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lastat06513
Joined: 18 Mar 2003 Location: Sensus amo Caesar , etiamnunc victus amo uni plebian
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Posted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 6:12 pm Post subject: For the lifers~ How do you do it? |
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I know that Korea is mostly a short-term experience.
But what about those of us who have been here for 5> years. What motivates you to stay?
I know the most likely answer would be "My family", but there has to be more than just that to make you want to stay here.
So what makes Korea your home? |
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Daechidong Waygookin

Joined: 22 Nov 2004 Location: No Longer on Dave's. Ive quit.
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Posted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 6:16 pm Post subject: Re: For the lifers~ How do you do it? |
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lastat06513 wrote: |
I know that Korea is mostly a short-term experience.
But what about those of us who have been here for 5> years. What motivates you to stay?
I know the most likely answer would be "My family", but there has to be more than just that to make you want to stay here.
So what makes Korea your home? |
My wife and her family. I enjoy living here, I have set myself up here financially and socially. Why leave? Start again? Home is where family is and thats here for me just as much as "back home" is. So it comes down to other things like finances and such. |
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the_beaver

Joined: 15 Jan 2003
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Posted: Sun Apr 10, 2005 11:42 pm Post subject: |
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Well, the option is going back home and Canada sucks ass.
Actually, it's because I have a comfortable life here that I don't think I could duplicate it back home. |
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mj roach
Joined: 16 Mar 2003
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 1:00 am Post subject: For the lifers~how do you do it? |
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I don't think of myself as a lifer, nor do I consider Korea home.
I left after the first 3 hassle filled years and while away for a year, found that I had not risen to the challenges offered here daily.
Some difficult situations and places bring out the best or the worst in people; those first years brought out the worst in me.
After a stress free year elsewhere in Asia, I decided to return. It may sound strange, but it's like being in a giant rock polisher; every day working on another facet...smoothing out the rough edges. I hope I've become more tolerant and less judgemental.
Anyway, it's been another 5 years now, and sooner or later, it's off to other experiences. |
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Zark

Joined: 12 May 2003 Location: Phuket, Thailand: Look into my eyes . . .
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 1:11 am Post subject: |
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Other than those with families - I find it surprising that so many teachers here don't think about their options in other countries. I know the net savings possible here - is quite motivating, but there are other countries where you can save money (with comparable qualification requirements) and other countries with much higher quality of life. And how about just seeing if you can be as successful in one more country?
I'm about to hit a total of five years here (2.5 in 92-95, and 2003 to now), but also expect that I will be gone next year - back to Thailand.
I gots me wandering shoes on . . . |
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tomato

Joined: 31 Jan 2003 Location: I get so little foreign language experience, I must be in Koreatown, Los Angeles.
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Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 1:14 am Post subject: |
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If you're autistic like I am, it doesn't matter whether you're in a foreign culture which you can't fit into or whether you're in your native culture which you can't fit into.
Someone on Mith's Place asked a similar question, and this is what I wrote:
�� not having to worry about income tax
�� letting someone else worry about apartment-hunting
�� the absence of sexual abuse hysteria
�� not having to live under George W. Bush
�� the multiplicity of small businesses
�� the challenge of learning a foreign language
�� the enjoyment of learning to play Korean folk instruments
�� the enjoyment of learning Korean sign language
�� the simple fact that I can't get a job in my own country |
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masuro
Joined: 22 Apr 2003 Location: Gangwon, Inje-kun, Hanam Village
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 6:04 pm Post subject: |
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There are material reasons why I stay here (easy to find a job and save money) but I also feel comfortable here. Korean friends tell me I'm "like a Korean" and "Perhaps you were an Asian in a former life." Possibly I lived in Asia in a former life but I think I have an 'Oriental' personality and that's why I feel comfortable. Oddly, my Korean wife has a Western personality. Maybe that's why we have a good marriage; we meet in the middle somewhere.
I've been here ten years. Can anyone beat my record?  |
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wild sphere

Joined: 11 Dec 2004 Location: i might as well be on mars 'cause that's how far away i feel from you.
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 6:07 pm Post subject: Re: For the lifers~ How do you do it? |
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lastat06513 wrote: |
I know that Korea is mostly a short-term experience.
But what about those of us who have been here for 5> years. What motivates you to stay?
I know the most likely answer would be "My family", but there has to be more than just that to make you want to stay here.
So what makes Korea your home? |
NOOKIE, BABY! nookie. just can't seem to live without it and i never seem to get enough of it.  |
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Poker-Guy

Joined: 25 May 2004 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 6:26 pm Post subject: The Jobs |
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I work ten hours a week; I have 4 1/2 months paid vacation; I get paid a lot. It's a simple life choice. |
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wild sphere

Joined: 11 Dec 2004 Location: i might as well be on mars 'cause that's how far away i feel from you.
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 6:31 pm Post subject: Re: The Jobs |
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Poker-Guy wrote: |
I work ten hours a week; I have 4 1/2 months paid vacation; I get paid a lot. It's a simple life choice. |
yeah, but how much nookie do you get a day there? is the nookie supplied by the school or do you have to find your own?  |
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Poker-Guy

Joined: 25 May 2004 Location: Seoul
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 6:33 pm Post subject: Uni |
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All woman's Uni. You figure it out.  |
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wild sphere

Joined: 11 Dec 2004 Location: i might as well be on mars 'cause that's how far away i feel from you.
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 6:41 pm Post subject: |
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are they hiring? |
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Toby

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Location: Wedded Bliss
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 7:37 pm Post subject: |
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Korea isn't full of English people.
That's my reason to stay. |
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Toby

Joined: 15 Jan 2003 Location: Wedded Bliss
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 7:43 pm Post subject: |
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Plus of course, in no particular order:
1) Cheap cost of travel - taxis, buses, subways and air.
2) My wife.
3) My dog.
4) My job.
5) My main salary.
6) My other salary.
7) My other salary.
8 ) My other salary.
9) My other salary.
10) My cheap, but in the most prestigious area, house.
11) Cheap beer.
12) My students.
13) No Tony Blair.
14) No, or very little, crime.
15) Food.
16) Cheap bills.
17) Ability to save 66% or so of my salary and still have a great lifestyle.
18 ) No tax.
19) No pension.
20) Private healthcare.
21) The area in which I live.
22) The hours which I choose to do.
23) The knowledge I will be able to go home one day with a fat lump of money.
........I could go on. |
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Daechidong Waygookin

Joined: 22 Nov 2004 Location: No Longer on Dave's. Ive quit.
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Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2005 7:48 pm Post subject: |
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Toby wrote: |
Plus of course, in no particular order:
10) My cheap, but in the most prestigious area, house.
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Daechidong in Kangnam? Unless its Daechidong, you cant claim "most prestigious are" status you poseur. |
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