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What is an appropriate gift to bring?
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casey's moon



Joined: 14 Sep 2004
Location: Daejeon

PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 10:24 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

mindmetoo wrote:
casey's moon wrote:
whatthefunk wrote:
I went with the honey. It was still on the bosses desk, unopened, a year later when I left. Save your money.



what's with that???

I'm not that surprised though.... I got my (now) mother-in-law some neat fruit teas from Canada, and she didn't open them until 2 years later.


Honey doesn't seem to be part of the Korean diet. It's like when I was a tourist and would give little things of maple syrup to Korean who helped me find some tourist site. I'd give them a little bottle of maple syrup for their help. They seemed very happy to get a small gift but then they were like "so ummm what do I do with it?" "You put it on pancakes." "Pancakes?"

This is why I say go with the smoked salmon. Koreans love fish.


Salmon did go over well the next time I came back from Canada. But honey is also good -- they like it to make honey tea if nothing else -- which is what "good" wives make for their husbands after a hard night of alcohol. Rolling Eyes
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Swiss James



Joined: 26 Nov 2003
Location: Shanghai

PostPosted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 11:13 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

don't roll your eyes at me young lady- now get in that kitchen and MAKE ME SOME GODDAMN HONEY TEA!!
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fidel



Joined: 07 Feb 2003
Location: North Shore NZ

PostPosted: Fri Mar 11, 2005 4:11 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Don't bring anything, it's not expected. This is my second year at my current high school and I've yet to even meet the principal. As for that quip that Koreans only drink ggod whisky, bollocks, never heard of Captain Q!
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eamo



Joined: 08 Mar 2003
Location: Shepherd's Bush, 1964.

PostPosted: Fri Mar 11, 2005 6:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

fidel wrote:
Don't bring anything, it's not expected. This is my second year at my current high school and I've yet to even meet the principal. As for that quip that Koreans only drink ggod whisky, bollocks, never heard of Captain Q!


True and true. Yet not true (thinking like a Korean here).

Your average employer in Korea does not expect a gift. They are aware western people don't do the gift thing like East Asians do.

Yet, they will be chuffed if you bring a gift. Major gold star in your credit. Always a good thing.

As far as whiskey goes....Yes. most male Hagwon managers will appreciate whiskey as a gift but you don't have to worry about paying shed-loads for the best Scottish single malt. Any international brand bollocks will do. Ballantines or Johnny Walker are safe choices. Don't buy them good stuff. They won't appreciate it.
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tzechuk



Joined: 20 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Fri Mar 11, 2005 4:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

eamo wrote:
fidel wrote:
Don't bring anything, it's not expected. This is my second year at my current high school and I've yet to even meet the principal. As for that quip that Koreans only drink ggod whisky, bollocks, never heard of Captain Q!


True and true. Yet not true (thinking like a Korean here).

Your average employer in Korea does not expect a gift. They are aware western people don't do the gift thing like East Asians do.

Yet, they will be chuffed if you bring a gift. Major gold star in your credit. Always a good thing.

As far as whiskey goes....Yes. most male Hagwon managers will appreciate whiskey as a gift but you don't have to worry about paying shed-loads for the best Scottish single malt. Any international brand bollocks will do. Ballantines or Johnny Walker are safe choices. Don't buy them good stuff. They won't appreciate it.


But you get those in Korea. Better bring a brand that is good but not readily available in Korea. They like to show off if it is different from your average Joe.
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casey's moon



Joined: 14 Sep 2004
Location: Daejeon

PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 12:37 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Swiss James wrote:
don't roll your eyes at me young lady- now get in that kitchen and MAKE ME SOME GODDAMN HONEY TEA!!


Sad ok Sad Sad Sad
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 1:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

So it seems honey and whiskey are still the leading gift ideas. I was thinking of Crown Royal for the whiskey, which is considered a top shelf brand in the US. It's the only whiskey I'll drink (not a big whiskey fan). As far as the honey goes, I have no idea what the hard white honey is. I will just go to the health food store and buy some local made honey.

The dried salmon idea sounds a bit tacky, imo. Don't they already have fish in Korea? I'd kinda like to bring something that says foreign, as people always like to get things from other countries.

The teacher whom I am replacing at the school said the principal will most likely try to befriend me, as he did him, since I'm the only foreign teacher and the principal wants to improve his English. I appreciate the warranted cynicism from some, but there's just no way I'm going to show up without a gift. Even if it serves as a paperweight and never gets used, I believe it's the thought that counts.


Also, for the kids, I have bought several types of chewing gum, a bag of Cream Savers (savory hard candy), and twenty packs of Garbage Pail Kids cards (fun little trading cards with goofy, gross characters on them). I also got a Koosh ball to toss back and forth to the kids during Q & A sessions. I'll probably hit the dollar store to see what else I can find. If anyone has suggestions, serve 'em up!

Cheers,
Qinella
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Ody



Joined: 27 Jan 2003
Location: over here

PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 5:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

casey's moon wrote:
But actually, if you do want to give something from your home country, I suggest honey. Korean honey is not that great and a little expensive -- but it is something that Koreans do like.


yes x 10!
Casey's moon beat me to it. When asked, my suggestion is always honey. it's also what i request when friends and family visit me here.
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Grotto



Joined: 21 Mar 2004

PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 6:12 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

if you want to bring something for your students get a big bunch of 'Warheads" super sour candy.

I brought a big bunch back with me and my students love them.
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
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PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 11:19 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Grotto wrote:
if you want to bring something for your students get a big bunch of 'Warheads" super sour candy.

I brought a big bunch back with me and my students love them.


Great idea, thanks!
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peppermint



Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.

PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 12:49 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

pencils with erasers on the end. for some reason they're kind of rare here.
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teachingld2004



Joined: 29 Mar 2004

PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 1:14 pm    Post subject: what to bring. Reply with quote

I would bring over some ground coffee. The coffee here is expensive and not the best. I dont mean "starbuks" either. That they can get here.

When I go home I bring a branc called 8 o'clock that is a grand total of 2 or 3 dollars a bag, and I think it is great coffee.

As far as the kids go, I would not give them things right off the bat. They do not know garbage pail kids. We may think they are funny, but they may think they are gross. (of corse to them peeing in the street is not gross, so go figure...)

You can bring pencils with erasers (that ws a good suggestion) but only use them as prizes whne needed. If you give them thigs right off the bat they will come to expect it, and perhaps get angry when you dont give them things.

Also, don't be so concerned about gifts right away. It is nice for you to bring coffee (i love coffee) or honey if you prefer, but this can be saved for Christmas, Choosok, or Lunar New Year. That is when people will give you all these strange gifts. (well, most likely not for christmas.) I did get a few pair of underware from students, and plenty of spam. Spam I gave away all except one can that I still ahve from 3 years ago. Guess it is time to throw it out. That is something I amy but proberly not eat if I was desperate, or if I needed to throw up. Just the smell gets me sick.

This year for Lunar New Year I got great stuff, 4 bottles of olive oil, pine nuts, and this wonderful shampoo and conditioner from the body shop.

Just remember to bring FOR YOURSELF some of the foods you love the most. Welcome to Korea
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tzechuk



Joined: 20 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 5:42 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

peppermint wrote:
pencils with erasers on the end. for some reason they're kind of rare here.


You can buy them in carrefour. A pack of 12 costs around 2,500 won with Tweety Pie pictures on. Very cute.
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redbird



Joined: 07 Mar 2005

PostPosted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 9:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was thinking about bringing over a bunch of quarters with the design on the back of my home state of Illinois. How do you think that might go over as a small gift? Or would other states be more interesting?
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Mon Mar 14, 2005 2:06 pm    Post subject: Re: what to bring. Reply with quote

teachingld2004 wrote:
I would bring over some ground coffee. The coffee here is expensive and not the best. I dont mean "starbuks" either. That they can get here.


But Starbucks is the best coffee out there... I'm confused. Wink

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As far as the kids go, I would not give them things right off the bat. They do not know garbage pail kids. We may think they are funny, but they may think they are gross. (of corse to them peeing in the street is not gross, so go figure...)

You can bring pencils with erasers (that ws a good suggestion) but only use them as prizes whne needed. If you give them thigs right off the bat they will come to expect it, and perhaps get angry when you dont give them things.


Thanks, that's great advice that I hadn't thought of.
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