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ADVICE FROM MARRIED GUYS!
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mercury



Joined: 05 Dec 2004
Location: Pusan

PostPosted: Fri Apr 08, 2005 3:28 am    Post subject: ADVICE FROM MARRIED GUYS! Reply with quote

Man, how do you do it? I mean, I walk down the street with a girl, and although she is fine looking, I MUST look at about a dozen other fine women I pass! There are just too many fine girls here! How did you choose just one? I date Korean girls, but then get kind of tired of them, I mean the temptation to just keep meeting girls is so strong here, tall fine ones with long hair and perfect bodies, short cute ones with short hair and fine bodies, etc...etc..etc........... How do you give up chasing????????
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Daechidong Waygookin



Joined: 22 Nov 2004
Location: No Longer on Dave's. Ive quit.

PostPosted: Fri Apr 08, 2005 3:32 am    Post subject: Re: ADVICE FROM MARRIED GUYS! Reply with quote

mercury wrote:
Man, how do you do it? I mean, I walk down the street with a girl, and although she is fine looking, I MUST look at about a dozen other fine women I pass! There are just too many fine girls here! How did you choose just one? I date Korean girls, but then get kind of tired of them, I mean the temptation to just keep meeting girls is so strong here, tall fine ones with long hair and perfect bodies, short cute ones with short hair and fine bodies, etc...etc..etc........... How do you give up chasing????????


You will know when you meet that one. You still havent. Thats why you are still chasing tail. Sure, there are tons of fine girls walking around and mini skirt season is just starting, but when you meet that one, you will understand. Its fine to still look, just make sure you do it carefully. Be discrete:)
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Captain Corea



Joined: 28 Feb 2005
Location: Seoul

PostPosted: Fri Apr 08, 2005 4:52 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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ow do you give up chasing????????


I too enjoy the "sights of Seoul" but when I go home my wife is the only one on my mind.

All of those great lookin' skirts are all just girls with their own problems. I'd rather the problems I know and love.
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SuperFly



Joined: 09 Jul 2003
Location: In the doghouse

PostPosted: Fri Apr 08, 2005 5:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

*sings*

You can look at the menu but you just can��t eat
You can feel the cushions but you can��t have a seat
You can dip your foot in the pool but you can��t have a swim
You can feel the punishment but you can��t commit the sin
And you want her and she wants you
We want everyone
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Derrek



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Fri Apr 08, 2005 5:48 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Captain Corea wrote:
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ow do you give up chasing????????


I too enjoy the "sights of Seoul" but when I go home my wife is the only one on my mind.

All of those great lookin' skirts are all just girls with their own problems. I'd rather the problems I know and love.



HAHAHAAHAH!!!! Ain't that the truth!!!!

The devil you know is often better than the devil you don't!
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Derrek



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Fri Apr 08, 2005 5:49 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

SuperFly wrote:
*sings*

You can look at the menu but you just can��t eat
You can feel the cushions but you can��t have a seat
You can dip your foot in the pool but you can��t have a swim
You can feel the punishment but you can��t commit the sin
And you want her and she wants you
We want everyone


Oh, wow.... never thought about what that song is talking about. ha
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Homer
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PostPosted: Sat Apr 09, 2005 5:26 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

You will know when:

a) You grow up some more and your perspective on things change.

b) You meet the right one.

c) You learn that it is more interesting to get to know one person over a long period then to go "chasing tail" and running after "girls with fine bodies"

Then again, perhaps you will never get there, many guys don't and thats not something that is necessarily bad. Just depends on the person.

As others said, looking is normal but it is the same for me, my wife is the one for me. I am happy to come home to her every night (for over 5 years now). Why? Because she is amazing.
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Cedar



Joined: 11 Mar 2003
Location: In front of my computer, again.

PostPosted: Sat Apr 09, 2005 5:45 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Well, I'm not a guy, but I sure was enraptured with my share of eye-candy during much of my stay in Korea. That having been said, even today I know I can look at a guy and say "Wow!" but then, if I just wait a few minutes, observing, or talk to them, it won't take long before I realize that I could -never- have been happy with them. After having had that experience hit me like --enlightenment-- about February 7th 2004 I realized that I was ready for marriage and ready to ignore the rest of the guys on the planet. So far... so good!
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Squid



Joined: 25 Jul 2003
Location: Sunny Anyang

PostPosted: Sat Apr 09, 2005 5:54 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

It gets me that there's so much hoo ha over 20-odd year old guys drinking beer and running around after girls. Hell, that's what 20-odd year old guys do for f** sake! I don't care what nationality they are!

Have your fun and when it comes time and she catches your eye for sure, then you'll be sure too. I was and still am.
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crazykiwi



Joined: 07 Jun 2003
Location: new zealand via daejeon

PostPosted: Sat Apr 09, 2005 9:31 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

You can always ,as both a man and woman, appreciate "a fine peice of booty", but thats all you do. look but dont touch is my wifes moto to me. But hey, the fine booty always keeps walkin right on past, but my own fine piece of booty will always be by my side.
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Tiberious aka Sparkles



Joined: 23 Jan 2003
Location: I'm one cool cat!

PostPosted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 12:18 am    Post subject: Re: ADVICE FROM MARRIED GUYS! Reply with quote

Daechidong Waygookin wrote:
Its fine to still look...


Amen.

Sparkles*_*
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 1:58 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

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How do you give up chasing


Well, some don't. "I have this woman but can I trade up?" But I think if you're sane and can keep it in your pants and you're not God's gift to women, you think "it took me enough to find this woman I'm with. Those other women might have eye candy appeal but realistically they probably don't want to sleep with me. The woman on my arm does. So, for that, I'm happy."
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the_beaver



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 2:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Homer wrote:
You will know when:

a) You grow up some more and your perspective on things change.

b) You meet the right one.

c) You learn that it is more interesting to get to know one person over a long period then to go "chasing tail" and running after "girls with fine bodies"

Then again, perhaps you will never get there, many guys don't and thats not something that is necessarily bad. Just depends on the person.

As others said, looking is normal but it is the same for me, my wife is the one for me. I am happy to come home to her every night (for over 5 years now). Why? Because she is amazing.


You're out of your gourd.
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Blind Willie



Joined: 05 May 2004

PostPosted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 2:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Homer wrote:
You will know when:

a) You grow up some more and your perspective on things change.

b) You meet the right one.

c) You learn that it is more interesting to get to know one person over a long period then to go "chasing tail" and running after "girls with fine bodies"

Then again, perhaps you will never get there, many guys don't and thats not something that is necessarily bad. Just depends on the person.

As others said, looking is normal but it is the same for me, my wife is the one for me. I am happy to come home to her every night (for over 5 years now). Why? Because she is amazing.

You crazy adult, you!
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Blind Willie



Joined: 05 May 2004

PostPosted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 2:21 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Squid wrote:
It gets me that there's so much hoo ha over 20-odd year old guys drinking beer and running around after girls. Hell, that's what 20-odd year old guys do for f** sake! I don't care what nationality they are!

This is true. The problem comes when they're well past 20 and acting the same way. It's that joke about being the old guy at the club: He aint old, he's just too old to be at the club.
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