joined: 10 May 2003

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2003 8:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I think that Americans and English Canadians have a hell of a time learning languages for 3 main reasons:

1. Everybody wants to practice their English with us.

2. We don't really learn a foreign language at school when we are children. In Canada, they "pretend" they are giving us French classes, but do we really learn any French? No. And, what is worse, is that we are not forced to learn it after Grade 6. (at least in Alberta where I grew up)

3. As children, we hardly learned any English grammar at school. It is so sad to see how many Canadians do not even know what an adjective and an adverb are. It is incredible. If we know absolutely nothing about the grammar of our own language, then the task of learning a foreign language is so much more daunting.

I have travelled quite a bit in Europe, and I have noticed how much easier Europeans learn new languages than Canadians and Americans for these three reasons.

1. They know about the grammar of their own language. They even know the names of all the different tenses.

2. They learned a foreign language (English) in school for many years. This gives them an advantage in learning yet another language.

3. AND, they don't have everybody trying to practice their English with them. For example, in Germany, they are much more keen on practicing their English with a Canadian than practicing their English with someone from Yugoslavia. Even if the person from Yugoslavia speaks English fine, they will speak German with them, because they are in Germany.

So, what am I trying to say?

It is very hard for us Canadians and Americans to learn foreign languages. Therefore, if some of us do manage to learn the foreign language, we shouldn't look down on the people who don't.

I have lived in two foreign countries before, and managed to learn the language pretty well through a LOT of suffering. I am really hoping that I will be able to learn Korean. But, if I don't, I won't be too hard on myself.

Cheers!
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gang ah jee



Joined: 14 Jan 2003
Location: city of paper

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2003 11:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Bobster wrote:
I'll bet most people have what feel like good reasons for staying at whatever learning plateau that find themselves in ... except gang ah gee, I've seen him talk to Koreans so I know he's not bragging without cause.


rapier wrote:
oh gang ah jee, if only we could all be as wonderful as you.


Korean is a hard language and I'm not very good at it. I hope it doesn't look like I'm bragging because I'm quite ashamed about it. I'd say I was lower intermediate, which the university placement tests I'm about to take will no doubt confirm.

I do, however, have a lot of friends who don't speak korean well, if at all, and i understand their reasons for not learning. And their reasons are a lot better, or at least more honest than 'koreans only want to speak English' or whatever.

I don't care if you want to learn korean or not, just don't make up BS excuses. Like what you said in another thread rapier: FYI - korean only has two main forms of address, and the difference is as simple as attaching 'yo' at the end of the last word in the sentence. as an 'alternative world traveller', i'm sure you've taken the time to learn that, right?

edit: sparkles - by 'ohjik' you mean 'graft' right?
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Squaffy



Joined: 25 Feb 2003
Location: All over the place

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2003 12:00 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sue_Canada wrote:
Even if the person from Yugoslavia


Um, show me on a map where Yugoslavia is. Bet you a squillion dollars its not there anymore.
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Sue_Canada



Joined: 10 May 2003

PostPosted: Thu May 22, 2003 3:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

To Squaffy,

It did exist in Summer 2002 when I was in Germany. I had a few friends from Serbia. When I called it Serbia, they corrected me and said "Yugoslavia". Who can keep track anymore.

How irrelevant anyway!!! Who gives a !@@#$^& what it is called. One thing is for certain: Their first language is not English.
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Homer
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PostPosted: Fri May 23, 2003 5:33 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Sue,

This little linguistic theory about North Americansbeing less apt at learning foreign languages is very cute.
Is it founded on anything real? I think not.

You mentionned europeans learning new languages more easily..well perhaps thats because the languages they are learning are mostly phonetically similar. I speak English and French fluently, I did learn Korean and it wasn't that hard, nor was it easy. But, I speak no spanish or italian..yet if I listen to people speaking in those languages I can pick it up quick enough by simply recognizing some words.
A frenchman can listen to germans, brits, spaniards or italians and have phonetic references to at leats catch the jib of whats said. Doesn't mean they are "better" at languages.
Heck, my brother is in Japan, he speaks English, French, Spanish and Japanese fluently...
Language is a question of affinity yes but mostly its a question of effort and motivation. Using excuses as "North Americans are less apt at learning languages" or "Koreans just wan tto practice their English" is not very serious. Why not be honest and avoid the cop-out. Most people don't learn Korean because they don't care too or are not willing to put the effort into it.
The main difficulty with asian languages is the lack of phonetic references.
Furthermore, don't you think that North Americans have a better chance at learning an asian language simply because most asian immigrants move to NA and not europe?
People in France have the same english lessons in early education that we do in french in English Canada. They speak English better then we do french not because of an affinity for languages but because for now English is the language of business and travel.
As for the grammar you are right, our education system glances over grammar.
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Korea Newfie



Joined: 27 Mar 2003
Location: Newfoundland and Labrador

PostPosted: Fri May 23, 2003 9:53 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Man, I hate it when more than one person make posts that I want to disagree with, because it makes my life more difficult... Laughing But here goes!

indiercj wrote:
I think it is pretty pathetic to brag one's uninterest to learn the local language... How much korea would you experience with an attitude like that?

Wow i never thought an 'english teacher' would actually say 'Oh we don't need to learn foreign language' finding ridiculous excuses compairing themselves to these people. This is just denying your qualification as a language instructor. I really feel sorry for those learning anything from you. Sad


When I say I don't know much Korean, I'm not bragging, just telling it like it is. I kind of wish I knew more, but I'm paid to teach English, I help my Korean friends with their English, I go out drinking with older students, and we speak in English. I pick up a fair amount of incidental knowledge along the way, but I honestly have better things to do with my time. Can you elaborate on your contention that I'm less of a language instructor because I don't care to study Korean? (I'm not being facetious, I'd honestly like to hear your point.)

And don't feel sorry for my students, I teach English, not Korean.

kimcheeking wrote:
I'm with you on this one Indiercj. To be a better instructor you should learn a language. In Korea learn Korean. It always helps me when I take a class to remember what it feels like to be on the other end of the desk not understanding a thing.

Again, I'm not making this connection. When I teach kids, it's immersion, and I'm even asked by my director not to speak any Korean at all. When I teach adults, it's not necessary...

Some of these people may have, like me, studied other languages before they came here. I've studied French and Spanish formally, so I know how it feels to be on the other end.

kimcheeking wrote:
If you are only going to be here one year, then yes a minimum of phrases is all you really need. Any longer and you are just denying yourself alot of expereiences and understanding of the culture. Culture is embedded in language and if you can not understand the language then how can you understand the culture.

Nice try king, but Robinson-Stuart and Nocon (1996) observed that the idea that culture learning is a "magic carpet ride to another culture" is misguided. In fact, a deeper cultural understanding is beneficial for language acquisition, not the other way around. You have the right connection, you just have it backwards. Korean culture can be studied in English, so to answer your question, I can read a book. Razz

kimcheeking wrote:
Plust it just makes life easier understand Korean.

While in Korea. For those of us who are here for less than ~3 years, maybe we don't mind roughing it.


Homer wrote:
Its pretty simple really....
If you live here for more than a year, its just basic logic and courtesy to learn Korean. Not very complicated is it?

I disagree. I can be polite in broken Korean, and you can be rude in "decent" Korean. I see your point, I just don't think it's as important as you make it out to be.

Homer wrote:
I speak decent Korean and it has given me the chance to talk with my in-laws without my wife always having to translate.

Most of those refusing to learn do so out of lazyness or because they get discouraged and or frustrated with the difficulties.

If you choose not to learn Korea becuse you can't be bothered then be honest about it and don't hide behind excuses.


For me, it's all about motivation. I've studied French and Spanish because they're widely spoken languages, and will probably be useful to me in the future. However, when I leave this peninsula, I'll never need Korean again. I'm not even going to say probably. For example, if I meet a Korean walking down the street in Newfoundland, they'll probably be able to speak English. I can't justify spending time learning a language so I can order at a Korean restaurant outside Korea (which I can do with a few rudimentary phrases anyway). Homer, you have a Korean wife, so your motivation level is decidely different than mine. Not even comparable. I don't think it's fair for you to look down on those of us who are here having a good time, don't plan to marry a Korean woman, and honestly don't want to learn the language.

Further, I think all three of you are overestimating the importance of knowing Korean in order to enjoy Korea. I know very little, but with help from my friends (Korean and foreign) I've seen a lot of Korea and plan to see more. I think I've gotten a lot out of it. I think the only way speaking Korean would help me at this point is if I knew enough to read Korean history books. Unless I make this my permanent home, I think that's unnecessary.

That said, I agree that being able to understand food, money, etc., is important. I just don't think that much more than that is.
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Sloth



Joined: 16 Jan 2003
Location: Here

PostPosted: Fri May 23, 2003 10:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Going back to the original post...

It happened to me once. I was in a PC room talking with my AMERICAN friend. When a Korean person looked at us and said:

"You are in Korea. You should be speaking Korean!"

It was the end of a rather long and stressful day at work, so we let him know that it was absolutely none of his business what language we were speaking to each other as he was not part of the conversation.

For the record, I am studying Korean. I'd put my languge skills in the "basic conversation" catagory, but I'm working on improving them. I've found chatting with the receptionists to be excellent practice (they seem to find it amusing to talk to a foreigner in Korean).
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William Beckerson
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PostPosted: Sat May 24, 2003 1:57 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know some basic Korean. I get by. All the Koreans in my life speak decent English. And, yes, I have other things I'd rather do than learn the local language.

In short, it's the same reason I dont know how to drive a car: I dont need to.

Call me lazy if you'd like. I'd just post a reply that'd force Lemon to edit me. So lets not waste his time. Wink
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The Hamster



Joined: 09 May 2003
Location: Korea

PostPosted: Sat May 24, 2003 8:56 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

gang ah jee
"Rants like the Hamster's look to me like justification of inability/laziness.

(I hate it when I pronounce something correctly and they act like they do not know what I said. These same people try to get me to pronounce out the word slowly and it sounds just like I said it. I get them back by making them pronounce out words in English if they are a little off. )[/quote]

I dislike it when people quote out of context. If you had read the rest you would have realized that I never mentioned I pronounced anything perfectly. I said it correctly as I was taught to say it. True it may have been a little off. My point was that when I venture out away from where I live some Koreans act as though they cannot understand what I am saying --unless I pronounce it perfectly. Nevermind the fact that the other Korean people satanding nearby understood what I was saying.

My reply was just that a RANT. A rant to let off a little bit of steam.
However, I am in no way a lazy inept individual who is trying to cover my language barriers by coming up with excuses no to learn the Korean language.

I am learning the language. Truth be told I find it to be an interesting challenge. I enjoy going out and using Korean.

I am also insulted that you would imply that I am a bad teacher. Especially by inferring that I am bad becuase I do strive to learn the many benifits of Korean in the classroom.

Knowing the Korean language can provide some insight as to why it is so difficult for students to understand this, that, these, those and singular vs plural. This has little to so with being a good instructor or a bad instructor.
I am a good teacher. My students learn English. I am there for them to learn English. Not for them to teach me new Korean words or to talk to me in Korean, but for them to learn English. It is my opinion and experience that spoken korean in an English classroom is a hinderance to learning English in the longrun.

Also, I was being sarcastic when I said "Why bother to learn Korean, when they only want to talk to you in English"
I am still taking Korean lessons. I enjoy them. However, it was from MY experiences that I made that comment. Even my Korean teacher wnated to speak in English (to practice her skills). She even went so far as to have me give her an English name. This was fine, I just insisted that she give me a Korean name. I finally had to tell her (in Korean) that I did not want to speak English with her, she was ther to teach me Korean not for me to teach her English.
Some Koreans automatically assume that because I am not Korean I cannot speak Korean and they tell me that I should learn Korean. All this before even asking me if I know Korean. Or, they wnat to talk in English, even if I have started a conversation in korean.
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gang ah jee



Joined: 14 Jan 2003
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PostPosted: Sat May 24, 2003 12:34 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ok hamster, granted. I was ranting too, not at you, just as things i've heard that sound like what i thought you said. I guess i read it wrong. I apologise.

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masuro



Joined: 22 Apr 2003
Location: Gangwon, Inje-kun, Hanam Village

PostPosted: Sat May 24, 2003 3:20 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

What is the maximum time a person can be in Korea and still justify not learning the language? I suppose there's no answer to that but I think there is a point where a person should definitely be ashamed of not being able to carry on a conversation. Some of my foreign friends have been in Korea for 6-7 years and can't speak a word of the language. Some of these people say, "I don't need the language" but come running to me or a Korean friend when they need simple things taken care of. When they visit their in-laws or their girlfriend's family they sit in the corner like a lump because they can't communicate. And then they wonder why the family ignores them or is opposed to the marriage . . . .

After eight years I can carry on a decent conversation and I can do most things without help from anyone. When I need to know something I go to a Korean website where I can get up to date, accurate information. After reading the Korean online newspapers I came to realise how paltry the English dailies are here. (For long-termers, anyway. They're fine for anyone not planning to stay in the country very long.) It sounds like I'm bragging but that's not what I want to do. I can do all these things but I don't do them as well as I should for someone who has been in the country for eight years. I'm ashamed of my relatively poor Korean skills so I can't understand why my foreign friends are not embarrassed at all. Perhaps I'm strange . . . .
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indiercj



Joined: 30 Jan 2003
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Sat May 24, 2003 4:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I see a lot of folks on this board say they are here in Korea to teach english and experience local culture. Others are just for the money and pleasure while pretending to be teachers. I won't argue with the latter ones. They don't need to devote themselves to learn local language and i agree with that. My original post was addressing to those who wants more than that.

If some english teacher said "Koreans must learn and speak english but i don't want to learn their language" does this imply discrimination or english superiority? I thought so. How do you encourage korean student of yours to learn your native language? Just because this is the way to go or as a tool to communicate with different people and culture? Do you think you are a foreign language instructor or just the one mighty "english instructor"? I just can't imagine a good foreign language teacher who can't even persuade himself/herself of the joy for learning another language could ever urge others to learn with the devotion required. Yes this might be too much to ask. But that's my 2 cents worth.

By the way, i know a lot of fluent english speaking koreans but from what i've seen they tend to have a particular political position and that certainly does not represent korean opinion in general. That's why i think anyone who wants to know the REAL REALITY should learn korean enough to talk with people who can't speak english in depth. The more you talk to them in korean the more you'll discover much of the aggression, uncertainty, rudeness was somewhat results of misinterpretation.

Hey i'm glad i can read enough english not because this could bring me more opportunities to succeed in life but because i can read from english only speaking teachers who seems to just refuse to learn korean. I really do! Very Happy
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PostPosted: Sat May 24, 2003 4:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Korea Newfie wrote:
kimcheeking wrote:
I'm with you on this one Indiercj. To be a better instructor you should learn a language. In Korea learn Korean. It always helps me when I take a class to remember what it feels like to be on the other end of the desk not understanding a thing.

Again, I'm not making this connection. When I teach kids, it's immersion, and I'm even asked by my director not to speak any Korean at all. When I teach adults, it's not necessary...


I like to take classes every few months because it helps me to remember what it is like to be on the other side of the desk. I use no Korean in my classes. I don't believe in the use of Korean in the classroom.


Korea Newfie wrote:
kimcheeking wrote:
If you are only going to be here one year, then yes a minimum of phrases is all you really need. Any longer and you are just denying yourself alot of expereiences and understanding of the culture. Culture is embedded in language and if you can not understand the language then how can you understand theculture.

Nice try king, but Robinson-Stuart and Nocon (1996) observed that the idea that culture learning is a "magic carpet ride to another culture" is misguided. In fact, a deeper cultural understanding is beneficial for language acquisition, not the other way around. You have the right connection, you just have it backwards. Korean culture can be studied in English, so to answer your question, I can read a book. Razz


I don't know the reference you are referring to but I will trust that you have read it. I can't find an appropriate reference for what I am saying right now either, but trust me that it exists. This is probably one of those things where there is no correct answer yet - still open to debate.
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The Hamster



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PostPosted: Sat May 24, 2003 6:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

gang ah jee wrote:
ok hamster, granted. I was ranting too, not at you, just as things i've heard that sound like what i thought you said. I guess i read it wrong. I apologise.

^^


Thank you!!! Very Happy
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Canadian Teacher



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PostPosted: Sat May 24, 2003 6:27 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

It has happened to me a few times, usually from some drunk businessman or 90 lb uni student who thinks he is cool.

What is worse is actually learining the language. After my zillion years in Korea I have gotten pretty good at the language. Koreans believe that only Koreans can speak Korea, that they are born with it as an inate ability. Many times I hear people talking about me and my family six inches away. I look over and say "Excuse me, but I understand everything you are saying and it is not very polite."

A look of amazement ensues and inevitably the response is "You know too much about Korea."

And I do. It amazes me but the average Korean is clueless about what is happening in Korea.
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