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jajdude
Joined: 18 Jan 2003
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 8:35 am Post subject: Rudest (or least friendly) place you've been? |
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Along the lines of worst/strangest places perhaps. Seoul is a rude, and not a friendly city. I haven't been anywhere as rude or with generally as unfriendly a feeling as Seoul. I think even many Koreans would agree that Seoulites can be rude and unfriendly, and not just because it's a big city. An article by a Korean in the English "Joongang Daily" had this very complaint, and thus was concerned about Korea's image, and the impression it made on foreigners.
But for the more travelled of you, I am sure you may have other places in mind. |
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keithinkorea

Joined: 17 Mar 2004
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 9:03 am Post subject: |
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Big city people are often rude. Doesn't matter which big city but it is true. It is partially I believe the stress of living with so many other people all around you and often having to work harder than folks in the sticks.
In Korea I've met very rude and also incredibly polite people. In the UK and a few European countries I've met very polite and very rude people. In the US I've met really rude and also very polite people. SE Asia -many countries- same story.
The rudest category of people are possibly ajumma or Indonesian taxi drivers. Though I have met some lovely individuals from both of these groups.
People are not the same. Everywhere you go you'll meet arseholes, average and wonderfully sweet people.
Stop trying to put people in a box. |
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Hanson

Joined: 20 Oct 2004
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 9:13 am Post subject: |
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Right on!
Power to the average!!! |
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Badmojo

Joined: 07 Mar 2004 Location: I'm just sitting here watching the wheels go round and round
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 9:42 am Post subject: |
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I don't agree.
I never lived in Seoul, but the ten times up there never rubbed me the wrong way.
In fact, I had more people bothering me in Seoul than anywhere else. "Are you lost?" "Where are you going?"
It was a breath of fresh air.
Gamsa Ham nida! |
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Cthulhu

Joined: 02 Feb 2003
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 12:50 pm Post subject: |
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Beijing.
Including the flight over (China Eastern I believe).
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poddubny
Joined: 03 Aug 2004 Location: i have NO avatar privileges!
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 12:59 pm Post subject: |
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philadelphia, USA.
'brotherly love' my ass... |
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desultude

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Location: Dangling my toes in the Persian Gulf
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 3:09 pm Post subject: |
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One time in Seoul my friend and I could not communicate to the taxi driver where exactly he was to take us. We had instructions written down in Korean, but he didn't know his way around the neighborhood. He stopped every few blocks to ask someone for directions. Finally, as we got nearer to where we were going, a guy told the driver to follow him, and he ran the five blocks to our destination in front of the taxi, and the driver followed him slowly.
The runner did not even wait for us to thank him.
I could never imagine such a thing in the U.S.A. |
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bucheon bum
Joined: 16 Jan 2003
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 3:50 pm Post subject: |
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luxor, egypt. don't go there. sure, the valley of the kings is there, but it ain't worth putting up with the biggest concentration of assholes on the face of the earth. |
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VanIslander

Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Location: Geoje, Hadong, Tongyeong,... now in a small coastal island town outside Gyeongsangnamdo!
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 4:01 pm Post subject: |
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New Zealand.
The rudest people in the world live there. It's way different than elsewhere. There's a real need for civility.
(If you ever go, you'll know what I mean.) |
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Swiss James

Joined: 26 Nov 2003 Location: Shanghai
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 5:07 pm Post subject: |
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Strasbourg, France.
Sit at a table for 15 minutes at a cafe trying to catch the attention of a waiter? Check
Walk out of a nightclub and say "Bonsoir" then the bouncer shouts abuse after you in a horrible mocking franco-america accent? Check
Ask for butter with your bread in a restaurant and be refused with the words "Oh you english with your butter and your mayonnaise!" Check. |
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tzechuk

Joined: 20 Dec 2004
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 5:23 pm Post subject: |
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Swiss James wrote: |
Strasbourg, France.
Sit at a table for 15 minutes at a cafe trying to catch the attention of a waiter? Check
Walk out of a nightclub and say "Bonsoir" then the bouncer shouts abuse after you in a horrible mocking franco-america accent? Check
Ask for butter with your bread in a restaurant and be refused with the words "Oh you english with your butter and your mayonnaise!" Check. |
Interesting... we were in strasbourg and people were nice to us?
I don't really know the rudest place.. because it seems to me that there are always rude people around everywhere, yet there are also some incredibly friendly people too... so...
I can tell you the rudest experience I had was here in Daejeon.. I was ordered off a taxi because the taxi driver couldn't understand me when I told him *lotte baekahjom* (department store). I was so shocked! He wouldn't even try to comprehend! Just said, no mi-gook in.. I was like, I am no mi-gook in. Geez.  |
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Zenpickle
Joined: 06 Jan 2004 Location: Anyang -- Bisan
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 10:26 pm Post subject: |
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Swiss James wrote: |
Strasbourg, France.
Sit at a table for 15 minutes at a cafe trying to catch the attention of a waiter? Check
Walk out of a nightclub and say "Bonsoir" then the bouncer shouts abuse after you in a horrible mocking franco-america accent? Check
Ask for butter with your bread in a restaurant and be refused with the words "Oh you english with your butter and your mayonnaise!" Check. |
Funny, I was about to mention Strasbourg. I had a waitress leave me in the middle of ordering because I had a hard time pronouncing what I wanted.
But in general, I can't think of a city I've been to that's been all-around rude. Now, there are cities that slightly increase my blood pressure from tension, but I get off on that (NYC, Amsterdam, Paris, Atlanta). |
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Swiss James

Joined: 26 Nov 2003 Location: Shanghai
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 10:40 pm Post subject: |
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I found people in NYC to be remarkably polite- people would say things like
"Hey how ya doing?"
whilst I was just walking past them on the street
or "Hot enough for ya?"
in elevators (lifts).
Once we were walking around and a radio pundit stopped me and some friends to ask us what we thought of the vice-president. We told him we were english so didn't have an opinion and after a bit more chat he invited us out for dinner.
It's either a friendly place or everyone's gay. |
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the eye

Joined: 29 Jan 2004
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 10:46 pm Post subject: |
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my vote is for Toronto.
ask a street vendor for directions, and get the old 'waddu-i-looklike?' rountine.
citizens are downright snobby.
retail clerks seem like they are physically unable to smile. |
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syclick

Joined: 23 Mar 2003 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Wed Feb 02, 2005 10:57 pm Post subject: |
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Swiss James wrote: |
Strasbourg, France. |
NOBODY disses Strasbourg in my presence.  |
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