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tommynomad



Joined: 24 Jul 2004
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 05, 2005 7:10 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Ryst Helmut wrote:
Daechidong Waygookin wrote:
Guys who bang married women deserve to get caught and beat to within an inch of death.


I'd go further...and include all adulterers....but then again, having morals is so out-of-style. Rolling Eyes

And what could be more moral than responding to an act of lust with extreme, near-lethal violence? :Roll:, indeed.
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Squid



Joined: 25 Jul 2003
Location: Sunny Anyang

PostPosted: Sat Mar 05, 2005 7:14 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Its a no-brainer, literally, and the hardest railers against extra-marital relations here will be taking just as hard a look at their adolescent viewpoints later in life...hopefully.

I could'nt give a tinkers cuss if an ajumma wants to sleep around- that's her perogative- her decision to make and hers alone. If she chooses to ignore the possible consequences then she'll most likely suffer down the track. No amount of moralistic finger pointing is going to change basic human nature and the need for satisfaction some people search for.

And this guy Mithridates has 100% disappeared up his own a-hole.
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Daechidong Waygookin



Joined: 22 Nov 2004
Location: No Longer on Dave's. Ive quit.

PostPosted: Sat Mar 05, 2005 7:21 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

tommynomad wrote:
Ryst Helmut wrote:
Daechidong Waygookin wrote:
Guys who bang married women deserve to get caught and beat to within an inch of death.


I'd go further...and include all adulterers....but then again, having morals is so out-of-style. Rolling Eyes

And what could be more moral than responding to an act of lust with extreme, near-lethal violence? :Roll:, indeed.


Its not just an act of lust. When it comes to marriage, its much more than that. How should a husband respond when dealing with a man who slept with his wife? With a pat on the back?
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Daechidong Waygookin



Joined: 22 Nov 2004
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 05, 2005 7:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Squid wrote:
Its a no-brainer, literally, and the hardest railers against extra-marital relations here will be taking just as hard a look at their adolescent viewpoints later in life...hopefully.

I could'nt give a tinkers cuss if an ajumma wants to sleep around- that's her perogative- her decision to make and hers alone. If she chooses to ignore the possible consequences then she'll most likely suffer down the track. No amount of moralistic finger pointing is going to change basic human nature and the need for satisfaction some people search for.

And this guy Mithridates has 100% disappeared up his own a-hole.


Im curious what you would do in a situation where your wife cheated on you.
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Pyongshin Sangja



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PostPosted: Sat Mar 05, 2005 8:36 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Mithridates, buddy. Lemme introduce you to some women.
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jinglejangle



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 12:34 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Squid wrote:
Its a no-brainer, literally, and the hardest railers against extra-marital relations here will be taking just as hard a look at their adolescent viewpoints later in life...hopefully.

I could'nt give a tinkers cuss if an ajumma wants to sleep around- that's her perogative- her decision to make and hers alone. If she chooses to ignore the possible consequences then she'll most likely suffer down the track. No amount of moralistic finger pointing is going to change basic human nature and the need for satisfaction some people search for.

And this guy Mithridates has 100% disappeared up his own a-hole.


Your 2nd paragraph is straight forward enough, but the first and third paragraphs.....are you a prophet? Cause you aren't making much sense.

I can understand disagreeing that violence is the answer, what the hell is adolescent about the sentiment. Let's play fantasy land. You just walked in on some dude riding all the way up in your wife. "WTF!" "Honey!" "OMG! NO!" "Oh, sorry dude. My bad, You mind to turn around while I put my pants on?"

Of course. How could you fail to oblige such a reasonable request.

And then following a statement about the justification of women following their libido however they want, you turn around and bash Mith for doing things his way?

Yeah, that's capital reasoning and logic, coming on top of a walloping dose of sensitivity towards human emotion.

I guess I can pretty well discount anything you'll say.

And as far as it goes, if a dude is out prowling to bang married chicks, sure, F up his health. He just F'd up yours. And if you think otherwise you've yet to get hurt like that.
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Squid



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 12:50 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

If you wife cheats on you, divorce her ass.

Jinglej's been watching too many movies and needs to look up what a paragraph is... and Hank needs to take Dong in hand, go get a tug at a juicy bar and relax.

Your cyberchest-beating is pathetic.
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Daechidong Waygookin



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 1:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Squid wrote:
If you wife cheats on you, divorce her ass.

Jinglej's been watching too many movies and needs to look up what a paragraph is... and Hank needs to take Dong in hand, go get a tug at a juicy bar and relax.

Your cyberchest-beating is pathetic.


Divorce would happen.

There is the guy still left though. Im sorry, but mess with someone's wife and you deserve a severe beating. No way around that.
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JongnoGuru



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 1:17 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Who's Hank? (Scorpio's not on this thread, is he?)
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tommynomad



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 1:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Squid wrote:
If you wife cheats on you, divorce her ass.

Yup. That's an appropriate response.

Squid wrote:
Your cyberchest-beating is pathetic.

Amen.
Daechidong Waygookin wrote:

Divorce would happen.

There is the guy still left though. Im sorry, but mess with someone's wife and you deserve a severe beating. No way around that.

If the woman is dissatisfied with his performance, she can beat him (inappropriately violent, but at least within the dynamic).
Did the guy have sex with you? No. Your wife is an individual, capable of and accountable for her decisions. She's the one who hurt you. Grant her a little agency. Your 'Net posturing, if true, reeks of a 19C view of wives as possessions within a marriage in which women have neither sex drive nor free will.

If I caught my wife banging another guy, three steps would be in order:
1. Kick her ass out the door immediately
2. Initiate divorce proceedings
3. Hurt the other guy where he lives: humiliate him publicly (within his church, community) seduce his wife, or if possible, daughter. Because while violence is uncalled for, revenge is sweet.
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itaewonguy



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 2:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

OK first of all..
if your wife cheats on you, divorce her? what if you have cheated on her?
you kick the guys arse even though he didnt know your wife is married?
not his fault..why blame him!!?

there are so many reasons and other things involved with cheating.
some can be very complex matter..
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mithridates



Joined: 03 Mar 2003
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PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 3:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Squid wrote:

And this guy Mithridates has 100% disappeared up his own a-hole.



Because of...?
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Squid



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PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 9:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

This is a late post but 'Dong Waygugin has followed me on another thread so I'll just salute his misunderstanding of adverbs.

In my first post & paragraph I express a desire to see a result, I do not make a prediction... like a pikey fortune teller might...or prophet.

Mithridates, I apologise unreservedly for what was a scurrilous and wanton attack on your laudable abstinence.

If I were a prophet I might predict that a man who beat his wife's lover would go to jail. I further might divine that that man's wife would then help herself to any communal property she might desire, the family court judge helping her carry the silverware.

Tip of the hat to Tommynomad and, I never thought I'd write this, Itaewonguy.
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Blind Willie



Joined: 05 May 2004

PostPosted: Sun Mar 06, 2005 9:44 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

JongnoGuru wrote:
Who's Hank? (Scorpio's not on this thread, is he?)

He never leaves the Current Events Fourm. The mods never visit it so he's free flame as much as he likes without being sent to the corner for a lengthy time out. Wannago is another you'll never see outside of it.

"Hey Joe... I said, where you going with that gun in your hand?"
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philinkorea



Joined: 27 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 4:50 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Quote:
peppermint wrote:
what if the guy didn't know she was married? I'm not advocating wife beating, but isn't the person who strayed at least as at fault if not more so here?


No. He is guilty.


i have to disagree with this. if someone slept with mine or a friends wife or gf i would be really annoyed obviously. however what if a married woman came onto you and wanted to sleep with you would you just turn it down. for most guys i think definitely not. i know people who this has happened to and i would definitely say she is more in the wrong although if i was the girls husband or a friend of his i would most definitely want to kill him.

with regards the article it certainly didnt give me a nice feeling as someone earlier quoted. i gave it to my free talk class. they were suspicious of the methodology as to who would be using the internet to look at those type of sites and perhaps also due to the nature of the society they just liked to say they were cheating. however, its all bad, in fact awful. i think its a really sad case. once your married that must be it
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