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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Tue Jul 05, 2005 6:41 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Alias wrote:
Yu_Bum_suk wrote:
And one more thing - if you let this *beep* continue, you're only producing scores if not hundreds of little Korean brats who will continue to treat foreigners with the utmost disrespect and will have to be much more harshly corrected at some point in the future to set them straight.


This cannot be done in your typical Hagwon environment.


That's why I quit my hogwan job, lol.
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Qinella



Joined: 25 Feb 2005
Location: the crib

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 12:04 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

deessell wrote:
Two words



LOVE STICK!!!!!!!Get one fast. You don't have to hit the students, but I make a pretty big bang on the desk.

Also try isolating the trouble maker. Make him/her sit next to you. Make him/her give out the hand outs. He is now your personal slave. Give him attention. I have recruited most of my trouble makers now and they are on my side. There are only a few left to deal with. I don't have a co teacher and I'm a female teacher in a co -ed high school.

Good luck and remember there are students who do want to learn but fun time is over!!


There's a shop in Insadong that sells thick bamboo sticks with a split down the middle, so when you slam them on something they make a loud cracking noise. Viscerally pleasing, to be sure, and only 2,000 won.

If you're gonna go that route...
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Alias



Joined: 24 Jan 2003

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 4:20 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yu_Bum_suk wrote:
Alias wrote:
Yu_Bum_suk wrote:
And one more thing - if you let this *beep* continue, you're only producing scores if not hundreds of little Korean brats who will continue to treat foreigners with the utmost disrespect and will have to be much more harshly corrected at some point in the future to set them straight.


This cannot be done in your typical Hagwon environment.


That's why I quit my hogwan job, lol.


Same here. My white clown days are over.
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mindmetoo



Joined: 02 Feb 2004

PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 5:05 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

Qinella wrote:
deessell wrote:
Two words



LOVE STICK!!!!!!!Get one fast. You don't have to hit the students, but I make a pretty big bang on the desk.

Also try isolating the trouble maker. Make him/her sit next to you. Make him/her give out the hand outs. He is now your personal slave. Give him attention. I have recruited most of my trouble makers now and they are on my side. There are only a few left to deal with. I don't have a co teacher and I'm a female teacher in a co -ed high school.

Good luck and remember there are students who do want to learn but fun time is over!!


There's a shop in Insadong that sells thick bamboo sticks with a split down the middle, so when you slam them on something they make a loud cracking noise. Viscerally pleasing, to be sure, and only 2,000 won.

If you're gonna go that route...


The Korean teachers all use paint mixers with some tape padding. I've got a block of wood I call my "namu" and I bang it on the desk and the chalkboard. A couple times I've had to stab a kid in the chest with it when I took their cell phone and they made a rush to my podium for it.
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plattwaz



Joined: 08 Apr 2005
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PostPosted: Wed Jul 06, 2005 5:30 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

I really feel for the OP....I dealt with this when I worked in a large publice school, although not in Korea.

My co-teachers spoke no English, and they were there to enforce discipline. This usually amounted to them sitting at the back and doing their marking (fine), but they would walk up to a student in the middle of class and ask them to hand out the marked notebooks while I was teaching or while we were doing an activity. This resulted in chaos as they all flipped open their notebooks, examined their results, shared them with their friends, etc etc.
No amoutn of complaining to any authority above the native teachers resulted in any change....it was just "a cultural thing" they told me. So in other words, while the students were MAKING OUT in the back of the classroom, and running on top of desks, screaming obscenities at me, etc, I had NO HELP AT ALL.

I eventually resorted to lines, which I have always been against. But, I always made sure that they were HUGE sentences, so that they couldn't just write I, I, I, I, I, I, will, will, will, will, will ....you get the point.

I wrote the sentence on the board with a number, like 20 beside it. Each time someone made any audible vocal noice, or got out of their seat, I increased it by 10. The first time I did this it took to 250 before they clued in. We sat in class and wrote lines all day. For every person who didn't finish them for homework, I added 10 more for the entire class to be done that day.

This went on for two full weeks. I had to sign a register at the front of the classroom every day that went to the principal to say what we had done in class, and I wrote exactly what we did....we wrote lines. In the end, the students had written "Even tough I do not like the fact that I have to learn English, my parents have enrolled me in a bilingual education school and therefore I will respect my English teacher the same way I respect my Thai teachers, " over 1000 times.

Although the lines didn't really work in terms of changing their behaviour it meant I had at least some control and some peace and quiet during the 90 minutes I had to be in the classroom.

What did work was that the entire class failed my final exam and had to do that level of English over again. With me. Absolute ANGELS they were the next semester.................
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The Kung Fu Hustle



Joined: 30 Jan 2005
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PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2005 7:32 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

If anyone has some tips for hagwon control I'd like to hear about it. I know it's a Mickey Mouse show as far as learning is concerned, and I'm usually content to stand and take the abuse for the great money, but one class in particular makes me lose my cool about once a month. The boss doesn't help either, because despite his great English and relative compassion he still needs bums on seats.


These kids swear at me, pull the finger, do the exact opposite of what I say, run out the classroom and around the enitre building sporadically, and even beat themselves so they'll have a bruise so they can frame me for hitting them!??
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peppermint



Joined: 13 May 2003
Location: traversing the minefields of caddishness.

PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2005 7:39 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Qinella wrote:
deessell wrote:
Two words
LOVE STICK!!!!!!!Get one fast. You don't have to hit the students, but I make a pretty big bang on the desk.


There's a shop in Insadong that sells thick bamboo sticks with a split down the middle, so when you slam them on something they make a loud cracking noise. Viscerally pleasing, to be sure, and only 2,000 won.

If you're gonna go that route...

Don't follow this advice- please. From what I understand, when the last crack down on school brutality was going on, the government passed a law concerning love sticks and what size was acceptable. I am fairly sure that the ones Quinella is mentioning are too big. ( countdown to someone commenting on the connotations of that. .)

Anyway, if you aren't planning to hit the kids with it, then I assume the rules concerning size won't apply, but better safe than sorry.
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Tue Jul 12, 2005 7:40 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

The Kung Fu Hustle wrote:
If anyone has some tips for hagwon control I'd like to hear about it. I know it's a Mickey Mouse show as far as learning is concerned, and I'm usually content to stand and take the abuse for the great money, but one class in particular makes me lose my cool about once a month. The boss doesn't help either, because despite his great English and relative compassion he still needs bums on seats.


These kids swear at me, pull the finger, do the exact opposite of what I say, run out the classroom and around the enitre building sporadically, and even beat themselves so they'll have a bruise so they can frame me for hitting them!??


Quit? I sure as hell would if I had students trying to frame me.
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JacktheCat



Joined: 08 May 2004

PostPosted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 2:46 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

peppermint wrote:

From what I understand, when the last crack down on school brutality was going on, the government passed a law concerning love sticks and what size was acceptable. I am fairly sure that the ones Quinella is mentioning are too big.



Quite true.

There is a government law for the maximum allowed length and diameter of "love sticks". Tells you how much violence is institutionalised into Korean school culture.

My high school VP has his old (now illegal) love stick, an old aluminium bat, framed and mounted over his desk. The dings and dents on it make me shiver to think what he got up to with it.
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ulsanchris



Joined: 19 Jun 2003
Location: take a wild guess

PostPosted: Wed Jul 13, 2005 3:23 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

A question for the OP. What happened at your school? Any updates?
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KorJen



Joined: 15 Mar 2005

PostPosted: Thu Aug 18, 2005 5:48 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Update....

Well this is the 4th month now, and things seems to be smoothing out.. I have institutes a 3 strikes and your out policy. I positively reinforce those students who do whet they are asked and I humilate those who step out of line. If I have to deal with them more than twice, i pack up all their books, take them by the arm and throw their books down the hallway of the school... i then lock the door behind them and say "HOME".... Almost all the trouble makers have quit, since they kept getting sent home. When the company questioned me about losing students (ie losing money) I simply stated that I was through teaching in a hogwan and that i would not put up with this behaviour. I stood my ground and it appears to be working... I guess time will tell... but its going better for sure...
Thanks for all the posts...
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Thu Aug 18, 2005 5:59 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

KorJen wrote:
Update....

Well this is the 4th month now, and things seems to be smoothing out.. I have institutes a 3 strikes and your out policy. I positively reinforce those students who do whet they are asked and I humilate those who step out of line. If I have to deal with them more than twice, i pack up all their books, take them by the arm and throw their books down the hallway of the school... i then lock the door behind them and say "HOME".... Almost all the trouble makers have quit, since they kept getting sent home. When the company questioned me about losing students (ie losing money) I simply stated that I was through teaching in a hogwan and that i would not put up with this behaviour. I stood my ground and it appears to be working... I guess time will tell... but its going better for sure...
Thanks for all the posts...


Well Done!!! Hopefully the parents of the good ones will come to appreciate you as a teacher who's going to ensure they get their money's worth, and you can actually use reputation, rather than wongjongnim-babo using bull shit, to enhance your hogwan's image.
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Scott in HK



Joined: 15 Jan 2003
Location: now in Incheon..haven't changed my name yet

PostPosted: Thu Aug 18, 2005 9:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Two things that bother me about your classroom management decisions.

Although I understand that many people used the 3 strikes rule...most books about discipline recomment immediate consequences to rule breaking. Why teach your students that they can do something wrong twice before they will experience the consequences of their actions. So, I would work this out of your classes as soon as possible.

Second...there is no justification for humiliating students. The consequence of rule breaking should not be humiliation in front of the class. That is simply wrong. Find more appropriate consequences for your students.

With a good system of classroom management you shouldn't have to resort to throwing students out. But if you do...why wait until the second time...if certain behaviours demand removal of the student, do it the first time they break that rule...why give them a freebie...
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babtangee



Joined: 18 Dec 2004
Location: OMG! Charlie has me surrounded!

PostPosted: Thu Aug 18, 2005 10:23 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Scott in HK wrote:
...if certain behaviours demand removal of the student, do it the first time they break that rule...why give them a freebie...


He probably doesn't want an empty classroom.
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Yu_Bum_suk



Joined: 25 Dec 2004

PostPosted: Thu Aug 18, 2005 11:03 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Scott in HK wrote:
Second...there is no justification for humiliating students. The consequence of rule breaking should not be humiliation in front of the class. That is simply wrong. Find more appropriate consequences for your students.


I'd say this depends on what one means by humiliation. If a kid's not embarrassed to make an ass of himself in front of class disrupting everything, I see no reason why he shouldn't be made a fool of in turn. I wouldn't suggest making him sit in the corner with a dunce's cap, put packing all his books away in front of everyone and sliding his bag down the corridor while bidding him goodbye and good riddence seems about right.
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