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periwinkle



Joined: 08 Feb 2003

PostPosted: Mon May 02, 2005 6:12 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

As per the giggling: What up with the unprofessional attitude? Maybe giggling while digging around in your arm with a needle isn't considered unprofessional here? I realize some people don't know how to deal with a foreigner, but if I'm in an uncomfortable situation, I put on a poker face, you know? I know some people will defend the giggling, but HANDS DOWN this is my biggest pet peeve here. If someone is obviously uncomfortable with me, it makes me feel badly because I am causing the negative feeling, even though it's not intentional. Such idiotic behavior, really.

I went to a doctor (with my Korean fiance), and there were 3 nurses in the room. I was embarrassed because of the lack of privacy (I'm shy taking my shirt off in front of a bunch of strangers). Well, the giggling mortified me, and I complained about to my boyfriend (after we left). He got pissed at me (can't say anything negative about anything Korean to him). Told me I had an attitude problem (I was really sick, btw- not in a good mood at the time). And he wonders why I truck all the way to Hannam-dong to see an OB/GYN (my female OB/GYN deals with tons of foreigners, speaks excellent English, and was trained in the UK).
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mercury



Joined: 05 Dec 2004
Location: Pusan

PostPosted: Mon May 02, 2005 7:05 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

periwinkle wrote:
As per the giggling: What up with the unprofessional attitude? Maybe giggling while digging around in your arm with a needle isn't considered unprofessional here? I realize some people don't know how to deal with a foreigner, but if I'm in an uncomfortable situation, I put on a poker face, you know? I know some people will defend the giggling, but HANDS DOWN this is my biggest pet peeve here. If someone is obviously uncomfortable with me, it makes me feel badly because I am causing the negative feeling, even though it's not intentional. Such idiotic behavior, really.

I went to a doctor (with my Korean fiance), and there were 3 nurses in the room. I was embarrassed because of the lack of privacy (I'm shy taking my shirt off in front of a bunch of strangers). Well, the giggling mortified me, and I complained about to my boyfriend (after we left). He got pissed at me (can't say anything negative about anything Korean to him). Told me I had an attitude problem (I was really sick, btw- not in a good mood at the time). And he wonders why I truck all the way to Hannam-dong to see an OB/GYN (my female OB/GYN deals with tons of foreigners, speaks excellent English, and was trained in the UK).




Hey, there seems to be some red flags in your relationship. He "got pissed" at you because you were embarassed? Is that the kind of person you want to be with? If this is a small peak inside of his behavior, I think you are in for some major problems. Imagine a life where you must hold your feelings inside, walking on eggshells, always afraid to express your true thoughts. An understanding mate is something that can be as precious as gold. Marriage is a long long haul, be wise Wink
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Derrek



Joined: 15 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Mon May 02, 2005 7:37 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

sid wrote:
I simply cannot resist this opportunity for a Derrek moment:

My Korean girlfriend, who is a Korean nurse in Korea, qualified with a three-year diploma.


OH SHIT! She's your girlfriend?

Dude, I'm sorry.... we really have to talk!
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kermo



Joined: 01 Sep 2004
Location: Eating eggs, with a comb, out of a shoe.

PostPosted: Mon May 02, 2005 7:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I've been to a few doctors in the last few months, as my health has taken a nose dive, and I've been amazed at the "God complex" a couple have had. I know this is relatively common in the profession, but I've never before seen:

--doctors making a diagnosis and prescribing medicine without even the most cursory of examinations. How hard is it to take someone's temperature, or have a peek down their throat? They listen to a few symptoms and make their pronouncements. One doctor informed me that my bladder infection was "kidney stones" and my swollen lymph nodes were "blocked salivary glands."

--doctors prescribing medicine for problems you haven't discussed. I've started doing research on the meds they send me home with after I realized I was being given digestive enzymes along with my antibiotics. I'm very thankful I did after a doctor gave me Macperan to treat a common cold. The nurses told me it was for "diet", but the Internet indicated that it is a "dopamine receptor blocker." No messing with my brain chemistry, thanks. I'll just drink some lemon tea.
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jazblanc77



Joined: 22 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Tue May 03, 2005 12:10 am    Post subject: Re: Nurses in Korea......... Reply with quote

mercury wrote:
The first time I met a nurse in Korea, I had to get a physical. She took my blood pressure, tried to take out some blood, and what surprised me most was the fact that she really did not seem like she knew what she was doing. After a few giggles, she finally called an older woman who was able to get the job done. I heard from some of my students that to become a nurse, a girl usually takes night classes, and it sounded like a sort of 'nurses aid' in the states. Two years of night classes and they can wear the uniform, the hat, and they look like nurses, but I really wonder what lies behind the 'construct'. I had a good friend who was a nurse in the states, he was always telling me how tough it was, he also told me he was part of some kind of international nurses organization with only a small group of countries (Canada, England, New Zealand , Austrailia and I believe South Africa) that were allowed to participate. After seeing how many of my students study English (ten minutes of work, twenty minutes of checking the cell phone, ten minutes of looking in the mirror, ten minute private conversation with friend) I am a bit worried about having a 'nurse' help me.


My SIL is a nurse and you were not mistaken in your understanding of the nursing industry in Korea. The two year "nurses" are, in fact, nurse's aids and they are pretty darn useless, to say the least. There are also full fledged nurses who take school for 3-4 years in fully accreditted programs. The sad truth is that lots of clinics and hospitals prefer to hire tall, beautiful, and unqualified nurse's aids instead of actual nurses because they are cheaper to employ. Emergency and intensive care units, especially, are almost always staffed by the elite corps of real nurses while the rest are more likely to be nurse's aids.
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peppergirl



Joined: 07 Dec 2003

PostPosted: Tue May 03, 2005 3:10 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

kermo wrote:


--doctors prescribing medicine for problems you haven't discussed. I've started doing research on the meds they send me home with after I realized I was being given digestive enzymes along with my antibiotics.


That's common practice in Japan too, always something for the stomach with antibiotics, so your stomach wouldn't get upset after taking them. If you take your antibiotics after a meal you can leave them out.
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Wrench



Joined: 07 Apr 2005

PostPosted: Tue May 03, 2005 3:47 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I liked the doctors here, the Korean doctor knew about my nasal problems then any doc in Canada. He fixed me up good, after a month and half of sickness I am fit as a fiddle. Although the nose cleaning are some thing to get use too.
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Bozo Yoroshiku



Joined: 23 Feb 2005
Location: Outside ???'s house with a pair of binoculars

PostPosted: Wed May 04, 2005 1:37 am    Post subject: Re: Nurses in Korea......... Reply with quote

Koreabound2004 wrote:
the principal came back with, "Well, Korean healthcare system is better than Canada's..."

I probably would have been fired on the spot... sorry, but there's NO WAY I would have been able to withhold the uproarious guffaws that statement would have brought had he said that to me. Utterly ridiculous.


--boz
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